Jun 14, 2018 7:48:08 PM (Read by you after 17 seconds) +18058900903

Where are you?

Jul 04, 2018 11:08:49 AM (Read by you after 15 seconds) +18058900903

Are you at the parade?

Jul 04, 2018 11:09:17 AM (Read by them after 54 seconds) Me

We are not

Jul 04, 2018 11:09:25 AM (Read by them after 46 seconds) Me

Happy 4th of July 🇺🇸

Feb 03, 2019 2:52:39 PM (Read by them after 36 seconds) Me

Hey Derick, we’re getting stuff ready here. You need any immediate help with anything? I can run up right now and help out if needed.

Feb 03, 2019 2:53:24 PM +18058900903

Nope. Doing fine.

Feb 03, 2019 2:53:28 PM +18058900903

Thanks.

Feb 03, 2019 2:54:13 PM (Read by them after 1 hour, 38 minutes, 44 seconds) Me

K, cool. We should be there between 2/30-3. Once tri-tip is done

May 03, 2019 9:26:33 AM (Read by them after 17 seconds) Me

NPR.org

May 03, 2019 9:26:47 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick, hope you are well. Saw this and thought you may not have seen it:

May 03, 2019 12:27:33 PM (Read by you after 9 hours, 28 minutes, 37 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks.

Jun 25, 2019 1:40:28 PM (Read by you after 16 minutes, 34 seconds) +18058900903

I know it’s bad timing, but is poker still happening? I will let people know if it’s not.

Jun 25, 2019 1:57:05 PM (Read by them after 5 minutes, 46 seconds) Me

Yes

Jun 25, 2019 1:57:09 PM (Read by them after 5 minutes, 42 seconds) Me

It’s on

Jun 28, 2019 11:04:39 AM (Read by them after 9 seconds) Me

Hi Derek, I’ve talked with Liz and Laura and they would like to do a potluck dinner at our house one week from today. Thinking we create a digital invitation of some kind and we are able to email or text it to people would work. Yes, Laura, Sallie might want to change language can you email me and let them share it with people that want to include

Jun 28, 2019 11:05:35 AM (Read by them after 1 hour, 5 minutes, 55 seconds) Me

I have to ask Elizabeth the time, but she’s out riding her bike right now. Once she’s back I’ll try to get that from her

Jun 28, 2019 12:11:49 PM (Read by you after 6 days, 21 hours, 24 minutes, 18 seconds) +18058900903

Great.

Jun 28, 2019 12:12:25 PM (Read by you after 6 days, 21 hours, 23 minutes, 42 seconds) +18058900903

You can get the street taco guy for $500 for 50 people.

Jul 05, 2019 9:39:09 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Hi Derick, one thing I could use help with today is finding some of those plastic white chairs I know the school has for events. Maybe like 20 of them just to have for people to sit if we don’t have enough chairs. Could you let me know? Thanks!

Jul 05, 2019 2:54:19 PM (Read by them after 2 minutes, 27 seconds) Me

Hey Derick, just checking in to see if you’ve had any luck with the chairs. In Santa Barbara at the moment and wanted to check in

Jul 05, 2019 2:58:01 PM (Read by you after 7 minutes, 16 seconds) +18058900903

Was out this morning picking up Jordan. We have 8 wooden chairs we can bring. I will email Marcy.

Jul 05, 2019 3:05:33 PM (Read by them after 8 minutes, 14 seconds) Me

K thanks !!

Mar 26, 2020 10:48:27 PM +18058900903

Trying to say happy Birthday to the d-man

Jan 01, 2021 5:19:03 PM (Read by them after 6 minutes, 19 seconds) Me

Hi Derick, just left your gas can on the back patio. Aidan borrowed it a while back and it never found it’s way back until now. Thanks again for hosting games last night! D and D were talking about how much fun it was this morning

Jan 01, 2021 5:25:53 PM +18058900903

Thanks. Last night was fun. Thanks to you guys for coming over.

Feb 03, 2021 10:17:22 PM (Read by them after 14 minutes, 56 seconds) Me

reddit

Feb 03, 2021 10:33:04 PM (Read by you after 10 seconds) +18058900903

Unbelievable!

Feb 03, 2021 10:34:26 PM (Read by them after 2 minutes, 57 seconds) Me

No doubt!

Feb 03, 2021 10:37:56 PM (Read by you after 13 hours, 50 seconds) +18058900903

I wish I would have that courage.

Feb 12, 2021 9:18:34 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Dec 22, 2021 10:53:08 PM (Read by them after 1 minute, 32 seconds) Me

Hey Derick, hope you’re well. I was checking to see a) you’re around this week? And b) have any free time? Just got back from Colorado and wanted to connect. No rush, I’m around. Merry New Year!!

Dec 22, 2021 10:56:12 PM (Read by you after 19 hours, 34 minutes, 5 seconds) +18058900903

Here brother. Happy to get together. Let me know a good time for you.

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Dec 25, 2021 11:14:19 PM +18058900903

Hey it’s late, but I am watching football here tomorrow if you want Io get together. Let me know.

Dec 27, 2021 10:44:34 AM (Read by them after 24 minutes, 54 seconds) Me

Hey, sorry to miss you yesterday. Headed to LA today, but around rest of week

Dec 27, 2021 12:08:43 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 56 minutes, 34 seconds) +18058900903

No worries. We are heading to Palm Springs u til Thursday.

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Jan 04, 2022 12:00:10 AM (Read by you after 11 hours, 59 minutes, 15 seconds) +18058900903

Hey do you want to get lunch tomorrow? I have some time.

Jan 04, 2022 12:01:04 PM (Read by them after 42 minutes, 22 seconds) Me

Hey Derick, apologies saw this late this morning. I’m busy today, but free rest of the week. Let me know if you’re free other days this week

Jan 04, 2022 12:45:01 PM +18058900903

I should be around. The only day I have potential trip is Friday. Do you want try tomorrow? I am free after my PT.

Jan 06, 2022 11:23:18 AM (Read by them after 4 minutes, 7 seconds) Me

Hi Derick, apologies but I need to reschedule our lunch today. Woke up not feeling well and can’t shake it. Let me know if you’ll be around tomorrow. I know you had something tentative going on. Otherwise we can connect this weekend. Again, apologies for late notice

Jan 06, 2022 12:23:05 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 24 minutes, 25 seconds) +18058900903

No worries. Tomorrow should work. We are cancelling the Getty Tour. Let me know. Feel better.

Jan 07, 2022 8:31:49 AM (Read by you after 2 hours, 17 minutes, 59 seconds) +18058900903

The girls want to go on a bike ride, so will Saturday work?

Jan 07, 2022 10:49:51 AM (Read by them after 1 hour, 34 minutes, 25 seconds) Me

Yes

Jan 08, 2022 10:04:02 AM (Read by you after 2 hours, 53 minutes, 58 seconds) +18058900903

Come over whenever you want. We will go to lunch.

