Aug 08, 2024 2:01:15 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 25 minutes, 6 seconds) +18056373145

Hey Bert! I had no idea you all were going through this. What type of job are you looking for? I am at work right now but will reach out later this evening. Jenn

Aug 08, 2024 3:29:15 PM Me

Hi Jenn, nice to hear from you. Im a software designer. Although inside industry were called Product Designers or UX Designers. The job market for my type of work is horrible and has been for almost 2 years now. There are likely hundreds of thousands of us unemployed and we are all sort of stunned that we hear nothing on the media about it. Always hearing about lots of jobs being available but I can’t find one to save my life And I’ve done the rounds on the box stores as well. I have applied to Walmart target Home Depot Lowe’s Trader Joe’s, you name it and I get rejected from them because I am “overqualified“

Aug 08, 2024 7:50:23 PM (Read by you after 14 hours, 42 minutes, 2 seconds) +18056373145

Hi, Man this is a lot. I had to reinvent myself and it was hard- very hard. It has taken me 7 -8 years here to recover. I have a lot more story for someday. Are your other boys in CA? Are you wanting to stay there?

Aug 09, 2024 10:42:18 AM Me

Wow. Glad to hear of your recovery! The boys are all in CA. Darragh leaves for his freshman year at Luis and Clark in about 10 days and after that I don’t know what I want to do. Staying here in California means I have to stay homeless. But if I go to Colorado I have family and could have a roof over my head. Yeah, the whole reinventing, rebuilding my life is not something I want to do honestly and I really don’t care. I wonder every morning why Im still going and i dont know

Aug 09, 2024 11:01:55 AM +18056373145

You are still going because you have those boys- they need you.

Aug 09, 2024 11:01:55 AM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Aug 09, 2024 11:03:11 AM +18056373145

Bert, it was very hard but I had no choice. I truly think if you have family you can stay with for now that would be a good start at rebuilding. Is there any hope for reconciliation with Liz?

Aug 09, 2024 12:04:26 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

I hear you on the boys. Honestly they are the only thing that has kept me tethered here. I would have been gone a decade ago if not for them. Yeah, I may be in the Boulder area by the end of this month. That or the Carbondale area on the Western Slope of the Rockies. Spent time in Carbondale last summer after moving all my stuff off campus into storage in Ojai (still there). Colorado is quite familiar to me, family is there, and there is more hiking adventures than I could do in a lifetime. Reconciliation is something I’ve always wanted. Liz has said yes to counseling, then said no—with her therapist. I got a new MFT and we did remote sessions for a month or so. She was steadfastly stoic and not opening up or vulnerable in any way. Statue-like, and if felt really cold. She asked for time and space and I gave her 1/3 of a year, 4 months, and still would not agree to talk. In my situation I have no recourse but to file for divorce and get her to pay $$$ for me to live until I can do it on my own. When her mother and father divorced, her father didnt let her mother go live in a car on the street for nearly a year and a half. I know, I was there and remember when that went down. I have all my paperwork filled out, I have all supporting documentation and an overview summary of facts to give the court context of my entire situation (like paying for her car insurance, spotify, and cell phone while unemployed and homeless). At this point she’s clearly shown no regard for my well being. She took me off her health insurance plan this past May after telling me I would be on it until I could find a job. Well, another broken promise. I have lots of broken promises and a broken heart. I supported her road to Kona for IRONMAN. Without me, no Kona—fact. It strikes me as selfish to the point of being a full blown narcissistic. I dont know what other way to read her behavior.

Aug 09, 2024 12:04:49 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

oh wow. didnt realize how long that was. sorry :-\

Aug 09, 2024 5:36:35 PM +18056373145

Bert, I am sorry this is happening. It’s a lot. Trust me after leaving Thacher it was hard, I was sick, I left without a job and to a city that didn’t value librarians- which made securing work difficult- finally I balanced 2 part time jobs - one private one IB magnet school- neither wanted a full time librarian- or didn’t understand the my value kinda like someone else we know.

Aug 09, 2024 5:37:05 PM +18056373145

It’s better now but it’s been 8 years- now I work at the state library and it took about 7 tries to get in.

Aug 09, 2024 5:37:28 PM +18056373145

And I was turned down about 35 times after moving here too… it was awful.

Aug 09, 2024 5:38:26 PM +18056373145

Take the roof off we your head, work in co - and in time it will be better. I know your boys wouldn’t want you to disappear. Show them you can do the work and come out in a better place.

Aug 09, 2024 5:38:36 PM +18056373145

It’s a good role model for them.

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Aug 09, 2024 5:47:44 PM ⇲ +18056373145

Things aren’t always going to go perfectly in life and having you rebound is an excellent example.

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Aug 09, 2024 5:38:50 PM +18056373145

*over your head

Aug 09, 2024 5:47:44 PM ⇱ +18056373145

Things aren’t always going to go perfectly in life and having you rebound is an excellent example.

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Aug 09, 2024 5:48:07 PM +18056373145

I know you can do it.

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Aug 09, 2024 5:49:01 PM +18056373145

You will! I know you will.

Aug 09, 2024 5:49:58 PM Me

The most frustrating thing is having to contend with so many simultaneous major life events at the same time and have them drag out an inordinate amount of time

Aug 09, 2024 5:50:30 PM +18056373145

Bert I know - I been there- I cried a lot

Aug 09, 2024 5:50:47 PM Me

To borrow a radiohead line Someday my luck will change 🙂

Aug 09, 2024 5:50:52 PM +18056373145

I did have Gerrard but he was working away all the time.

Aug 09, 2024 5:51:05 PM +18056373145

It will! New beginnings.

Aug 09, 2024 5:51:29 PM +18056373145

Surely there will be work in CO- ski season is beginning

Aug 09, 2024 5:51:41 PM +18056373145

And Xmas time

Aug 09, 2024 5:51:47 PM Me

School and aki

Aug 09, 2024 5:51:49 PM +18056373145

Even if you have to do that for awhile

Aug 09, 2024 5:51:50 PM Me

Ski

Aug 09, 2024 5:52:18 PM Me

Right and there’s not this weird thing where you’re working at target and you see somebody you know

Aug 09, 2024 5:52:36 PM Me

You want to disappear inside a rack of clothing and hide

Aug 09, 2024 5:52:42 PM Me

😂

Aug 09, 2024 5:52:43 PM +18056373145

Right- imagine DP- he couldn’t find work either and I heard it is at TJ’s

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Aug 09, 2024 5:53:11 PM Me

Yeah he’s been there over a year I’ve talked to him about it. I can’t get in the TJs here I’ve tried a couple of times

Aug 09, 2024 5:53:50 PM ⇲ +18056373145

I hope he’s okay. I did not judge.

Aug 09, 2024 5:53:27 PM +18056373145

You aren’t alone- I have a bunch of friends right now not able to get work in their fields

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Aug 09, 2024 5:53:50 PM ⇱ +18056373145

I hope he’s okay. I did not judge.
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Aug 09, 2024 5:54:15 PM Me

He’s doing well

Aug 09, 2024 5:54:21 PM +18056373145

Good!

