Jun 13, 2018 1:02:27 PM Me

Not sure if it's possible, but if you come across greeting cards and could get a happy birthday card for 12-year-old boy, and a thank you card for Dara's teacher Mr. Ando that would be great!

Jun 13, 2018 1:04:30 PM (Read by you after 12 seconds) +15184516476

At target they have hyperx cloud stinger should we buy 2

Jun 13, 2018 1:04:56 PM Me

Yes

Jun 13, 2018 3:20:14 PM Me

Got a note from Liz

Jun 13, 2018 3:20:14 PM Me

"Laura said you’re parents are welcome to stop by today too if they want. Let me know and I’ll tell her"

Jun 21, 2018 11:00:39 AM Me

Hope you are both feeling settled back in after a few days home. It was so great to have you visit really appreciate you taking the time and effort to do that. We hope that you enjoyed your time here and getting to see the boys graduate

Jun 21, 2018 4:34:20 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 39 minutes, 30 seconds) +15184516476

We had a great time especially the graduations just wish one of the boys with us Your mother says she could put them to work

May 25, 2022 7:29:20 PM Me

I am headed up to Dale’s house to play darts he just got in touch with me. I’m locking the door In the in the back and taking the bike I will be back before midnight

Jul 22, 2022 12:57:27 PM (Read by you after 9 seconds) +15184516476

Ok I'll go back in a. Few minutes

Dec 02, 2022 11:48:46 AM Me

He did, and he laughed when I read your text to him 😝

Dec 02, 2022 11:53:21 AM Me

Question. I have my first invoice 🧾 in and first money should hit my account in a few days. Once I pay immediately due bills, I’ll start paying you back for what you’ve covered for me thus far. I’m now asking for what I believe should be a final payment favor. My life insurance policy payment is due today, otherwise it will be canceled. It’s $184.?? Would it be possible to cover this today and add it to my list? I would like that policy not to expire, I’ve had it since Aidan was a baby. Let me know if that is doable and I can send you details Thanks for considering!

Dec 02, 2022 12:10:40 PM (Read by you after 2 seconds) +15184516476

It’s doable I hope this is the last one what is up with Declan asking Meme to put $2.99 on our Amazon account I will talk to Russell and have him transfer 184 to you

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Dec 02, 2022 12:32:11 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 40 seconds) +15184516476

I transferred 200 to Russell he will transfer it to you

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Dec 02, 2022 3:55:46 PM Me

FYI: Just off the phone with TIAA for my policy. Its paid up and did NOT lapse 😊 They were glad that I called it in. Their website was not allowing logins

Dec 02, 2022 3:55:59 PM Me

Thanks again for the help!!

Dec 02, 2022 4:05:54 PM (Read by you after 18 hours, 23 minutes, 32 seconds) +15185908211

😘

Dec 11, 2022 6:19:38 PM Me

Is it ok to call or are you watching the shows?

Dec 11, 2022 6:19:55 PM Me

Nothing urgent, can call tomorrow

Dec 11, 2022 6:21:26 PM +15185908211

Call tomorrow, everything ok?

Dec 11, 2022 6:21:39 PM Me

Yep

Dec 11, 2022 6:22:04 PM Me

I’ll call after my meetings are done, about three-ish your time

Dec 11, 2022 6:22:41 PM +15185908211

Kk works for us

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Dec 14, 2022 4:00:08 PM Me

The “Tiger Jaws” sprouted some winter flowers. Happy cactus 🌵

Dec 14, 2022 4:02:41 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 3 minutes, 54 seconds) +15185908211

Wow , beautiful, my x mas cactus has buds on it now

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Dec 18, 2022 1:18:15 PM Me

Question Do you have Sam’s club login for their website? We do not have a Sam’s membership, but see some thing on their website we would like to get sent to us. You would get credit for the purchase. So let me know if you have a login for their website, if you don’t and can send us your member number, the first name and last name that’s registered with that number we can login on their website. Let me know if you have any questions and thanks

Dec 18, 2022 2:09:12 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 55 seconds) +15184516476

We will send it too you when we get home

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Dec 18, 2022 2:28:25 PM (Read by you after 52 minutes, 15 seconds) +15185908211

Margie mahoney, 101 42100 653768721. Member since 2012

Dec 18, 2022 3:20:47 PM Me

Thanks!

Dec 18, 2022 3:21:21 PM (Read by you after 6 seconds) +15185908211

😘

Dec 18, 2022 4:54:05 PM Me

Do you have a password, there seems to be a login with dad’s email address.