Jan 08, 2022 12:42:18 PM (Read by you after 15 minutes, 42 seconds) +18058900903

Let me know when you want to go. Or you can text when you leave the house.

Jan 08, 2022 12:58:17 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick, i’m running an errand and when I’m back I’ll come by

Jan 08, 2022 12:58:44 PM +18058900903

Perfect.

Jan 08, 2022 2:24:25 PM (Read by them after 13 seconds) Me

Just back. They screwed up my prescription and had to wait for a fix. Let me know if you’re still a go. I’ll understand if not. We can try again another day

Jan 08, 2022 2:24:51 PM (Read by you after 4 minutes, 8 seconds) +18058900903

I’m good. Come on down.

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Jan 08, 2022 5:52:16 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 42 minutes, 41 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks. Lots of fun.

Jan 27, 2022 2:39:30 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

hey Derick, just heard on Twitter that John Witherspoon passed away. 😟 The man was hilarious. These clips with Eddie Murphy OMG!

Jan 27, 2022 2:39:33 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Jan 27, 2022 2:40:29 PM Me

no, I was WRONG

Jan 27, 2022 2:40:44 PM Me

he passed in 2019

Jan 27, 2022 2:41:04 PM Me

🤦

Jan 27, 2022 2:41:33 PM Me

It was that he would have turned 80 years old today

Jan 27, 2022 2:41:48 PM Me

Still the mushroom shirt!!

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Just watched “House Party” with the girls. He was the cranky neighbor.

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Jan 29, 2022 4:57:34 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

OMFG. Hahahaha

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Jan 29, 2022 4:58:23 PM Me

“Maskless and Entitled at Nordstrom Rack” 🤣

Jan 29, 2022 5:14:32 PM Me

OMG I went down the rabbit hole of course. I found this musical genius as well. Metal, so hard on the ears, but man he matches the rage in the vids. 🤣

Jan 29, 2022 5:14:35 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Jan 29, 2022 5:14:55 PM Me

picks up at about 25 css

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😂

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Jan 30, 2022 5:25:06 PM (Read by them after 39 seconds) Me

You should let Lorne know. Might affect his playlists 😂

Jan 30, 2022 5:25:59 PM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 6 seconds) +18058900903

Absolutely!

Jan 31, 2022 2:14:59 PM (Read by them after 8 seconds) Me

Hi Derick, thanks for getting Declan today. Wondering if You could take me over to Sallies house when you go for Declan to pickup her car?

Jan 31, 2022 2:16:30 PM (Read by you after 19 minutes, 3 seconds) +18058900903

Sure. How close are they? I plan on leaving here at 2:15. Will that

Jan 31, 2022 2:16:49 PM (Read by you after 18 minutes, 44 seconds) +18058900903

Hit too early. Why don’t you meet here at 2

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Jan 31, 2022 2:35:57 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

2:15 should be perfect 👍

Jan 31, 2022 2:36:06 PM (Read by you after 24 minutes, 9 seconds) +18058900903

Ok

Jan 31, 2022 3:00:20 PM (Read by them after 2 minutes, 12 seconds) Me

On my way

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Feb 09, 2022 9:59:55 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

wut?

Feb 09, 2022 9:59:58 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Feb 09, 2022 10:15:12 AM (Read by you after 10 seconds) +18058900903

Ha! Get a groove on.

Feb 09, 2022 10:15:37 AM Me

exactly! looks like a fun way to graduate

Feb 12, 2022 12:59:18 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

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Feb 12, 2022 6:57:25 PM (Read by you after 20 hours, 58 minutes, 11 seconds) +18058900903

Very funny!

Feb 13, 2022 9:18:14 PM (Read by you after 13 hours, 12 minutes, 9 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks for coming over. Lots of fun.

Feb 14, 2022 10:30:49 AM (Read by them after 7 minutes, 8 seconds) Me

Thanks for hosting! Glad the game was close

Feb 14, 2022 6:23:15 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

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haha

Feb 17, 2022 8:36:40 PM Me

Check out Zlatans new method for crunches 👀

Feb 17, 2022 8:36:44 PM (Read by them after 26 seconds) Me

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Mar 07, 2022 10:09:06 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

this is a funny thread. There are clips from a few of these guys in the thread. Katt Williams 👀

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Mar 07, 2022 10:09:09 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Mar 07, 2022 10:10:18 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

OMG!!

Mar 07, 2022 10:10:20 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Mar 07, 2022 10:12:58 AM (Read by you after 36 minutes, 52 seconds) +18058900903

I actually saw that when she did it. It was so wrong.

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Mar 07, 2022 10:50:25 AM Me

Imagine being that guy… 🤣

Mar 07, 2022 10:50:41 AM (Read by them after 20 minutes, 2 seconds) Me

I would leave.

Mar 07, 2022 11:11:01 AM (Read by you after 1 minute, 32 seconds) +18058900903

RUN AWAY FAST!

Mar 13, 2022 11:47:25 AM (Read by them after 3 seconds) Me

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Mar 13, 2022 11:47:42 AM Me

Hope you’re doing well. In NY visiting my parents.

Mar 13, 2022 12:35:48 PM (Read by you after 23 hours, 9 minutes, 39 seconds) +18058900903

In Dallas visiting Bobby Henshel. Liz told us your father was ailing. Hope he feels better. Have in COLD New York.

Mar 13, 2022 3:20:01 PM (Read by you after 20 hours, 25 minutes, 26 seconds) +18058900903

*good time

Apr 30, 2022 8:03:34 AM Me

Hope you are well! Saw this and had to share. Wow…

Apr 30, 2022 8:03:37 AM (Read by them after 2 minutes, 38 seconds) Me

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Apr 30, 2022 2:07:50 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 2 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, Liz told me about your Dad falling again. Is he OK?

Apr 30, 2022 2:26:10 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick, yes he’s ok, thank you. He fell in the yard and could not get up on his own. He was sore the next day but ok. The initial fall that put him in the hospital “flipped a switch” and he is clearly ‘elderly’ now—poor balance, moving slower, still standing a bit crooked but going to PT, and its helping, but it’s a slow road to recovery. Gets a lot harder to work your way back the older you get — use it or lose it 😊

Apr 30, 2022 2:27:06 PM Me

He definitely not flying like that guy I sent you the clip of earlier… damn that guys fast

May 01, 2022 12:58:49 PM +18058900903

Happy Birthday!

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May 01, 2022 3:13:47 PM (Read by them after 1 minute, 31 seconds) Me

Thanks Derick. Grateful to make this many trips around the sun. We’ll get pints 🍻 when I get back

May 01, 2022 3:16:30 PM (Read by you after 18 hours, 45 minutes, 27 seconds) +18058900903

Absolutely. You coming back with your parents to support them? Or do you think your dad will be OK?

May 02, 2022 10:17:58 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I’ll likely stay close to their departure date and fly back to be there when they show up. I think they will be good on the journey. They have a private room the whole way, and know the trip very well. Here’s a pic of them on an early visit mid 90s in Santa Monica.