Aug 09, 2024 5:54:27 PM +18056373145

And how’s Declan?

Aug 09, 2024 6:00:22 PM ⇲ Me

He’s doing well. He has a couple of credits and then has his associates. Then I think he’ll look at going to school somewhere away like Darragh

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Aug 09, 2024 6:00:40 PM ⇲ Me

I know he wants to play soccer in college, and I don’t know why he didn’t pursue it

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Aug 09, 2024 6:04:40 PM (Read by you after 46 seconds) ⇲ +18056373145

What will his associates be in? And where did he go?

Aug 09, 2024 5:54:51 PM +18056373145

Eoin is finally gonna go to college- playing soccer at a small Christian school next week

Aug 09, 2024 5:55:15 PM +18056373145

Nothing fancy- but we are relieved he is doing something-

Aug 09, 2024 6:00:22 PM ⇱ Me

He’s doing well. He has a couple of credits and then has his associates. Then I think he’ll look at going to school somewhere away like Darragh

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Aug 09, 2024 6:00:38 PM +18056373145

Oh cool where did he start?

Aug 09, 2024 6:00:40 PM ⇱ Me

I know he wants to play soccer in college, and I don’t know why he didn’t pursue it

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Aug 09, 2024 6:00:49 PM +18056373145

I saw Aidan has a gal he lives with?

Aug 09, 2024 6:01:43 PM Me

Alas no more. Hes moved back on campus with Liz. She has all 3 there now.

Aug 09, 2024 6:02:01 PM +18056373145

Oh! Well 2 may be gone soon.

Aug 09, 2024 6:02:42 PM Me

Darragh for sure will never look back. With a little luck in finding work I doubt he’ll move back home. Declan is another story he’s very much a homebody

Aug 09, 2024 6:03:01 PM +18056373145

Please tell DP hello!

Aug 09, 2024 6:03:20 PM Me

I will I’m supposed to get on the phone with him this weekend

Aug 09, 2024 6:03:46 PM Me

We try to call at least every 6 to 8 weeks and text inbetween

Aug 09, 2024 6:04:09 PM +18056373145

Good

Aug 09, 2024 6:04:40 PM (Read by you after 46 seconds) ⇱ +18056373145

What will his associates be in? And where did he go?
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Aug 09, 2024 6:09:16 PM Me

Ventura College For physio therapy

Aug 09, 2024 6:09:23 PM Me

Who wants to be an athletic trainer

Aug 09, 2024 6:12:33 PM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +18056373145

That is awesome

Aug 09, 2024 6:12:37 PM (Read by you after 3 seconds) +18056373145

Way to go!

Aug 09, 2024 6:14:08 PM Me

Wants to work on a pro sports team as a trainer. If you cant make the cut as a player then train!

Aug 09, 2024 6:14:41 PM (Read by you after 35 minutes, 37 seconds) +18056373145

Yeah cool! He has goals and that’s good

Aug 09, 2024 6:14:54 PM (Read by you after 35 minutes, 24 seconds) +18056373145

Eoin is starting late and not sure he has goals

Aug 09, 2024 6:51:00 PM (Read by you after 1 second) ⇲ +18056373145

We’ll see

Aug 09, 2024 6:15:49 PM (Read by you after 34 minutes, 29 seconds) +18056373145

His brothers and sister do- they are doing very well- his brother a jr is a track star and going to a private school- his sister a sr and top student

Aug 09, 2024 6:15:55 PM (Read by you after 34 minutes, 23 seconds) +18056373145

They have goals-

Aug 09, 2024 6:16:10 PM (Read by you after 34 minutes, 8 seconds) +18056373145

Bert it’s going to be okay- 2 weeks and new start in CO

Aug 09, 2024 6:16:31 PM (Read by you after 33 minutes, 47 seconds) +18056373145

You can do it.

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Aug 17, 2024 7:44:48 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 37 minutes, 18 seconds) +18056373145

Hi Burt- we can get you 2 new tires … and if someday you want to pay us back that would be welcome.

Aug 17, 2024 7:45:07 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 36 minutes, 59 seconds) +18056373145

Firestone or Discount I have cards for both

Aug 17, 2024 7:46:01 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 36 minutes, 5 seconds) +18056373145

I know there is a Firestone in Ventura and they can do an inspection too

Aug 17, 2024 7:46:15 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 35 minutes, 51 seconds) +18056373145

I am just glad you have a place to land

Aug 17, 2024 7:48:29 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 33 minutes, 37 seconds) +18056373145

Hoping they aren’t awd tires ! Actually send me the brand size etc you need….

Aug 17, 2024 12:27:25 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Wow. Jen what a generous offer—I’m so grateful 😊 Let me go get the tire info. They’re not AWD tires, and nothing fancy, I always get the least expensive and I can see if anyone has a good deal going on. And in terms of checkup, my car is fully electric so I’m pretty sure I have to take it to the dealer—Its VW. OK, let me go get the tire info—I’m sure its a common size. Again, I have a giant feeling of gratitude for you extending this kindness to me—massive help.

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Aug 17, 2024 12:28:51 PM Me

205/55 R16

Aug 17, 2024 12:29:00 PM Me

that’s the size

Aug 17, 2024 12:29:02 PM +18056373145

What brand do you have now

Aug 17, 2024 12:29:10 PM +18056373145

Treads should match

Aug 17, 2024 12:33:01 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Douglas Touring tires 205 55r16 Those are on the back, and the ones I want to match. The new tires are for the front.

Aug 17, 2024 12:33:22 PM +18056373145

Don’t they usually put new on the back?

Aug 17, 2024 12:34:04 PM Me

Yes. The ones I have on the back I got in October last year

Aug 17, 2024 12:34:20 PM +18056373145

I need to know 91? AS?

Aug 17, 2024 12:35:17 PM Me

checking…

Aug 17, 2024 12:35:49 PM Me

Yes. full name is: douglas touring a/s 205/55r16 91h

Aug 17, 2024 12:36:12 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Its this one

Aug 17, 2024 12:37:59 PM (Read by you after 8 seconds) +18056373145

Ok I am going to order them and send them to you- then you will take them to americas tire and we will pay to put them on

Aug 17, 2024 12:38:10 PM +18056373145

Can I send them to your house sit?

Aug 17, 2024 12:38:24 PM Me

Yeah, that would work

Aug 17, 2024 12:38:38 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

address

Aug 17, 2024 12:39:08 PM (Read by you after 4 seconds) +18056373145

Send me address and their name and I will put them c’o

Aug 17, 2024 12:39:23 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

2661 Pierpont Blvd · 2661 Pierpont Blvd, Ventura, CA 93001

Aug 17, 2024 12:39:25 PM Me

Address

Aug 17, 2024 12:39:46 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

K

Aug 17, 2024 12:39:47 PM Me

I’m here until the 25th

Aug 17, 2024 12:39:52 PM +18056373145

They ship quickly

Aug 17, 2024 12:40:02 PM Me

OMG, this is amazing

Aug 17, 2024 12:41:17 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I’m online pretty much most of the day. If not I’m off painting.