Dec 18, 2022 4:54:41 PM Me

We tried to login and it came back prompting us for a password and had the J. Bert email already filled in

Dec 18, 2022 5:21:05 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 15 minutes, 58 seconds) +15184516476

addy456

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Dec 18, 2022 8:07:00 PM Me

There is a code that has been sent to you

Dec 18, 2022 8:11:20 PM +15184516476

Nothing here

Dec 18, 2022 8:13:47 PM Me

They have apparently texted you a code

Dec 18, 2022 8:14:30 PM Me

It’s emailing you a code right now

Dec 18, 2022 8:16:11 PM +15184516476

452135 you have 25 minutes

Dec 18, 2022 8:16:21 PM +15184516476

15 minutes

Dec 18, 2022 8:16:58 PM +15184516476

You better not screw my account up

Dec 18, 2022 8:22:33 PM Me

Don’t jinx me

Dec 19, 2022 2:07:26 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 42 minutes, 57 seconds) +15184516476

Any luck on the box

Dec 19, 2022 3:50:31 PM Me

Yes, we have it.

Dec 23, 2022 11:14:46 AM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 53 seconds) +15184516476

Bert the post office says your envelope was picked up it must be in the mail room

Dec 23, 2022 11:23:44 AM Me

k

Dec 23, 2022 11:24:11 AM Me

I’ll look today. Getting some work done now. 😊

Dec 24, 2022 1:10:21 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 25 minutes, 17 seconds) +15184516476

Did you get your card

Dec 25, 2022 1:35:54 PM Me

Thanks for my card! Very nice of you

Jan 02, 2023 5:18:37 PM Me

Hi, taking boys to store and when I get back was going to call if you’re free and up for it

Jan 02, 2023 5:21:26 PM (Read by you after 2 minutes, 27 seconds) +15185908211

Yes 👍

Jan 09, 2023 3:41:46 PM Me

Twitter

Jan 09, 2023 3:43:31 PM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 40 seconds) +15185908211

😆 HaHa

Jan 28, 2023 3:40:09 PM Me

Hi dad, I’m setting up my plan to crush my debt. Could you let me know how much I owe you?

Jan 28, 2023 3:40:38 PM Me

Also, I called cerebral. Your card shouldn’t be charged

Feb 23, 2023 9:59:11 PM Me

Hi Dad, for paying you back, what’s the best way? I could send it electronically to your bank account. Let me know.

Feb 23, 2023 9:59:35 PM Me

I’m going to show you the money

Feb 24, 2023 9:13:39 AM (Read by you after 1 hour, 45 minutes, 34 seconds) +15184516476

Can you send electronically to Russ he can then transfer into my account

Feb 24, 2023 10:59:32 AM Me

Ok.

Feb 24, 2023 12:24:08 PM Me

Hi Dad, Just sent Russ $942.41 He said he transferred to you already. Can you confirm?

Feb 24, 2023 12:24:25 PM Me

Taking each pile I owe you one at a time.

Feb 24, 2023 12:24:43 PM Me

1942.41 is now, 1000.00 😊

Feb 24, 2023 12:24:54 PM Me

Don’t spend it all in one place.

Feb 24, 2023 12:25:34 PM Me

And Declan DOES know I’m showing you the money. Don’t be surprised if he comes knocking 🤣

Feb 24, 2023 12:28:19 PM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +15184516476

942.41 in my account

Feb 24, 2023 12:28:35 PM +15184516476

Thank you

Feb 24, 2023 12:28:59 PM Me

Yay!
Sent with Confetti

Feb 24, 2023 12:29:12 PM Me

Thought you’d be more excited 😆

Feb 24, 2023 12:29:20 PM Me

Haha

Feb 24, 2023 12:29:52 PM Me

You’re welcome. I’ll have 1k more in 2 weeks.

Feb 24, 2023 12:30:15 PM Me

I’m laser-focused on killing debt

Feb 24, 2023 12:30:32 PM +15184516476

I’m in a state of shock

Feb 24, 2023 12:31:02 PM Me

Basically, not spending much money. Other than occasional Starbucks or In-n-out with boys.

Feb 24, 2023 12:39:56 PM Me

It’s funny what happens when one gets their mental illness under control—instead of the mental illness having one under its control. It’s taken over 19 months, but I am finally crawling out of the hole. I’m no longer a resident inside this thing…..

…..and I don’t miss it. I have learned a lot—and continue to learn—about myself, people, behavior, habits, awareness, control, change, manipulation, sadness, despair, doubt, fear, fright, terror, loneliness, hopelessness, worthlessness, inertia, motivation, anger, shame, guilt, and probably the most about suffering and compassion. I still feel ungrounded

Feb 24, 2023 12:40:32 PM Me

I still feel ungrounded sometimes, but meditation always brings me back to earth.