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May 02, 2022 10:18:12 AM Me

I’m older than both of them now 👀

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May 02, 2022 10:18:27 AM Me

in that photo of course haha

May 02, 2022 10:46:27 AM (Read by you after 11 seconds) +18058900903

Smart to fly back. See you when you get here.

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Jun 04, 2022 6:28:45 PM Me

Hey Derick, I’m back in Ojai. Got back last week. Just remembered to ping you. Hope all is well and hope to see you soon

Jun 04, 2022 6:30:48 PM (Read by you after 4 minutes, 40 seconds) +18058900903

Welcome back. Sure, let’s get together. We leave June 30, so we have some time.

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Jun 05, 2022 2:35:08 PM +18058900903

I know your parents are coming for Declan’s graduation. What day is that? Perhaps we can catch a drink or lunch before then, as I know you will be busy once they arrive.

Jun 05, 2022 9:07:53 PM (Read by them after 34 seconds) Me

They get here on Wednesday.

Jun 05, 2022 9:08:52 PM (Read by you after 5 hours, 11 minutes, 23 seconds) +18058900903

You want to get lunch or a drink on Tuesday?

Jun 06, 2022 2:20:54 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

That sounds great. Lets do it.

Jun 06, 2022 12:36:02 PM (Read by you after 55 minutes, 18 seconds) +18058900903

How about lunch on Tuesday? If you walk down here between 11:30 and noon, I will drive us to town.

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Jun 06, 2022 12:36:08 PM (Read by you after 55 minutes, 12 seconds) +18058900903

Or anywhere

Jun 06, 2022 1:31:59 PM (Read by them after 24 seconds) ⇲ Me

Sounds great 👍

Jun 06, 2022 1:31:26 PM Me

Haha

Jun 06, 2022 1:31:28 PM Me

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Jun 06, 2022 1:31:59 PM (Read by them after 24 seconds) ⇱ Me

Sounds great 👍
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Jun 06, 2022 2:44:59 PM (Read by you after 50 seconds) +18058900903

Don’t know if you have found gainful employment yet or hung out your own shingle, but my sister sent me the link below today, but the jobs seem more like your skillset than mine. Here it is is: https://zapier.com/jobs/#job-openings.

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Jun 06, 2022 2:46:42 PM Me

I’m doing “gig” work at the moment, but I am definitely looking for something full-time + remote.

Jun 07, 2022 12:21:24 PM Me

Hey Derick, I'm just getting home from doing school pick ups. I'll be down there ASAP

Jun 07, 2022 12:22:51 PM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 7 seconds) +18058900903

I coming from town, so no rush.

Jun 07, 2022 12:23:04 PM (Read by you after 4 minutes, 54 seconds) +18058900903

Getting gas.

Jun 07, 2022 12:34:59 PM (Read by you after 21 minutes) +18058900903

I’m home.

Jun 07, 2022 12:40:39 PM (Read by you after 15 minutes, 20 seconds) +18058900903

Let me know when you are on your way down.

Jun 07, 2022 1:03:41 PM (Read by them after 7 seconds) Me

En route

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Jun 07, 2022 5:31:42 PM +18058900903

Thanks. Lots of fun.

Jun 07, 2022 5:31:54 PM Me

Agreed, was good to catch up

Jun 10, 2022 2:13:16 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

OMG! This guy…

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Jun 10, 2022 2:13:23 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Jun 10, 2022 7:40:12 PM (Read by you after 10 seconds) +18058900903

Are you close? We are by the light pole on the right if you are facing stadium.

Jun 10, 2022 7:40:24 PM +18058900903

Graduates are seated.

Jun 10, 2022 7:40:29 PM (Read by them after 4 seconds) Me

My parents are getting out of the car right now I’m trying to park

Jun 11, 2022 10:54:07 AM (Read by you after 1 hour, 7 minutes, 2 seconds) +18058900903

Real fun last night. Great to see your parents.

Jun 11, 2022 11:05:28 AM (Read by you after 55 minutes, 41 seconds) +18058900903

Real fun last night. Great to see your parents.

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Jun 11, 2022 12:01:43 PM (Read by them after 5 minutes, 55 seconds) Me

It’s was fun for sure. Good to see all the Perrys as well!

Jun 13, 2022 3:29:21 PM (Read by you after 6 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I hope is well. I saw some stuff you posted on Twitter about having bad days for a year. That worries me a bit because you said you were in a good place at lunch the other day. My other concern is that a potential employer might see it. As you know, I have been burned by the internet in employment situations. Again, I hope all is well

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Jun 13, 2022 3:32:13 PM Me

Yes, all is good 👍 thanks for checking! Sometimes I vent/put stuff out there. And thank you for the excellent reminder about posting shit out there. I will likely go through and clean some shit up 😆

Jun 13, 2022 3:53:56 PM (Read by you after 11 seconds) ⇲ +18058900903

That can be useful. It does feel good/is useful to vent.

Jun 13, 2022 3:32:34 PM Me

Twitter can feel like screaming into the void, and sometimes it feels really good

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That can be useful. It does feel good/is useful to vent.
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Jun 15, 2022 11:54:00 PM Me

So smooth in last 50 yds

Jun 15, 2022 11:54:02 PM (Read by them after 19 minutes, 18 seconds) Me

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Jun 16, 2022 11:59:41 PM Me

This…

Jun 16, 2022 11:59:57 PM (Read by them after 8 hours, 5 minutes, 20 seconds) Me

Can’t wait!

Jun 25, 2022 8:38:38 AM Me

Think of him in Pulp Fiction mode saying this. OMG 😱

Jun 25, 2022 8:38:40 AM (Read by them after 4 hours, 24 minutes, 56 seconds) Me

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Jun 25, 2022 9:38:38 PM Me

Mr. Westbrick is a bit upset 🤣🤣🤣

Jun 25, 2022 9:38:41 PM (Read by them after 32 seconds) Me

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Jun 25, 2022 9:39:35 PM Me

OMG 😆 Bosh Spice 🤣

Jun 25, 2022 9:39:40 PM (Read by them after 7 seconds) Me

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Jun 25, 2022 9:40:17 PM +18058900903

Unbelievable!

Jul 02, 2022 2:51:17 PM (Read by them after 1 hour, 27 minutes, 27 seconds) Me

Hope the high desert is treating you well. Heard about rolling blackouts on Texas power grid. Hopefully you’re not affected

Jul 02, 2022 8:42:03 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 54 seconds) +18058900903

So far, so good

Jul 02, 2022 8:44:18 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Have you arrived?

Jul 02, 2022 8:53:18 PM (Read by you after 16 hours, 58 minutes, 41 seconds) +18058900903

Yep. Fed and drinking wine.

Jul 12, 2022 11:58:08 PM Me

The comments are the best.