Aug 17, 2024 12:41:32 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 😊

Aug 17, 2024 12:41:49 PM (Read by you after 29 seconds) +18056373145

What is their name?

Aug 17, 2024 12:42:40 PM Me

Michael Eickhoff

Aug 17, 2024 12:50:58 PM (Read by you after 8 seconds) +18056373145

Shipping Monday/ will arrive fed ex

Aug 17, 2024 12:51:27 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

THANK YOU 😊 Super grateful

Aug 17, 2024 12:51:52 PM +18056373145

As far as I know American tire is the only one that will put on very gently used tires” however if you find someone else, let me know. Firestone will not

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Aug 17, 2024 12:52:11 PM +18056373145

8.5/32 shipping from United tires

Aug 17, 2024 12:52:26 PM +18056373145

I also have a cc for them so I can pay them that way

Aug 17, 2024 12:52:38 PM Me

There is a place in Ojai called ‘Fred’s Tire Shop” that I can call to see if they do installs

Aug 17, 2024 12:52:42 PM +18056373145

Driven once they say-

Aug 17, 2024 12:52:48 PM +18056373145

See what it will cost

Aug 17, 2024 12:52:57 PM Me

Small local place will likely do it

Aug 17, 2024 12:53:00 PM +18056373145

I buy my very expensive tires this way usually

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Aug 17, 2024 12:53:10 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

good idea

Aug 17, 2024 12:53:51 PM (Read by you after 12 seconds) +18056373145

Then what do you have left to get out of town

Aug 17, 2024 12:54:04 PM +18056373145

Start new! Show those boys you can recover!

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Aug 17, 2024 12:55:07 PM Me

Getting the car checked out simply to make sure there is nothing going on that would stop me from getting to Colorado. Essentially a “basic tune up” for an electric VW

Aug 17, 2024 12:55:11 PM +18056373145

I think new goes on the back btw

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Aug 17, 2024 12:55:20 PM +18056373145

Ok!

Aug 17, 2024 12:55:22 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

they do

Aug 17, 2024 12:55:56 PM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +18056373145

Ok let me know when they arrive and check with Fred’s about what they charge -

Aug 17, 2024 12:56:15 PM Me

ok, will do. Already on their website

Aug 17, 2024 12:56:17 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

😊

Aug 17, 2024 12:59:16 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

OK, just off the phone with Fred’s

Aug 17, 2024 1:01:40 PM +18056373145

Send me your email

Aug 17, 2024 1:02:02 PM Me

They can do the install and rotation, $150 and takes an hour or two. Its first come first serve, no appts. So when I get the tires delivered here, I’ll head up there the next day and see if I can get there when they open 😊 I’ll text you when I have the tires here. Thanks again for this help Jen it impacts my stress levels directly 😊 so I am truly grateful. bert.mahoney@gmail.com

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Aug 17, 2024 1:02:47 PM (Read by you after 6 seconds) +18056373145

American does it less

Aug 17, 2024 1:02:51 PM (Read by you after 2 seconds) +18056373145

Is that ok

Aug 17, 2024 1:02:57 PM Me

Sure

Aug 17, 2024 1:03:05 PM Me

Happy to go whereever

Aug 17, 2024 1:03:33 PM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +18056373145

K

Aug 17, 2024 1:04:22 PM (Read by you after 11 seconds) +18056373145

When they send me tracking I will forward it ok

Aug 17, 2024 1:04:37 PM Me

ok, great!

Aug 17, 2024 1:04:58 PM Me

I need to go meditate and send out some gratitude

Aug 17, 2024 1:05:16 PM (Read by you after 20 seconds) ⇲ +18056373145

We could use it

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Aug 17, 2024 1:05:00 PM +18056373145

Can you call American and ask them what they charge

Aug 17, 2024 1:05:05 PM Me

Sure

Aug 17, 2024 1:05:16 PM (Read by you after 20 seconds) ⇱ +18056373145

We could use it

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Aug 17, 2024 1:05:29 PM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +18056373145

I just did mine and it was $96

Aug 17, 2024 1:09:05 PM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 15 seconds) +18056373145

If you could keep this between us I’d appreciate it.

Aug 17, 2024 1:14:50 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

absolutely—i will keep it quiet 😊

Aug 17, 2024 1:15:14 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Just off phone with American Tire. Ventura location can do it, $22 per tire so should cost $44

Aug 17, 2024 1:15:37 PM +18056373145

*4

Aug 17, 2024 1:15:39 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I call Ventura store directly when I have the tires and we go from there

Aug 17, 2024 1:15:42 PM +18056373145

Yes that’s better

Aug 17, 2024 1:15:48 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

oh yeah its better

Aug 17, 2024 1:15:50 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

haha

Aug 17, 2024 1:16:05 PM +18056373145

I can provide them my cc# - I have done something similar before

Aug 17, 2024 1:16:30 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

OK, sounds good. This made my day 😊

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Aug 17, 2024 1:16:51 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Paying it forward today and you another ….

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Aug 17, 2024 1:17:14 PM +18056373145

We want you off the street and starting new- I know you can do it

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Aug 17, 2024 1:17:16 PM Me

Going to get on the meditation cushion right now. Have a therapy session at 1pm so going into session in a really good state

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Aug 17, 2024 1:17:46 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I’ll reach out soon, and thank you, thank you, thank you!! 😊

Aug 17, 2024 1:18:02 PM +18056373145

Btw Eoin showed up to his practice and scrimmage

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Aug 17, 2024 1:18:23 PM +18056373145

I think he’s the reserve team for now until he shows them he can make grades and play

Aug 17, 2024 1:18:36 PM Me

yep, sounds about right

Aug 17, 2024 1:18:36 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

There’s a game today but idk if he plays

Aug 17, 2024 1:18:50 PM +18056373145

This is a big step for him

Aug 17, 2024 1:18:55 PM +18056373145

I hope he keeps it up

Aug 17, 2024 1:18:55 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

reserves ususally go to watch and get a feel for it

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Aug 17, 2024 1:19:05 PM +18056373145

Ttyl

Aug 17, 2024 1:19:09 PM Me

ok

Aug 17, 2024 1:19:11 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

bye

Aug 17, 2024 5:10:38 PM (Read by you after 11 seconds) +18056373145

P.s. I am traveling to Dc on Thursday- Sunday so if I don’t respond right away, that’s why. If they show up before noon your time Thursday let’s get it done asap

Aug 17, 2024 5:10:53 PM Me

Ok

Aug 18, 2024 3:26:43 PM (Read by you after 19 seconds) +18056373145

How’s you today? Must be nice to be near the beach? Super hot here today.