Feb 24, 2023 4:24:30 PM (Read by you after 4 hours, 23 minutes, 3 seconds) +15185908211

Thanks to the Gods, mid e-bike

Feb 24, 2023 4:25:30 PM (Read by you after 4 hours, 22 minutes, 3 seconds) +15185908211

Woops mid evil

Mar 02, 2023 9:07:11 AM (Read by you after 3 hours, 45 minutes, 47 seconds) +15185908211

Check mail shirts should be delivered today, Mom

Mar 02, 2023 12:53:08 PM Me

I got them, thanks!!

Mar 02, 2023 12:56:07 PM Me

It’s crawling up into the high 40s today, but we still have snow across the entire top ridge of mountains in the Sespe . When you’re in town driving up to Thacher and looking at the mountains, the Chiefs peak, and the Topas all covered in snow it’s really beautiful .

Mar 02, 2023 2:25:49 PM (Read by you after 20 minutes, 13 seconds) +15185908211

Oh wow, did you like your shirt?

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May 16, 2023 10:49:02 PM Me

YouTube

Jun 20, 2023 1:40:32 PM Me

Hola from 6500’ in Carbondale!

Jun 20, 2023 1:41:39 PM Me

Dad I just emailed you a favor request. When you have time to read and reply, let me know. Its regarding a bridge I want to sell you, its a great deal 🤣🤣

Jun 20, 2023 3:23:53 PM (Read by you after 5 hours, 20 minutes, 7 seconds) +15184516476

The money will be on its way in a little while this is getting old I expect you will have a job soon and not sightseeing and vacationing

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Aug 17, 2023 2:41:33 PM Me

Ok, I’ve setup a spread sheet in google to show the car, storage and the phone. Dad you will get an email with a link to take you to it on your computer. I put the link here in this text, but the computer will be easier to see.

Aug 17, 2023 2:41:36 PM Me

https://accounts.google.com/v3/signin/identifier?continue=https%3A%2F%2Fdocs.google.com%2Fspreadsheets%2Fd%2F16GT2lsm46sDVEPbozXayRXnbKKgFyuL8ZDOpOyK3rQM%2Fedit%3Fusp%3Dsharing&followup=https%3A%2F%2Fdocs.google.com%2Fspreadsheets%2Fd%2F16GT2lsm46sDVEPbozXayRXnbKKgFyuL8ZDOpOyK3rQM%2Fedit%3Fusp%3Dsharing&ifkv=AXo7B7W4rScoju-x4HsCy65asfC8ey8y-_ySvntfCRffJoCnquTcqn1Fpwu0ChlPW2EAZoewZbJb<mpl=sheets&osid=1&passive=1209600&service=wise&flowName=WebLiteSignIn&flowEntry=ServiceLogin&dsh=S2130979990%3A1692304895195897

Aug 17, 2023 2:41:48 PM Me

And here is a screen capture (just an image of the sheet)

Aug 17, 2023 2:42:09 PM Me

Aug 17, 2023 2:43:13 PM Me

And THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR HELP!!!!!

Aug 17, 2023 2:43:22 PM Me

I am truly grateful

Aug 17, 2023 2:45:02 PM Me

But my shame and guilt around all of this makes is really hard to talk about it in person. I get triggered if I focus on money and the tsunami of shame and guilt shows up. I’m focused on finding an opportunity.

Aug 17, 2023 2:49:31 PM Me

My life right now is TOTALLY IN PIECES. I am finally feeling like I found myself again after being lost inside my family and husband identities thinking that’s who I REALLY am. I feel like my depression is receding FINALLY 🥹 I’m unraveling A 30 YEAR RELATIONSHIP with a 23 marriage and my 3 boys inside it !!! More than half my current life has been lost to me — ONLY a memory now

Aug 17, 2023 2:51:39 PM Me

Sadly it is a human experience one has to go through themselves to TRULY understand it. I didnt choose this path — I planned on being a grandpa sitting on the porch in the Sierra mountains somewhere. That got blown up and I now have to rewrite what I imagined the later chapters of my life to be.

Aug 17, 2023 2:53:56 PM Me

Divorce, unemployment, depression, identity crisis, and PTSD from facing the reality that its over with Liz. I chose none of this but I got to deal with it.