Jul 12, 2022 11:58:11 PM (Read by them after 6 hours, 6 minutes, 28 seconds) Me

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Jul 24, 2022 2:17:45 PM Me

You got this! Happy Sunday 😁

Jul 24, 2022 2:17:47 PM Me

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Jul 24, 2022 2:23:43 PM Me

Had to share this, never seen his sketxh. Richard Pryor went HARD

Jul 24, 2022 2:23:46 PM (Read by them after 12 minutes, 17 seconds) Me

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Jul 24, 2022 2:39:20 PM (Read by you after 12 seconds) +18058900903

Saw it live back in the day. So funny.

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Jul 26, 2022 10:09:41 PM Me

Careful! People in Huston pop a cap. She's had enough

Jul 26, 2022 10:09:44 PM (Read by them after 6 hours, 43 minutes, 12 seconds) Me

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Aug 08, 2022 7:56:21 PM Me

Hahahaha

Aug 08, 2022 7:56:24 PM (Read by them after 10 seconds) Me

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Aug 08, 2022 7:59:19 PM (Read by you after 7 minutes, 39 seconds) +18058900903

Very funny. There has been so much about this b

Aug 08, 2022 8:07:15 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

social media is going bananas right now

Aug 08, 2022 8:09:33 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

but aside from that most legal people think this is SERIOUS. There is no way that this would go down without, essentially, ironclad proof there is evidence of a crime at MarALago and they dropped in while he’s out of town. By all accounts leak proof operation it seems. Someone wasn’t messing around.

Aug 08, 2022 8:10:39 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

you imagine DOJ has to hold a press conference to tamp down conspiracies that are already growing online

Aug 08, 2022 8:11:24 PM (Read by you after 3 seconds) +18058900903

Absolutely. He is a criminal.

Aug 08, 2022 8:12:52 PM Me

I always think about all the working people in real estate and construction he screwed over in NY, and then BS lawsuits to scare them away. He’s not a good human.

Aug 08, 2022 8:13:14 PM Me

FAFO

Aug 08, 2022 8:13:31 PM Me

“Karma’s a bitch” I think fits the moment well.

Aug 08, 2022 8:13:31 PM +18058900903

So true.

Aug 08, 2022 9:36:51 PM Me

Oh hey forgot to share my new website with you. I have an interview tomorrow and setting one up with Oracle later this week. Let me know what you think about the site, and of course if something jumps out language wise, by all means send it my way😁 Should be good on any device and different content for case studies between mobile/desktop

Aug 09, 2022 10:23:57 PM (Read by you after 30 minutes, 17 seconds) ⇲ +18058900903

Nice job on the website. Good luck on the interviews.

Aug 08, 2022 9:36:53 PM (Read by them after 48 minutes, 33 seconds) Me

Bert Mahoney—User Experience and User Interface Designer

Aug 09, 2022 7:43:49 PM (Read by them after 33 seconds) Me

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Aug 09, 2022 7:44:40 PM (Read by you after 3 seconds) +18058900903

This account is so good.

Aug 09, 2022 7:44:54 PM Me

It is

Aug 09, 2022 7:45:01 PM (Read by them after 4 minutes, 14 seconds) Me

I was thinking Marvin Shagan would love it

Aug 09, 2022 7:49:23 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 26 minutes, 55 seconds) +18058900903

Absolutely!

Aug 09, 2022 10:23:57 PM (Read by you after 30 minutes, 17 seconds) ⇱ +18058900903

Nice job on the website. Good luck on the interviews.
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Aug 09, 2022 11:05:19 PM (Read by them after 54 seconds) Me

Thanks! Had 2 interviews today. One With a recruiter and the other with a potential client for a side project and both went well. I want to tell the recruiter “show me the Money!!”

Aug 09, 2022 11:07:15 PM Me

How are things going in Texas? Has anyone egged your car because of California plates? 🤣🤣🤣

Aug 09, 2022 11:07:47 PM Me

Srsly thiugh, things good?

Aug 09, 2022 11:08:16 PM Me

Though, not ☝️

Aug 09, 2022 11:08:50 PM (Read by them after 3 minutes, 4 seconds) Me

Things going well for you and Molly in TX?

Aug 09, 2022 11:14:55 PM +18058900903

We are doing well. We have an offer on a house, so we are hopeful that works out. I am job hunting and going on lots of interviews. Hope it works out. Glad to hear that yours have gone well.

Aug 09, 2022 11:15:24 PM Me

That's great to hear that!

Aug 09, 2022 11:15:39 PM (Read by them after 32 seconds) Me

Have you stumbled across any good barbecue?

Aug 10, 2022 8:58:29 AM (Read by you after 22 minutes) +18058900903

We have seen a couple of places, but it too damn hot to eat a heavy meal. Went to a Rangers game though.

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Aug 10, 2022 10:21:31 AM Me

I remember when he passed, shocked. Can't believe it's been this long

Aug 10, 2022 10:21:33 AM (Read by them after 30 seconds) Me

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Aug 13, 2022 6:40:00 PM (Read by them after 4 minutes, 4 seconds) Me

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Aug 14, 2022 12:54:09 PM (Read by them after 4 minutes) Me

My brother sent me.this 🤣 ￼

Aug 14, 2022 4:17:02 PM +18058900903

So good.

Aug 22, 2022 3:33:32 PM (Read by them after 3 seconds) Me

Hope you and Molly are doing well over there!

Aug 22, 2022 3:48:59 PM (Read by you after 38 minutes, 34 seconds) +18058900903

We are fine. Thanks for asking.

Aug 22, 2022 4:02:26 PM (Read by you after 25 minutes, 7 seconds) +18058900903

Bought a house today.

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Aug 22, 2022 4:28:11 PM Me

Wow, that's great news! I'm sure nice to get that stress put to bed

Aug 22, 2022 4:28:55 PM (Read by them after 54 seconds) Me

Pre season kids arrived yesterday. Sadly, the silence of summer is over

Aug 22, 2022 7:48:17 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 25 minutes, 39 seconds) +18058900903

How’s the job search? You had some good prospects the last time we texted. I am interviewing like crazy.

Aug 22, 2022 10:16:03 PM (Read by them after 1 minute, 37 seconds) ⇲ Me

Likewise, have an interview in the morning, lining up another later this week, and waiting to hear from 2 others I did a week ago. I have about 40 applications still waiting to hear from.

Aug 22, 2022 9:29:58 PM (Read by you after 43 minutes, 58 seconds) +18058900903

BTW, I asked Bert about his job search and its efficacy.

Aug 22, 2022 9:31:34 PM (Read by you after 42 minutes, 22 seconds) +18058900903

I meant what is its efficacy?

Aug 22, 2022 10:05:36 PM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 20 seconds) +18058900903

Zillow

Aug 22, 2022 10:05:36 PM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 20 seconds) +18058900903

Here is the house.

Aug 22, 2022 10:16:03 PM (Read by them after 1 minute, 37 seconds) ⇱ Me

Likewise, have an interview in the morning, lining up another later this week, and waiting to hear from 2 others I did a week ago. I have about 40 applications still waiting to hear from.
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Aug 22, 2022 10:18:19 PM (Read by you after 46 seconds) +18058900903

Isn’t that the case? Hurry up to wait.