Aug 18, 2024 3:41:38 PM (Read by them after 3 seconds) Me

I had a client meeting in person at Starbucks this morning and it couldn’t have gone any better. It will help me get one future side project but not enough to get me on my feet. Emotionally been up and down hard today. I had a girlfriend since last Thanksgiving who lives here in Ventura—at the time Liz and I had been separated a couple years, and I dont live on campus. So anyhow, she broke up with me in April. 2 weeks ago I see her and her new boyfriend at the coffeeshop. I’ve been lamenting the fact that if I had a job and a place to live I’d still be with her. She wanted a man who was financially stable and that was not me. It sucks to think I got dumped for that, but that’s life. So dealing with heartache on top of everything else. Haven’t mentioned Jenica to anyone other than family so like the tire favor, Mum’s the word. I have picture from her birthday party in March attached, things were still good. Makes me cry to look because I see how happy she is. 🥺 Weather wise… Its slightly humid, but not very hot unless you’re in sunlight—then you feel your skin sizzle a bit. Full Moon coming up. Astrologically the moon is in scorpio and rules my emotions big time. Makes me think the tides are really high and makes sense being full moon tomorrow. How r u doing? ￼

Aug 19, 2024 10:04:00 AM Me

Hi Jen, I got your email about the tires 😊 I’ll keep you posted.

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Aug 19, 2024 10:04:06 AM Me

Thank you!!

Aug 19, 2024 10:04:40 AM (Read by you after 2 seconds) +18056373145

Hey there! I am glad mtg went well. Life is full of challenges. You can and will recover. You have to for those boys.

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Aug 21, 2024 11:19:32 AM (Read by them after 4 minutes, 53 seconds) Me

Hi Jen! I hope the week so far has treated you well. I was able to spend yesterday with Declan + Darragh here at the house by the beach and it was great. We went on 2 beach walks with the dog, In-n-Out for lunch, Pasta dinner here while we did Fantasy Football drafts with my brother, Uncle Russ whos the commissioner of the league. Then watched some Ted Lasso, and took them back up to campus. When I said goodbye to Darragh the moment was alot for him and he started to cry, we hugged for a long, long time. I missed his whole senior year other than coaching him in soccer. He saw me every day of his life, until suddenly he didn’t and neither of us got a say in that—sux. Anyhow, I could go on, but I’ll stop 😊 The tires are in Kansas right now. I would guesstimate a Friday arrival. I’ll see where they are in 24 hours and update again. Imagine school year is underway there or about to, yes? Let me know how things are going. be well 😊 Bert

Aug 21, 2024 11:37:45 AM (Read by you after 38 minutes, 22 seconds) +18056373145

Thanks for sharing! I am glad you were able to coach him tho! That makes me happy. When’s he off? That sounds like a lovely day Bert. I am no longer in schools as of a year ago- first summer working in a long time, 23 years. However I made it. I have 9 years and I can retire. I am tired. I am the outreach librarian for the New Mexico State Library- I hope the tires arrive soon. I usually ask the date on them but I didn’t this time. I think they will be ok. 🤞 I leave for DC in the morning. I will be checking texts- keep me posted.

Aug 22, 2024 2:01:55 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hi Jen, Tires are in Williams AZ this morning. Looks like tomorrow or Sat. I’ll keep you posted and hope all is going well for you in DC 😊

Aug 22, 2024 6:55:26 PM (Read by you after 57 minutes, 3 seconds) +18056373145

Not there yet, almost. Land in about 40- Sat is going to be insane for me so if they don’t arrive until then American may have to be on Sunday.

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Aug 22, 2024 7:52:44 PM Me

No problem at all

Aug 23, 2024 8:23:00 AM (Read by you after 59 minutes, 55 seconds) +18056373145

Looks like they are arriving today- perhaps you can get them on today? Later- just a thought

Aug 23, 2024 9:23:23 AM Me

I looked and they might get here at the end of the day. I’m gonna keep refreshing the screen as the day goes and see if they get closer. No matter what I’ll give you an update

Aug 23, 2024 9:23:52 AM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 11 seconds) +18056373145

Ok sounds good-

Aug 23, 2024 9:23:52 AM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Aug 23, 2024 11:00:00 AM (Read by you after 19 minutes, 18 seconds) +18056373145

1

Aug 23, 2024 11:00:01 AM (Read by you after 19 minutes, 17 seconds) +18056373145

W

Aug 23, 2024 11:00:23 AM (Read by you after 18 minutes, 55 seconds) +18056373145

Accident

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Aug 23, 2024 3:35:38 PM (Read by them after 6 seconds) Me

Hi Jen, I have the tires. I want to try to put them on tomorrow. In the groove on working right now and want to keep momentum. They have lots of appts tomorrow, and I think that might make things easier for you. They’re open until 6pm PST if you wanted to call them today and give your information. If they need verifying info. CA license: B4945492 Thacher Address 05/01/1969 Image here:

| I have a 2019 VW eGolf. White, and dirty on outside. Going to vacuum as best I can before brining it in—I’ve been living in it, but my boys said it didnt smell, it smelled like incense, YES! Paid off to spend $5 for some Nag Champa—good for meditation actually. So my car. Same everything as a Golf, only electric. Tires and rims are the same between the two. Tires that arrived look brand spanking new. They have that bit of extra rubber coming off the tread. I’m not sure they’ve seen a rim. anyhow, my gratitude for this kindness is both wide and deep, so thank you SO much. Last two nights at the beach coming up. Then back in the car until I hit the road for CO. I need to leave majority of my stuff here in storage in Ojai, but I do need to go through things and be smart about what I pack to head to the Rockies. So maybe first week of September I hit the road. I’ll keep you posted — and this year I’ll post the trip to Insta. I have hundreds, if not thousands of pictures from last year’s there and back again drive across country. I have a picture at every single charge stop coast to coast ~40 of them. 😊
Edited 18 seconds later | I have a 2019 VW eGolf. White, and dirty on outside. Going to vacuum as best I can before brining it in—I’ve been living in it, but my boys said it didnt smell, it smelled like incense, YES! Paid off to spend $5 for some Nag Champa—good for meditation actually.

Aug 23, 2024 3:36:15 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

So my car. Same everything as a Golf, only electric. Tires and rims are the same between the two. Tires that arrived look brand spanking new. They have that bit of extra rubber coming off the tread. I’m not sure they’ve seen a rim. anyhow, my gratitude for this kindness is both wide and deep, so thank you SO much. Last two nights at the beach coming up. Then back in the car until I hit the road for CO. I need to leave majority of my stuff here in storage in Ojai, but I do need to go through things and be smart about what I pack to head to the Rockies. So maybe first week of September I hit the road.

Aug 23, 2024 7:28:44 PM (Read by you after 53 minutes, 12 seconds) ⇲ +18056373145

Did you check the dates on the tires? Any repairs?