Aug 17, 2023 2:54:09 PM Me

Thanks for helping me ❤️

Aug 17, 2023 2:54:23 PM Me

Thanks for trying to understand as best you can ❤️

Aug 18, 2023 10:43:58 AM Me

I’ve transferred the money from Venmo to my Bank. Waiting for the confirmation from the bank and then will go in and pay car and storage.

Aug 18, 2023 10:44:04 AM Me

I’ll let you know when I have that done.

Aug 18, 2023 10:45:48 AM (Read by you after 38 minutes, 46 seconds) +15185908211

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Aug 18, 2023 6:52:49 PM Me

Here is Bryant St Storage screen capture after paying. I’m paid up to 10/31/23

Aug 18, 2023 6:53:34 PM Me

This is CapitalOne Auto Finance. I paid past due (July) and August with this payment

Aug 18, 2023 6:54:39 PM Me

This is the 3rd car payment I made tonight. This will pay for the September Due Date. My next car payment isn’t due until mid—October.

Aug 18, 2023 6:55:05 PM Me

Aug 19, 2023 8:43:40 AM (Read by you after 2 minutes, 10 seconds) +15185908211

Where is phone pmt?

Aug 19, 2023 8:47:07 AM Me

Waiting for car pmts to clear bank first

Aug 19, 2023 8:47:16 AM Me

Haven’t yet

Aug 19, 2023 8:47:45 AM +15185908211

👍

Aug 19, 2023 8:49:19 AM Me

Storage pmt cleared 👍

Aug 19, 2023 8:49:52 AM +15185908211

👍

Aug 28, 2023 3:36:44 PM Me

Aug 28, 2023 3:36:53 PM Me

Aug 28, 2023 3:39:28 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 30 minutes) +15185908211

👍

Oct 24, 2023 8:10:58 PM Me

Nov 24, 2023 10:50:16 AM Me

Hi, I just wanted to let both of you know I am grateful for your help this year. It’s helped immeasurably. I’m hopeful that things will start turning around before the end of the year. And that next year, it keeps going. so thank you so very much with big hugs and lots of love. Bert

Nov 30, 2023 2:03:07 PM (Read by you after 5 hours, 59 minutes, 12 seconds) +15184516476

Bert my aunt Sandra passed away this morning just wanted to let you know

Nov 30, 2023 8:04:02 PM Me

I'm truly sorry to hear that. How old was she? Was it's sudden or expected?

Nov 30, 2023 8:06:57 PM (Read by you after 5 seconds) +15185908211

No it wasn’t sudden , it was expected, just when they didn’t know , she was 86. Rest her sole

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Nov 30, 2023 8:07:36 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +15185908211

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Nov 30, 2023 8:07:52 PM Me

96?

Nov 30, 2023 8:13:05 PM +15184516476

86

Dec 01, 2023 7:51:23 AM Me

Really? Wasn’t she your father‘s older sister? And if so, how can your dad be less than 10 years older than you?

Dec 01, 2023 8:43:18 AM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 46 seconds) +15184516476

No she was my father’s younger sister by 9 years 1 month she was 9 years 11 months older than me

Dec 01, 2023 8:47:33 AM Me

Oh, ok. I thought it was the other way around

Dec 31, 2023 9:38:05 AM Me

What couldn't you hear?

Feb 19, 2024 10:21:23 AM Me

Hi, hey dad I cc’d you on an email I replied to the County of Ventura about a position I might interview for. Just want you to see that I’m trying my damndest to get a job in my field. Cross your fingers, break out the rosary, have a word with “Granny” upstairs… Do whatever incantations you do to manifest what you want to see happen. I would appreciate that a TON! Finally good news 😁 Thanks!!

Feb 20, 2024 11:17:23 AM Me

https://groq.com/

Apr 29, 2024 7:53:55 PM Me

I was just thinking that if you guys would like to, we could do a video call and talk about your arrival here and those first couple of days before you get your hands on the car. A couple of things come to mind. Right now Liz has the jeep and Aidan‘s old Subaru, which is now Declan’s car, Liz also has her mom’s old Subaru sitting doing nothing. Let me reach out to Elizabeth and see if it would be possible to commandeer either one of those vehicles for you. That way after I pick you up and drop you off you have a vehicle to run to the market or the drugstore, etc. Let me know what you think

Apr 29, 2024 7:54:43 PM Me

The only day and time this week I’m unavailable is Thursday from 10 AM to 12 noon Pacific for my never search alone job search group

Apr 29, 2024 7:57:14 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 36 seconds) +15185908211

Ok will get back to you, tommrow, did you get your card or are you waiting for your B day?