Aug 22, 2022 10:19:07 PM (Read by them after 4 minutes, 20 seconds) Me

Aug 22, 2022 10:24:04 PM +18058900903

So true. Outside tvs are a thing here.

Aug 22, 2022 10:24:28 PM Me

That looks REALLY nice on main level with big room and kitchen!!

Aug 22, 2022 10:24:58 PM +18058900903

It’s awesome. That’s where we will be most of the time.

Aug 22, 2022 10:27:36 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Aug 22, 2022 10:28:04 PM Me

The deck Superbowl party

Aug 22, 2022 10:28:16 PM Me

March Madness

Aug 22, 2022 10:28:31 PM (Read by them after 1 minute, 8 seconds) Me

Nba playoffs 🤣

Aug 22, 2022 10:29:49 PM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 10 seconds) +18058900903

Locked in.

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Aug 22, 2022 10:37:07 PM (Read by them after 10 seconds) Me

That setup staged? Or does that come with house? I see that shiny grill in the corner!

Aug 22, 2022 10:38:57 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 46 seconds) +18058900903

We asked for the seating and got it. We have to get a new grill; however, there is natural gas line on the roof.

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Aug 24, 2022 10:27:55 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

OMG, Dave Chappele’s 49th birthday today and I see this clip of him impersonating “Rick James, Bitch!” 🤣🤣🤣

Aug 24, 2022 10:28:00 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Aug 24, 2022 10:30:18 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Another good one I saw this morning. There are these metal slide videos that have been showing up online where people are getting trashed going down it. A detroit rapper went to work, hahaha

Aug 24, 2022 10:30:21 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Aug 24, 2022 1:27:09 PM (Read by you after 9 seconds) +18058900903

Where do you find these things? So good! That Chapelle sketch is one of the best ever.

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Aug 24, 2022 1:27:29 PM Me

all on Twitter

Aug 24, 2022 1:27:52 PM Me

The Wu-Tang is for the Children account is great

Aug 25, 2022 8:33:17 AM Me

Reminds me of “Get Out!”

Aug 25, 2022 8:33:20 AM (Read by them after 1 minute, 31 seconds) Me

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Aug 25, 2022 10:51:20 AM +18058900903

So true.

Aug 25, 2022 5:30:10 PM Me

Made me think of Eddie Murphys stand up, “Get OUT!” “Ok, we gotta go!”

Aug 25, 2022 5:30:46 PM Me

OK, this I had to share ,but I can’t explain it. The tweeter sums it up best, but this falls into the WTF category:

Aug 25, 2022 5:30:50 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Aug 25, 2022 5:36:55 PM (Read by you after 47 minutes, 22 seconds) +18058900903

White House on roll today. Go to account:

Aug 25, 2022 5:36:58 PM (Read by you after 47 minutes, 19 seconds) +18058900903

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Aug 25, 2022 6:25:01 PM Me

People were retweeting them like mad

Aug 25, 2022 6:26:37 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I just had this come by and it’s DAMN funny. Jamie Foxx doing a Trump impersonation with Snoop sitting next to him. They’re promoting a new movie called “Day Shift” Its so good.

Aug 25, 2022 6:26:42 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Aug 25, 2022 6:27:13 PM Me

“excuse me, excuse me”

Aug 25, 2022 6:27:41 PM Me

truly an incredible talent

Aug 25, 2022 6:33:14 PM (Read by you after 48 minutes, 33 seconds) +18058900903

He has so many good ones.

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Aug 25, 2022 7:22:17 PM Me

My brother sent this and has to share

Aug 25, 2022 7:22:22 PM (Read by them after 29 minutes, 16 seconds) Me

Power 96

Aug 26, 2022 3:56:45 AM Me

Haha

Aug 26, 2022 3:56:52 AM (Read by them after 2 hours, 4 minutes, 10 seconds) Me

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Aug 29, 2022 11:14:14 PM (Read by them after 2 hours, 6 minutes, 48 seconds) Me

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Aug 30, 2022 1:45:19 PM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 35 seconds) +18058900903

She is so good on Twitter.

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Sep 08, 2022 10:12:32 PM +18058900903

Hey, I had two interviews today and I thought about you. How is the job hunt going? Your resume/post came up on LinkedIn yesterday. I hope it has gotten you good results.

Sep 09, 2022 11:35:22 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

That’s great to hear! I actually interviewed with a recruiter for Paramount yesterday. She’s moving me to the next round; now, wait and see. I also got a rejection in the middle of an interview process that stung—I thought it would pan out. Every day is checking postings, finding good matches, and submitting materials—a total slog 😊

Sep 09, 2022 11:36:37 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hope you’re not cooking as much as we are. Been hot, but the humidity is 2x from normal. So even though it’s relatively low compared to the east coast, out here it’s a killer. Sucks the life force out of you.

Sep 13, 2022 10:53:33 PM Me

I can't believe what I find sometimes, OMG

Sep 13, 2022 10:53:35 PM Me

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Sep 14, 2022 9:58:45 PM Me

This man knows his biscuits! 😂🤣😂🤣 And he damn funny too.

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Sep 14, 2022 9:58:51 PM Me

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Sep 14, 2022 10:00:12 PM (Read by them after 16 minutes, 32 seconds) Me

“It's Hardees dawg, there's only certain biscuits in the game” 🤣🤣

Sep 15, 2022 1:56:43 PM Me

Fred Franzia, the creator of 'Two Buck Chuck,' has died at 79

Sep 15, 2022 1:56:46 PM (Read by them after 23 minutes, 18 seconds) Me

NPR.org

Sep 15, 2022 2:20:47 PM (Read by you after 9 hours, 27 minutes, 5 seconds) +18058900903

I know. I will have a box of Franzia in his honor.

Sep 20, 2022 12:51:48 PM (Read by you after 5 hours, 59 minutes, 7 seconds) +18058900903

Do you have time to chat today or tomorrow? Just checking in. Job search, kids, Liz, Sally. I get some info from Liz but she is hating horse department, so spend a lot of time talking about that. Let me know. Free until about 2:30 your time today.

Sep 20, 2022 6:52:02 PM Me

Sorry to miss you. Just back from watching Darragh in a JV football game/scrimmage against Cate.

Sep 20, 2022 6:52:24 PM Me

Tuesday's are always tough. I'm around tomorrow

Sep 20, 2022 6:55:22 PM +18058900903

Cool. How did he do?

Sep 20, 2022 6:59:50 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

No broken bones or concussions, I’d say that’s a win!

Sep 20, 2022 7:00:18 PM Me

He did well, it was a very measured type of scrimmage because none of these guys have been in a real live high school football game before

Sep 20, 2022 7:00:50 PM Me

I could see hesitancy though, and Declan says he needs to be more aggressive!! 😂

Sep 20, 2022 9:25:23 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 12 minutes, 36 seconds) +18058900903

That’s so funny. Will you be available tomorrow at 10am your time? Love to catch up.