Aug 23, 2024 8:23:57 PM ⇲ Me

They look brand new. Still has xtra rubber on treads like brand new. Ill check for the year but they look identical to the tires on the back. The logo the name even the type face they use to put 205 or 5516 whatever the number thing is. I noticed if type faces and logos don’t match and these tires are the same tire which is great

Aug 23, 2024 8:24:11 PM ⇲ Me

Walking the dog at the moment and will send you the year when I get back and look at them

Aug 23, 2024 8:27:23 PM ⇲ Me

From our walk right now. Even the gulls making noise in bkgd like a soundtrack with the waves.

Aug 23, 2024 3:36:17 PM Me

I’ll keep you posted — and this year I’ll post the trip to Insta. I have hundreds, if not thousands of pictures from last year’s there and back again drive across country. I have a picture at every single charge stop coast to coast ~40 of them. 😊

Aug 23, 2024 3:36:40 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

~40 one way, ~80 in total.

Aug 23, 2024 6:33:39 PM (Read by you after 14 minutes, 6 seconds) +18056373145

Hey, I was working and just home. I will try to call them on a break tomorrow and touch base with you when I reach someone.

Aug 23, 2024 6:47:53 PM (Read by them after 9 seconds) Me

ok

Aug 23, 2024 6:48:49 PM (Read by you after 17 minutes, 5 seconds) +18056373145

Tomorrow is super busy running an exhibition table-

Aug 23, 2024 6:49:03 PM (Read by you after 16 minutes, 51 seconds) +18056373145

With over 40,000 or more visitors

Aug 23, 2024 7:28:44 PM (Read by you after 53 minutes, 12 seconds) ⇱ +18056373145

Did you check the dates on the tires? Any repairs?
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Aug 23, 2024 8:23:57 PM ⇱ Me

They look brand new. Still has xtra rubber on treads like brand new. Ill check for the year but they look identical to the tires on the back. The logo the name even the type face they use to put 205 or 5516 whatever the number thing is. I noticed if type faces and logos don’t match and these tires are the same tire which is great
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Aug 23, 2024 8:24:11 PM ⇱ Me

Walking the dog at the moment and will send you the year when I get back and look at them
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Aug 23, 2024 8:27:23 PM ⇱ Me

From our walk right now. Even the gulls making noise in bkgd like a soundtrack with the waves.
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Aug 24, 2024 9:30:39 AM Me

Good morning Jen, they don’t have a date on them but they are identical to the tires on my car and the tires that arrived are very clean

Aug 24, 2024 9:31:20 AM Me

I’ll be watching the phone all day so whenever you make contact with them let me know. I have therapy at five today, and a dart meeting at 1 PM

Aug 24, 2024 9:37:20 AM Me

Aug 24, 2024 9:37:20 AM Me

Treads look great

Aug 24, 2024 10:05:54 AM (Read by you after 1 hour, 58 minutes, 45 seconds) +18056373145

All tires have dates! On them.

Aug 24, 2024 10:11:23 AM (Read by you after 1 hour, 53 minutes, 16 seconds) +18056373145

Month and year - super busy at this exhibition - will call American tire in a bit- sorry I am just swamped at the moment

Aug 24, 2024 1:18:23 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 20 seconds) +18056373145

I called. For some reason they won’t take my card over the phone. I will have to figure out something else- currently tho I am around 50,000 people and busy- I think it will have to be Monday.

Aug 24, 2024 1:21:12 PM (Read by them after 7 seconds) Me

no problem. when you have time. I have Venmo if you do. I could go tomorrow, walk in, they look it over and I’ll ask ballpark $$. I can let you know what that is and you could transfer to my Venmo. I can pay with my Venmo, its a mastercard 😊

Aug 24, 2024 1:21:27 PM (Read by them after 4 seconds) Me

LMK if you have venmo.

Aug 24, 2024 1:21:43 PM (Read by them after 5 seconds) Me

when you can

Aug 24, 2024 1:21:45 PM (Read by them after 8 seconds) Me

not now

Aug 24, 2024 1:21:51 PM (Read by them after 3 seconds) Me

😊

Aug 24, 2024 1:44:37 PM (Read by you after 6 seconds) +18056373145

I think you called them before and got a quote of $22 a tire?

Aug 24, 2024 1:48:12 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 39 minutes, 21 seconds) +18056373145

Perhaps ask with taxes? And it’s four tires.

Aug 26, 2024 8:43:47 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hi Jen Im up in Ojai this morning for some stuff. Going to call and get the info and see about going in for tires later this afternoon. Up here until 2pm.

Aug 26, 2024 8:44:11 AM (Read by you after 7 minutes, 35 seconds) +18056373145

Ok

Aug 26, 2024 8:44:15 AM (Read by you after 7 minutes, 31 seconds) +18056373145

Let me know

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Aug 26, 2024 10:45:14 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hi Jen ! Are you home yet? Are you still traveling? How did things go? I’m curious. Just off the phone with Ivan at America’s Tire. Told him I have the tires and need them put on the car. Estimate total with balancing, disposal, etc is ~$71 and some change.

Aug 26, 2024 10:45:33 AM Me

He took my info and phone number 805-798-3430

Aug 26, 2024 10:45:48 AM Me

Let me know how you want to go.

Aug 26, 2024 10:45:55 AM Me

and THANK YOU! 😊

Aug 26, 2024 10:46:15 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

This is the store I called directly:

Aug 26, 2024 10:46:16 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

https://www.americastire.com/store/ca/ventura/s/1476

Aug 26, 2024 10:46:45 AM Me

(805) 639-0166

Aug 26, 2024 10:51:23 AM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +18056373145

Is that for all 4?

Aug 26, 2024 10:51:30 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

You have to rotate them?

Aug 26, 2024 10:52:00 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Newest on back

Aug 26, 2024 10:52:15 AM Me

He told me that includes moving the back to front, and vice/versa because I said “you move front to back” he said yes, thats standard

Aug 26, 2024 10:52:34 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Ok! What’s your Venmo

Aug 26, 2024 10:52:48 AM ⇲ Me

getting it

Aug 26, 2024 10:52:40 AM Me

Back ones they only move and inflate if needed.

Aug 26, 2024 10:52:48 AM ⇱ Me

getting it
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Aug 26, 2024 10:53:02 AM (Read by you after 1 minute, 30 seconds) +18056373145

They won’t take my card over phone

Aug 26, 2024 10:54:07 AM (Read by you after 25 seconds) +18056373145

The Nat book fest is tiring- it’s working event not pleasure unfortunately

Aug 26, 2024 10:54:16 AM (Read by you after 16 seconds) +18056373145

But nice to see people excited about books

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Aug 26, 2024 10:55:08 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

ok dont laugh @I-dont-design-for-free

Aug 26, 2024 10:55:48 AM Me

https://venmo.com/u/I-dont-design-for-free

Aug 26, 2024 10:55:55 AM Me

tap the second one

Aug 26, 2024 11:01:59 AM (Read by you after 52 seconds) +18056373145

They now said they will take my card when you come in - u call me ok?