Apr 29, 2024 8:59:06 PM Me

I have not gotten my hands on the card just yet. I am headed up to campus tomorrow around lunchtime so I can see the boys and say hello. And maybe take McWesty out on a hike if it’s up there, by tomorrow afternoon, I should be able to put my hands on it.

Apr 29, 2024 9:00:05 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +15185908211

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Apr 29, 2024 9:00:37 PM Me

I was up there early this morning until about 1130 and then headed into town. I did my afternoon at Starbucks. The mornings at Starbucks are too much a barrel of monkeys. It’s very loud and a lot of people in commotion and things moving around so it’s hard to focus on things. if you have the tendency for ADD like I do, it’s not a productive environment

Apr 29, 2024 9:02:51 PM Me

Also, I met with a new psychiatric nurse today. She was experienced competent and very nice. I gave her the truth of my situation. And when I told her everything, she had a slack expression on her face. Meaning, her mouth was open looking at me, sort of stunned as if, how is it possible for you to have all that going on and be looking at me speaking coherently, and making sense of the world in your situation. I said a few things to her that she had never heard phrased quite the way I put it before and made note of it And this is a woman who to me clearly had 10 to 15 years experience doing her thing. So she’s not a newbie.

Apr 29, 2024 9:04:46 PM Me

Anyhow Her primary question to me was, how can I best help you. So based on our conversation, we’re making adjustments to my medication so that I can feel less depressed, less cloudy days and feel more focus and ability to stay on top of the way the day unfolds in the way things happen rather than Letting emotions and feelings etc. dictate my day to me

Apr 29, 2024 9:06:38 PM Me

I told her my biggest frustration is having ability to see everything that’s happening yet with things like productivity and staying focused, I’m sort of helpless to the whims of how the day unfolds and whether or not I run into a trigger. If I had the ability to wave a magic wand and make my mind perfect I would. I don’t choose what I’m dealing with. It’s just the way my brain is working and I am very frustrated with it. I’m smart enough to know how messed up things are

Apr 29, 2024 9:07:11 PM Me

So it’s a blessing and a curse 🤣🤣🤣

Apr 29, 2024 9:07:39 PM Me

OK I’ll stop now. Going to practice darts

Apr 29, 2024 9:09:47 PM (Read by you after 14 hours, 3 minutes, 2 seconds) +15185908211

That sounds encouraging, I hope it helps, let me know😍

Sep 20, 2024 4:52:30 PM Me

— I have been trying to get access to the insurance money all week. $2k. I have a car payment due today, and I thought I’d be well past this and have the payment made, but I ran into red tape. I thought depositing it in a new account would gain me access to maybe $200 so I could bridge the gap of getting out of here. However, there is a 9 day hold on checks deposited in any new account for the first 30 days. Its their policy. So, my check is deposited in a new account, but I cannot access the $2k until October 3rd — in 9 days. So, I’m in a catch 22 I need money to get my phone online, so I can make money until I can access the $2k to travel. Phone will cost $50 and the other $50 is to charge my car, and for food until I can make money and then get to the 9 days. $100 is what I am asking for. $50 for the phone $50 for food and electricity My hope is this is the last time I have to do this.

Sep 20, 2024 4:53:42 PM Me

I need money so I can get things in place so I can make money. That’s the catch

Sep 20, 2024 4:54:02 PM Me

in 9 days you get your $100 back

Sep 20, 2024 4:57:37 PM Me

ok, going to change my location, so my phone will be offline while I’m driving (not a bad thing) I should be back online in about 15mins. Headed to a place I can charge my battery and laptop.

Sep 20, 2024 4:59:43 PM (Read by you after 36 seconds) +15185908211

Ok Dad is sending 200:00 through Russ

Sep 20, 2024 4:59:55 PM (Read by you after 24 seconds) +15185908211

Now

Sep 20, 2024 5:00:31 PM Me

K

Sep 20, 2024 5:01:46 PM Me

Sent with Heart

Thank you Dad 😊
Sent with Heart

Sep 20, 2024 5:04:18 PM Me

oh, I forgot to mention on a totally different topic, I received the official paperwork reply from Elizabeth regarding the divorce. She agrees with the paperwork at least in terms of wanting the divorce. However we disagree on spousal support and we do agree on having a conversation on how best to split things up, we have a furniture the washer and dryer and a lot of miscellaneous stuff like kitchen stuff what happens now is a full accounting of everything and it’s value and then we move forward I’ll keep you posted

Sep 20, 2024 5:10:54 PM (Read by you after 2 minutes, 31 seconds) +15185908211

Money in account

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Sep 20, 2024 5:13:34 PM Me

I can see it thank you