Sep 20, 2022 11:38:28 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

NyQuil Chicken ? WTAF 😳

Sep 20, 2022 11:42:40 PM (Read by you after 8 hours, 47 minutes, 27 seconds) +18058900903

This is absolutely crazy.

Sep 21, 2022 6:52:46 PM (Read by you after 4 hours, 36 minutes, 48 seconds) +18058900903

Yes. 75 inches! Man-sized! Have to think about hanging, but good where it is.

Sep 27, 2022 1:47:13 PM (Read by them after 43 seconds) Me

OMG 😆 ￼

Sep 27, 2022 1:48:05 PM +18058900903

Hah!

Sep 27, 2022 5:44:23 PM Me

Darragh, 82, got himself a tackle!

Sep 27, 2022 7:26:30 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

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Sep 29, 2022 12:14:24 PM Me

hey derick, might I use you as a reference? I actually have some one asking for them. I’ll give them your cell, but what email should I use for you?

Sep 29, 2022 12:16:45 PM (Read by you after 2 seconds) +18058900903

No problem. dsp2115@gmail.com. Good luck!

Sep 29, 2022 12:16:55 PM Me

Cool thanks!

Sep 29, 2022 12:17:25 PM Me

Its for a contract remote gig with Dell computers. And the office is based in Austin 😊

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Sep 30, 2022 1:31:52 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Yo! Just heard back from Amazon, and made it to the next round of interviews. I present 2-3 case studies of my work with a UX Designer from Amazon to assess my functional skills w00t w00t!

Sep 30, 2022 1:56:24 PM (Read by you after 15 minutes, 45 seconds) +18058900903

Great. Good luck.

Sep 30, 2022 2:12:16 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Thanks!

Sep 30, 2022 2:12:40 PM Me

Just saw this. You can’t make this shit up… 🤣

Sep 30, 2022 2:12:43 PM Me

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Oct 12, 2022 11:46:36 PM Me

Hey Derick, hope all is well. Just saw this and remembered you guys can vote for Beto, yes?

Oct 12, 2022 11:46:37 PM Me

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Oct 13, 2022 12:45:24 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Oh, Hawaii was amazing! Amazingly beautiful place. I would like to go when its not Ironman. The locals were great. The men’s and women’s races were both won by rookies. And the men’s race was record-setting and amazing. The first 4 finishers in men broke the existing world record. The winner, Gustav Eden 2.4m swim — 48:23 (8th) 112m bike — 4:11:06 (6th) 26.2m run — 2:36:15 (1st - course run record) 7:40:24 (new world record) He ran a 2:36 marathon 🤯🤯🤯 after bike and swim in nasty heat and humidity. Just ridiculous.

Oct 13, 2022 12:46:27 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Oct 13, 2022 4:54:36 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 36 minutes, 9 seconds) +18058900903

We will vote for Beto! Hawaii is wonderful. Eating is expensive, but the islands are beautiful.

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Oct 13, 2022 11:34:52 AM Me

How goes your search?

Oct 13, 2022 11:44:03 AM (Read by you after 1 minute, 24 seconds) +18058900903

Stalled. Looking for the right spot.

Oct 13, 2022 11:44:11 AM (Read by you after 1 minute, 16 seconds) +18058900903

How about you?

Oct 13, 2022 12:04:27 PM Me

Amazon put a hold on hiring for the role I was interviewing for, but I have a lead on 2 other roles at AWS inside Amazon and waiting to hear back from my applications. Had a final interview with an early childhood education company called Hatch who need help with their proprietary software. I’ll hear the final decision within a week. I’ve been interviewing with many agencies, Aquent, TDA Creative, Mathys+Potestio, and others keeping in contact about opportunities. Been keeping track in excel on all my applications. 184 submitted 15 replied for interview (8%) 42 replied pass (22%) 127 crickets (69%)

Oct 13, 2022 12:05:28 PM Me

I have to say I dont have any data to prove it, but I “feel” ageism, its there but cant pin it down

Oct 13, 2022 12:42:30 PM (Read by you after 14 seconds) +18058900903

Feels the same here. Molly’s sister feels the same way in her job search.

Oct 13, 2022 12:42:49 PM Me

Damn kids!

Oct 14, 2022 1:07:07 PM Me

😂

Oct 14, 2022 1:07:11 PM (Read by them after 5 minutes, 7 seconds) Me

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Oct 14, 2022 11:04:50 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 20 seconds) +18058900903

Very funny.

Oct 19, 2022 10:03:21 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 5 minutes, 26 seconds) +18058900903

Did you hear anything from your applications?

Oct 20, 2022 9:33:48 PM Me

Hey Derick!

Oct 20, 2022 9:34:41 PM (Read by them after 53 minutes, 26 seconds) Me

Yes I did. Last Friday I got an offer. I’ve been negotiating with them this week. Hope to sign final docs tomorrow. Just waiting for their reply to my counter on their offer

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Oct 20, 2022 11:33:50 PM (Read by you after 9 seconds) +18058900903

Congratulations.

Oct 21, 2022 1:27:07 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Thanks!

Oct 21, 2022 1:27:11 PM Me

just saw the confetti

Oct 21, 2022 1:27:45 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Happy Friday!! Here’s something funny… I wasn’t expecting it

Oct 21, 2022 1:27:50 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Oct 22, 2022 1:29:13 PM (Read by them after 12 minutes, 27 seconds) Me

I just got to catch up with Nikki and Eric Butts! Said I would say hello 👋 They are doing well, and honestly I can’t believe they have a daughter who is a freshman

Oct 22, 2022 11:52:21 PM (Read by you after 11 seconds) +18058900903

Wow. That’s cool. We had lunch with them this summer.

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Oct 22, 2022 11:54:23 PM Me

Also followed Darragh around to all his classes and his classmates brought along Crockett ( Don Johnson ), Flea, and Liv Tyler.

Oct 25, 2022 6:54:10 AM (Read by you after 6 hours, 31 minutes, 44 seconds) +18058900903

Cool. Hope all is well.

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Oct 25, 2022 1:26:26 PM (Read by them after 9 minutes, 14 seconds) Me

How are things going? Still stalled? Any leads?

Oct 25, 2022 1:36:42 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 59 seconds) +18058900903

Actually, just got an interesting interview with Dallas Performing Arts.

Oct 25, 2022 1:52:14 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) ⇲ Me

That sounds excellent — it could be an exciting direction to go. Plus think of how much you can make on the side scalping tix 🤣🤣🤣

Oct 25, 2022 1:37:34 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 7 seconds) +18058900903

Did they accept your counteroffer? Is the job with Amazon?

Oct 25, 2022 1:53:51 PM (Read by them after 1 second) ⇲ Me

Not Amazon, a company called Hatch Early Learning based in North Carolina. I have a meeting setup this Friday with the 2 guys that want to bring me on board. They report they have a few options to share with me and want to talk about it rather than just send an email.