Aug 26, 2024 11:02:33 AM (Read by you after 18 seconds) +18056373145

I am home today

Aug 26, 2024 11:03:41 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

ok, sure thing. I’ll be leaving Ojai after 2pm PST. Should be at shop by 3:30pm at the latest.

Aug 26, 2024 11:03:51 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

I spoke to Ivan and he spoke to mgr

Aug 26, 2024 11:03:56 AM Me

oh cool

Aug 26, 2024 11:03:57 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Ok!

Aug 26, 2024 11:04:00 AM Me

Nice

Aug 26, 2024 11:04:11 AM Me

this is going to work HOORAY!!

Aug 26, 2024 11:04:15 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

stoked

Aug 26, 2024 11:04:25 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Yep and when do u head to co?

Aug 26, 2024 11:07:03 AM Me

Been going back and forth with my cousin Darrell on when to head that way. I may have a house/dog sit this weekend. Otherwise I have one chore to do before I go and that’s to go thru storage space with Declan’s help to give away, recycle, or pitch stuff I no longer need—shedding like a snake. I can see I was literally holding on to physical objects from a place of fear. That’s a whole other Oprah though 🤣

Aug 26, 2024 11:07:41 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I’d like to downsize to one size smaller. I have 10x5, would like 5x5. Less money 😊

Aug 26, 2024 11:07:59 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Yes I have 2 and garage that’s a mess so I get it

Aug 26, 2024 11:08:24 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Confident I can make the decisions to get it down to fit. With Declan I know we’ll get it done. I just have to feed him 🤣🤣

Aug 26, 2024 11:08:27 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

I was going to downsize the one in town but haven’t had time to do it- so I have a half empty one nearer my home

Aug 26, 2024 11:08:37 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I hear you

Aug 26, 2024 11:08:40 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Where’s he going next?

Aug 26, 2024 11:08:44 AM Me

its a day or more of work

Aug 26, 2024 11:09:33 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Or what’s he doing next- Eoin did one week of school and some reserve games so fingers crossed he will end with something - a future

Aug 26, 2024 11:09:46 AM Me

Declan was wrapping up classes this summer that he was missing for his associates. I actually need to check in on him, everyones been so focused on Darragh going to L+C

Aug 26, 2024 11:09:59 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Yeah!

Aug 26, 2024 11:10:19 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Going to make sure I get some alone hangout time with him before I’m gone.

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Aug 26, 2024 11:11:16 AM Me

Once I can scrape the cash together I’ll fly him out. Plenty of space to stay with family who will LOVE to see him. My Aunt Pat comes to mind—my mom’s older sister. She’ll spoil him 🤣

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Aug 26, 2024 11:11:33 AM Me

He really needs to get outside the bubble

Aug 26, 2024 11:11:40 AM +18056373145

Yes!

Aug 26, 2024 11:11:59 AM +18056373145

Eoin just did an outward bound trip for a month in CO and he liked it there a lot

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Aug 26, 2024 11:12:11 AM ⇲ Me

thats awesome

Aug 26, 2024 11:12:20 AM ⇲ Me

CO is really beautiful

Aug 26, 2024 11:12:00 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Darragh is on his way. Aidan has alredy lived in San Diego and Goleta

Aug 26, 2024 11:12:11 AM ⇱ Me

thats awesome
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Aug 26, 2024 11:12:15 AM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +18056373145

That was last year

Aug 26, 2024 11:12:20 AM ⇱ Me

CO is really beautiful
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Aug 26, 2024 11:12:55 AM (Read by you after 1 hour, 40 minutes, 25 seconds) +18056373145

👌 it is. I have to get moving on all the things I couldn’t do this weekend- call me from store - ttyl

Aug 26, 2024 3:19:43 PM Me

Hi Jen! I am in my car, just got done cleaning it off because it was nasty dirty and I am on my way to Ventura right now. I’ll probably get to the tire store in 20 to 30 minutes and I’ll call from there

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Aug 26, 2024 3:54:02 PM Me

In line to speak to Ivan

Aug 26, 2024 3:54:13 PM Me

Hes helping someone

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Aug 26, 2024 3:55:11 PM Me

He knows im here

Aug 26, 2024 4:13:19 PM Me

THANK YOU!!!
Sent with Sparkles

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Aug 26, 2024 4:13:40 PM Me

Im in the lounge area, 60-90mins

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Aug 26, 2024 4:16:44 PM Me

They just sent me a link, like dominoes or starbucks app order trackers. This is cool. So far the experience here has been really good. Very modern, freewater Wi-Fi in the lounge so I am very happy

Aug 26, 2024 4:16:47 PM Me

You can track the status of your vehicle using this link:

Aug 26, 2024 4:16:47 PM Me

https://waitlist-mobile.discounttire.com/journey/?id=NZB646eQQAfiSx21HDQNu4cjHQZltv5TeFihCKDO3a3P9Fm6OzLQbGG%2Bt9vAtbOjIHYXcNYb6g4dCSlJoccNqrYm%2FaG7DiUyEMIdpaQDZGM%3D

Aug 26, 2024 4:17:08 PM +18056373145

Hoping you can arrive to co safely and begin again.

Aug 26, 2024 4:17:14 PM Me

Me too

Aug 26, 2024 4:17:32 PM Me

Working on laptop on free wifi while here.

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Aug 26, 2024 4:19:45 PM Me

Working on a revision to my website, the one that has my portfolio that hiring managers and headhunters look at. Right now I think it’s too dense and too much information so I’m going to be more precise with your words with a little bit of help from AI 😁 I have to make sure the experience is flawless on a laptop or a mobile or tablet. Someone who says they can do this work better have a damn proper website 😁

Aug 26, 2024 4:19:49 PM Me

Bert Mahoney — Designing complex ideas into compelling digital solutions from 0 to 1.

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Aug 26, 2024 6:27:10 PM Me

All set!!! I just got the keys handed back to me and I’ve got four tires ready to rock ‘n’ roll. Thank you so much Jen this is incredibly helpful like ridiculously helpful. I’m be sure to keep you in the loop as I make my way over the states

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Aug 26, 2024 6:28:35 PM (Read by you after 10 minutes, 39 seconds) +18056373145

Ur car doesn’t need any gas?

Aug 26, 2024 6:39:19 PM Me

Nope

Aug 26, 2024 6:39:53 PM Me

I have not bought gas for a car personally since March 2023

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Aug 28, 2024 4:42:49 PM (Read by you after 50 minutes, 53 seconds) +18056373145

How’s it going?

Aug 28, 2024 5:36:07 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Going ok. Been busy between working on the hunt, a few random meetings, connecting with Declan. And I started to do Shadow work. Its been intense but rewarding so far. Liz is up at L+C for Darraghs start of school logistics. There is a parents weekend later in Sept I would like to get to, but I have time to work that out. Been having a hard time connecting wtih darrell on the next steps getting to colorado — Going to check in with him now.