Oct 25, 2022 1:52:14 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) ⇱ Me

That sounds excellent — it could be an exciting direction to go. Plus think of how much you can make on the side scalping tix 🤣🤣🤣
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Oct 25, 2022 1:53:51 PM (Read by them after 1 second) ⇱ Me

Not Amazon, a company called Hatch Early Learning based in North Carolina. I have a meeting setup this Friday with the 2 guys that want to bring me on board. They report they have a few options to share with me and want to talk about it rather than just send an email.
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Oct 25, 2022 1:56:18 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

I’m pretty confident I’ll come out of that meeting with something that’s workable. Also on their team I will be one of three that does my line of work, and I’ll be senior to them. At Amazon I would be one of hundreds that do my work. More opportunity to make an impact at a smaller company. They have targets they’ve shared which are ambitious but possible if the right things come together.

Oct 25, 2022 1:57:18 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

But if Amazon or Google or Apple came calling I wouldn’t turn a deaf ear

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Oct 25, 2022 2:07:05 PM Me

Keep me posted on DPA. Rooting of the callback!

Oct 25, 2022 2:07:19 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

of = for

Oct 25, 2022 2:09:41 PM (Read by you after 15 seconds) +18058900903

Well, it sounds like a great opportunity. Hope the position and money are right. I am assuming it’s remote. Any monthly travel to NC to meet with the team? That’s what Bobby’s wife is doing at her remote job — she goes to SF for a few days a month.

Oct 25, 2022 2:10:52 PM Me

Wow. No mention of travel so far. I believe all of the team is remote.

Oct 25, 2022 2:11:37 PM Me

I’ve been careful not to get into a “hybrid” situation.

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Oct 31, 2022 10:45:59 AM Me

This is hilarious. Loved that show.

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Oct 31, 2022 10:46:02 AM Me

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Oct 31, 2022 11:38:21 AM (Read by you after 25 minutes, 54 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, how did the chat with your potential firm go? I am sure well.

Oct 31, 2022 12:05:22 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

It did go well. They are going to pay at the rate I asked for. Couldn’t believe it actually. I’m waiting for the updated paperwork today. If it all looks good I’ll be starting this week

Oct 31, 2022 12:05:57 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 20 minutes, 4 seconds) +18058900903

Congrats!

Oct 31, 2022 2:26:05 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

thanks!

Nov 01, 2022 8:04:01 AM +18058900903

Hey, I know this is not perfect timing with a new job about to start, but Molly has been filling me in on some of the latest stuff with you and Liz. Do you have time to chat today or tomorrow? If today, any time after 9am your time would be fine. I also understand if you don’t want to talk, but in any case you have my good thoughts.

Nov 01, 2022 11:36:10 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick, just saw your text, and THANKS for the good thoughts—I can use any and all good mojo. The last 18 months have been very challenging. I was badly depressed before COVID. Then I had major depressive disorder (the worst its ever been), and it got worse (remember all the drinking in early covid times?). A+L cut me to one project part-time (depression affecting my work), then things blew up with Liz, then A+L cut me off one day in April “see ya, thanks.” All the while trying to not fall back into the black hole of despair while job hunting and not putting money in the bank. Honestly thought I would land a new gig quick, but that didn’t happen (190 total apps submitted). I did have Amazon courting me, but the timing doesn’t feel right. Anyhow, Got the revised contract today and looking it over. If everything looks in order, I’ll sign and be billing hours this week. Hopefully, working again will take the money strain of. Then I’m hoping Liz and I can see a marriage counselor to talk. We don’t speak, I want to—but the walls are up (if you know what I mean). I say good morning, hello, and bye, but that’s about the extent of it. Anyhow, I could talk around 1pm, so I don’t text my life story to you 😊 Does that work for you?

Nov 01, 2022 11:46:12 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

Yes. Give me a call. I will be working in our guest room, where reception is not perfect, so I don’t answer I will get right back to you.

Nov 01, 2022 11:52:47 AM Me

ok, no problem

Nov 01, 2022 1:59:05 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

give me 10 mins, getting back to my desk

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Nov 01, 2022 2:16:10 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

cool, calling now

Nov 01, 2022 4:55:34 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 59 minutes, 33 seconds) +18058900903

Husband and wife team: http://www.drkjellrudestam.com/ and http://www.drjanrudestam.com/. They are both very good.

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Nov 03, 2022 12:36:56 AM Me

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/powerball-winner-jackpot-15-billion-rcna55391

Nov 07, 2022 10:59:02 AM +18058900903

Mo’ money now! Mama needs a new pair of shoes.

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Nov 07, 2022 11:55:33 AM (Read by them after 12 minutes, 48 seconds) Me

The cash out is nearly a billion 👀

Nov 08, 2022 1:17:36 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Quick FYI — I heard back from dr. Rudestam. She’s booked thru the holidays and has a waiting list for January. She did offer to share some names and waiting for those.

Nov 08, 2022 3:25:01 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 34 minutes, 33 seconds) +18058900903

Great. I hope it helps. Her husband might be available, or did she say he was not?

Nov 08, 2022 5:59:55 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

She did not mention her husband. He may be on the list I get back, if not I’ll ask.

Nov 08, 2022 8:46:29 PM (Read by them after 5 minutes, 18 seconds) Me

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Nov 24, 2022 11:19:16 PM +18058900903

Hey, let’s catch up on Saturday. Love to hear about your new job.

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Is this you back in the day?

Dec 12, 2022 6:28:52 PM (Read by them after 37 minutes, 6 seconds) Me

Yes of course!

Dec 13, 2022 9:39:44 PM (Read by you after 16 minutes, 20 seconds) +18058900903

Do you have time tomorrow to catch up? Love to hear about your new job. Things are fine here. Girls arrive tomorrow.

Dec 13, 2022 9:54:36 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 28 seconds) +18058900903

Saturday works but I will be on a plane most of the day.

Dec 13, 2022 9:56:43 PM Me

Between 1:30-3:30 or after 6 tomorrow

Dec 13, 2022 9:56:59 PM (Read by them after 4 seconds) Me

Damn meetings 😂

Dec 13, 2022 9:58:48 PM (Read by you after 58 seconds) +18058900903

Hah! Let’s try 2pm your time tomorrow.

Dec 13, 2022 9:59:49 PM Me

Perfect

Dec 14, 2022 3:54:04 PM (Read by them after 19 seconds) Me

Hey there, got stuck in work. About to head to soccer. I’ll try calling you later when I’m back from soccer if not we can connect tomorrow. I believe I have less meetings tomorrow. Let me know what tomorrow looks like for you if we don’t connect tonight

Dec 14, 2022 3:56:25 PM (Read by you after 11 seconds) +18058900903

Great. Thanks. I am free tonight from 6-8 your time.

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Dec 15, 2022 10:25:35 AM (Read by you after 8 hours, 19 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

I am free until about 1pm your time today. I will also have time tomorrow.