Aug 28, 2024 5:36:12 PM Me

How r u doing??

Aug 28, 2024 6:54:16 PM (Read by you after 25 minutes, 19 seconds) +18056373145

It looks like they put the new tires on the front?

Aug 28, 2024 7:00:51 PM (Read by you after 18 minutes, 44 seconds) +18056373145

Did they give you a receipt?

Aug 28, 2024 7:19:43 PM Me

Yes

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Aug 28, 2024 7:20:20 PM Me

They gave me a teceipt

Aug 28, 2024 7:20:50 PM (Read by you after 6 seconds) +18056373145

How much was it? It has t posted to my account yet- also are you sure they put new tires on back?

Aug 28, 2024 7:21:20 PM Me

Checking

Aug 28, 2024 7:23:09 PM Me

Yes they are on the front

Aug 28, 2024 7:23:23 PM +18056373145

No- they are supposed to be on the back

Aug 28, 2024 7:23:31 PM +18056373145

New tires go on the back!

Aug 28, 2024 7:23:48 PM +18056373145

Did they tell you to do that?

Aug 28, 2024 7:24:17 PM Me

No not at all I didn’t say anything I figure they know what they’re doing

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Aug 28, 2024 7:24:23 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

No they didn’t

Aug 28, 2024 7:24:55 PM (Read by you after 11 seconds) +18056373145

They were supposed to put the new tires on the back- how much tread are on the back tires?

Aug 28, 2024 7:25:13 PM +18056373145

You are going to have to go back - what did they charge you?

Aug 28, 2024 7:25:17 PM Me

I’m actually in the middle of driving right now trying to deliver an order

Aug 28, 2024 7:25:32 PM Me

And I’m up in Ojai right now

Aug 28, 2024 7:25:35 PM +18056373145

Well ok- however they did not do this correctly

Aug 28, 2024 7:26:00 PM (Read by you after 10 minutes, 34 seconds) +18056373145

And the new tires go on the back to create more stability

Aug 28, 2024 7:26:47 PM (Read by you after 9 minutes, 47 seconds) +18056373145

They took 1.5 hours to put 2 tires on? Let me know what they charged and you have to go back and get this done correctly. It’s important to their longevity.

Aug 28, 2024 7:28:18 PM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 16 seconds) +18056373145

Aug 28, 2024 7:28:39 PM (Read by you after 7 minutes, 55 seconds) +18056373145

Aug 28, 2024 7:29:32 PM (Read by you after 7 minutes, 2 seconds) +18056373145

I am complaining tomorrow- and you have to follow up on it.

Aug 28, 2024 7:30:45 PM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 49 seconds) +18056373145

Aug 28, 2024 7:57:34 PM (Read by you after 21 seconds) +18056373145

Can you confirm what they charged you and can we coordinate they do this correctly?

Aug 28, 2024 7:58:32 PM Me

Yes one min

Aug 28, 2024 8:03:43 PM Me

It looks like they did charge me for two, but they also have the spinning balance and the waste fee. There’s nothing on here that says rotation although Ivan did mention it to me when we talked on the phone. I can go in there tomorrow because I’m scheduled to DoorDash Ventura at 11:30 AM. I think they may open at nine. In any event no matter when they open up I can be there

Aug 28, 2024 8:05:13 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 10 seconds) +18056373145

Yeah we need to get this sorted out- your new tires go on the back-

Aug 28, 2024 8:06:18 PM (Read by you after 5 seconds) +18056373145

They took 2.5 hours to do that? Thats a bit ridiculous.

Aug 28, 2024 8:06:30 PM Me

I was a walk in

Aug 28, 2024 8:06:56 PM (Read by you after 11 seconds) +18056373145

Oh, well please go talk to them and if more I will cover it-

Aug 28, 2024 8:07:04 PM (Read by you after 3 seconds) +18056373145

Have a good night

Aug 28, 2024 8:07:29 PM ⇲ Me

You too!

Aug 28, 2024 8:07:58 PM ⇲ Me

I’ll definitely check in with them in the morning. Once I do I’ll let you know what the scoop is. My guess is they’ll swap them front to back and not charge me a dime and if they do that I’ll be sure to let you know

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Aug 28, 2024 8:07:16 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Them doing that concerns me quite a bit

Aug 28, 2024 8:07:29 PM ⇱ Me

You too!
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Aug 28, 2024 8:07:58 PM ⇱ Me

I’ll definitely check in with them in the morning. Once I do I’ll let you know what the scoop is. My guess is they’ll swap them front to back and not charge me a dime and if they do that I’ll be sure to let you know

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Aug 29, 2024 9:48:49 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hi Jen, Hope you’re day is going well. Couple hours of work into it for me already. Have a long day ahead. Lots to do. For example, There’s a really great role I’m applying to that aligns exactly with a previous role I had for 6 years. So the Tires.. I made an appointment for this afternoon to bring it in. I noticed when there that people with appointments were in/out fast. Whereas walking in I had to wait forever. So, set for a 4:15pm appt. They had a space for a note about your Appt. Here’s what I submitted. — Had my car in a few days ago for two new tires to replace the balding tires on the front of the car. I didn't notice until yesterday, but the new tires were on the front. New tires go on the rear if only two are replaced, yet mine are on the front. — I have the paperwork and if I see Ivan I’ll connect with him on it, since he was my service rep.

Aug 29, 2024 9:52:44 AM Me

😁

Aug 29, 2024 9:52:59 AM Me

Keep ya posted!

Aug 29, 2024 9:53:04 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Sounds good.

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Aug 29, 2024 9:53:04 AM Me

Thanks!

Aug 29, 2024 5:27:52 PM Me

Hi Jen, I’m at American tire and getting the tires rotated right now. No mention of a charge so I’m not gonna say a word

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Aug 29, 2024 5:43:52 PM (Read by you after 7 minutes, 18 seconds) +18056373145

Keep me posted

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Aug 29, 2024 5:51:42 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Will do. They already have it in the bay and doing it.

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Aug 29, 2024 5:58:39 PM Me

Yay!! All done :-)

Aug 29, 2024 5:58:46 PM Me

Easy peasy

Aug 29, 2024 5:59:51 PM (Read by you after 32 minutes, 3 seconds) +18056373145

What was their reasoning?

Aug 29, 2024 6:32:24 PM Me

I think it was a young dude.

Aug 29, 2024 6:33:14 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18056373145

Ok! Well glad you got it sorted.

Aug 29, 2024 6:33:45 PM +18056373145

How much tread is on front now

Aug 29, 2024 6:33:49 PM +18056373145

Did y ask

Aug 29, 2024 6:38:08 PM Me

Have plenty for Colorado and maybe back. The pair that just got replaced I had from the beginning and that was 30,000 miles ago the ones on the car now have probably had 10 to 15,000 put on

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Sep 01, 2024 12:35:37 PM (Read by you after 16 minutes, 21 seconds) +18056373145

How’s things?

Sep 01, 2024 12:55:33 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Oy. 🤣 Been challenging on the money/resources front, however that has been persistent for 18 months so I’m normalized to it. But my heightened self awareness sees it clearly. Currently in a Starbucks (126 + 101) figuring out car insurance and cant drive about until I do. I wont don anything stupid, its the other people I’m worried about 😊 — Nuff about me. How you doing? Have you fully recovered from your weekend at the conference?

Sep 01, 2024 12:56:34 PM (Read by you after 10 minutes, 16 seconds) +18056373145

Have you applied for any assistance? Like food stamps, etc?

Sep 01, 2024 1:07:15 PM ⇲ Me

Yes and as expected highly bureaucratic, they do everything through the mail and that’s unfortunate because I get my mail like once a month

Sep 01, 2024 12:57:08 PM (Read by you after 9 minutes, 42 seconds) +18056373145

I am doing ok- it’s a 3 day weekend and I am off to visit family and to DC again for work soon- so gonna be busy.

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Sep 01, 2024 1:07:15 PM ⇱ Me

Yes and as expected highly bureaucratic, they do everything through the mail and that’s unfortunate because I get my mail like once a month
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Sep 01, 2024 1:07:41 PM +18056373145

Can you get a P.O. Box?

Sep 01, 2024 1:07:57 PM +18056373145

I think there are places you can go in and get assistance from.

Sep 01, 2024 1:08:28 PM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 46 seconds) +18056373145

Once you get a card I think they just reload it monthly

Sep 01, 2024 1:08:39 PM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 35 seconds) +18056373145

I have friends currently unemployed doing this

Sep 01, 2024 1:18:04 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Yes, that’s what I understand. However, I don’t qualify for unemployment insurance. Most I could get is a one time $200 emergency money. Its because I’m a 1099

Sep 01, 2024 1:18:41 PM (Read by you after 7 minutes, 40 seconds) +18056373145

But perhaps food?

Sep 01, 2024 1:18:46 PM (Read by you after 7 minutes, 35 seconds) +18056373145

I can ask her

Sep 01, 2024 1:27:51 PM Me

| I started the process however they mail you paperwork every two weeks and you need to provide financial information. So you keep qualifying for the assistance. It’s perpetually proving something. So with the intermittent mail thing by the time I receive the paperwork they want it’s weeks past the deadline to submit thank you
Edited 8 seconds later | I started the process however they mail you paperwork every two weeks and you need to provide financial information. So you keep qualifying for the assistance. It’s perpetually proving something. So with the intermittent mail thing by the time I receive the paperwork they want it’s weeks past the deadline to submit

Sep 01, 2024 1:28:40 PM Me

I’ve been doing OK Without it. And the last thing I need is more things to deal with. I’m just tired, makes me think of this Jim Carrey short

Sep 01, 2024 5:03:30 PM (Read by you after 28 minutes) +18056373145

Ok!

Sep 01, 2024 5:03:46 PM (Read by you after 27 minutes, 44 seconds) +18056373145

It just may allow for you to have other monies!

Sep 01, 2024 5:32:14 PM Me

YouTube

Sep 01, 2024 5:33:18 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 30 seconds) +18056373145

I know I been there

Sep 01, 2024 5:34:32 PM (Read by you after 16 seconds) +18056373145

I take meds every day

Sep 01, 2024 5:34:55 PM Me

On 3

Sep 01, 2024 5:35:09 PM Me

Different ones at same time

Sep 01, 2024 5:35:41 PM Me

i want to do ketamine

Sep 01, 2024 5:51:52 PM (Read by you after 15 hours, 39 minutes, 34 seconds) ⇲ +18056373145

Idk anything about it

Sep 01, 2024 5:35:49 PM (Read by you after 2 minutes, 22 seconds) +18056373145

Yeah. I only need a little bit and it seems to help.

Sep 01, 2024 5:51:52 PM (Read by you after 15 hours, 39 minutes, 34 seconds) ⇱ +18056373145

Idk anything about it
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Sep 03, 2024 2:58:46 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 19 hours, 10 minutes, 54 seconds) +18056373145

Apparently you can apply for ebt on phone and pick up your card from their office.

Sep 03, 2024 2:58:54 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 19 hours, 10 minutes, 46 seconds) +18056373145

Or go in in person

Sep 03, 2024 3:00:56 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 19 hours, 8 minutes, 44 seconds) +18056373145

Do u door dash or Insta cart?

Sep 03, 2024 3:01:39 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 19 hours, 8 minutes, 1 second) +18056373145

My friend also said you can get medical

Sep 05, 2024 9:55:16 AM (Read by you after 14 minutes, 24 seconds) +18056373145

Hey there did you see these? She said she’d be happy to give you some tips.

Sep 24, 2024 12:13:34 PM (Read by you after 15 minutes, 20 seconds) +18056373145

Just checking in- any news on CO?

Sep 24, 2024 12:30:57 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hi, sent an email yesterday to follow up after waiting 10 days. Haven’t heard anything back yet. However, I think I am still going but I’ll still live in the car a while. No space at my cousins place. Its all good I’ve been doing it over a year and a half. Its “normal” now 🙁 Tenative departue date is Oct 4 or 5th. Should take 4 days to get there.

Sep 24, 2024 12:35:01 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Depressions coming back, really strong. I’ve weathered it before, but it sucks — its paralyzing and I lose either all or 1/2 the day dealing with that. Being unproductive is a challenging thing for me to sit with. I’m simply exhausted from surviving. I feel as though I haven’t “lived” since before 2018. Yesterday was bad. Frozen with depression for most of the day. Today is slightly better, but its still there.

Sep 24, 2024 1:30:32 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 23 seconds) +18056373145

I understand. My meds really help me. Is it wise to go to CO in the winter? Just a thought.

Sep 24, 2024 1:30:40 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 15 seconds) +18056373145

I am driving so will write more.

Sep 24, 2024 1:32:18 PM (Read by you after 11 minutes, 37 seconds) +18056373145

I know this has got to be difficult. Do you have any other family you can stay with?

Sep 24, 2024 1:52:32 PM Me

Family in NY. Winter in NY is worse. At least u see the sun in colorado

Sep 24, 2024 2:25:41 PM (Read by you after 12 minutes, 29 seconds) +18056373145

Have you considered working at a ski basin during the season? They are always hiring.

Sep 24, 2024 2:32:24 PM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 46 seconds) +18056373145

I know you’d like to work in your field and I understand that but I thought I would suggest this. I know Angel Firestone in NM provides bunks for people who work for them.

Sep 24, 2024 2:34:12 PM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 58 seconds) +18056373145

*Angel Fire

Sep 24, 2024 8:04:23 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 5 minutes, 33 seconds) +18056373145

I wish there was more I could do to help. The thought of you being in a car in the cold of CO worries me.

Sep 25, 2024 10:22:10 AM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 34 seconds) +18056373145

Bert, I have seen work live situations even some here- someone needed help with 3 horses- would something like that interest you?