Dec 15, 2022 6:45:25 PM (Read by them after 3 minutes, 25 seconds) Me

I’ll call you tomorrow, Friday

Dec 15, 2022 6:49:28 PM +18058900903

Perfect. Free until 1pm your time.

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Dec 18, 2022 8:36:49 AM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 33 seconds) +18058900903

Beautiful goal!

Dec 18, 2022 8:44:44 AM Me

So good!! Declan and I were up off the couch in the build up and shouting into the foothills. May have woken up the neighbors

Dec 18, 2022 8:45:34 AM (Read by them after 1 minute, 38 seconds) Me

Argentina 🇦🇷 — right now — will not be denied

Dec 18, 2022 9:44:16 AM +18058900903

OMG!

Dec 18, 2022 10:02:37 AM (Read by them after 45 seconds) Me

Nerves are shot

Dec 18, 2022 10:03:57 AM (Read by you after 14 seconds) +18058900903

They should just call it a tie. Don’t let this great game end on PK’s.

Dec 18, 2022 10:45:01 AM Me

Hate this

Dec 18, 2022 10:45:14 AM (Read by them after 6 minutes, 23 seconds) Me

Argentina has been far better

Dec 18, 2022 10:54:04 AM +18058900903

What’s up with all the brothers on the French team? Don’t see them in the ads for the country.

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Jan 01, 2023 8:39:29 AM (Read by you after 2 hours, 46 minutes, 19 seconds) +18058900903

Happy New Year!

Jan 01, 2023 11:26:13 AM Me

Merry New Year!

Jan 01, 2023 11:26:15 AM (Read by them after 3 minutes, 16 seconds) Me

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Jan 01, 2023 12:53:32 PM (Read by you after 6 hours, 35 minutes, 32 seconds) +18058900903

Do you have time to catch up today? I am not working.

Jan 01, 2023 7:29:58 PM Me

If you still have time tonight I could call you in a bit, how late is too late? Also, I have tomorrow off from work so I’m open and could call you at any time tomorrow. Would definitely like to catch up with you

Jan 01, 2023 7:31:57 PM (Read by them after 1 hour, 31 minutes, 44 seconds) Me

I just realized today as Declan was talking fantasy NFL with me that we will not have a Super Bowl party with you. Perhaps we can put FaceTime on and sit in our living rooms. I got to be honest I am going to miss your wings! 🥺

Jan 01, 2023 9:10:44 PM (Read by you after 11 hours, 24 minutes, 5 seconds) +18058900903

Sorry I missed this. Watching a movie with family. Tomorrow works. How about 6:30pm your time? I can do early too (8:30 your time), but we are going to see Avatar and it’s THREE HOURS.

Jan 03, 2023 9:20:36 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Mea Culpa! Sorry I’ve been distracted. Can I call u tomorrow? Let me know what works for you

Jan 03, 2023 9:21:03 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Also this is g-damn hilarious

Jan 03, 2023 9:21:07 PM (Read by them after 3 seconds) Me

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Jan 03, 2023 9:21:16 PM +18058900903

Absolutely. Free all day.

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Jan 03, 2023 9:21:33 PM Me

Awesome. How early you up

Jan 03, 2023 9:22:22 PM Me

I have a standing 10am Pst meeting is why I ask. I could call u before that

Jan 03, 2023 9:23:23 PM Me

So 8-9 am pst “ish” That work?

Jan 03, 2023 9:23:42 PM +18058900903

I will be up by 5:30 your time. Have nothing to do until noon your time. I am off tomorrow , so call at 8 your time.

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Jan 03, 2023 9:23:52 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

Yes that works

Jan 03, 2023 9:24:00 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Perfect

Jan 03, 2023 9:26:27 PM Me

Btw world championship of darts 🎯 happened today and it was incredible. I watched it live around noon. Best part is the 9 darter at 2:03 Best leg of darts I’ve EVER seen. The leg at 2:03 is LEGEND, for real

Jan 03, 2023 9:26:29 PM (Read by them after 49 seconds) Me

YouTube

Jan 03, 2023 9:27:26 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Guy in green 3 time world champ, guy on right been to finals TWICE AND LOST.

Jan 03, 2023 9:27:38 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Amazing amazing final

Jan 03, 2023 9:28:19 PM Me

The standard is world class. No one better

Jan 03, 2023 9:28:35 PM +18058900903

I will check it out. Love competition.

Jan 03, 2023 9:28:57 PM Me

The crowd and announcer go mental

Jan 03, 2023 9:29:11 PM (Read by them after 4 seconds) Me

It’s ridiculous

Jan 03, 2023 9:29:32 PM (Read by them after 20 seconds) Me

I will never see something like that in my life ever again

Jan 03, 2023 9:31:11 PM Me

It’s like guys hitting back to back hole in one’s at the masters The odds are not comprehendable

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Jan 03, 2023 9:31:46 PM Me

To me that’s the parallel in sport

Jan 03, 2023 9:31:57 PM (Read by them after 7 seconds) Me

So rare

Jan 03, 2023 9:34:52 PM Me

Literally watched the impossible

Jan 03, 2023 9:35:06 PM (Read by them after 1 minute, 8 seconds) Me

🤯

Jan 03, 2023 9:36:59 PM (Read by them after 1 minute, 24 seconds) Me

I watched the whole match, easily best final of my time, and compared to all the finals I’ve watched on YouTube going back to the 70s, this game is legendary

Jan 03, 2023 9:38:27 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

And I’m a HUGE fan of Michael Smith, the Bully Boy, who won. Really like his throw and he’s a class act

Jan 03, 2023 9:38:44 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Worthy champ

Jan 03, 2023 9:40:18 PM +18058900903

Excellent. Look forward to connecting tomorrow

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Jan 03, 2023 9:40:24 PM Me

It’s Messi, Jordan, Kobe, Brady, Gretzky level

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Jan 03, 2023 9:40:41 PM Me

But darts 🤣🤣🤣

Jan 04, 2023 4:56:55 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 9 minutes, 47 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks for chatting today. It was great to catch up.

Jan 04, 2023 6:06:59 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Sure thing! It was great to catch up.

Jan 22, 2023 5:35:38 PM (Read by them after 9 seconds) Me

Hey Derick. Imagine you’re watching 😊

Jan 22, 2023 5:35:38 PM (Read by them after 9 seconds) Me

Good luck!

Jan 22, 2023 5:39:41 PM (Read by you after 11 seconds) +18058900903

Scared!

Jan 22, 2023 5:40:14 PM (Read by them after 3 seconds) Me

We’re watching here and making carnitas nachos

Jan 22, 2023 5:40:50 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

The Arsenal v Man United game this morning was GREAT! Catch the highlights on Youtube if you can.

Jan 22, 2023 5:40:56 PM Me

3-2 Arsenal

Jan 22, 2023 6:03:37 PM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +18058900903

Will do. The missed PAT is killer.

Jan 22, 2023 6:03:52 PM (Read by them after 15 seconds) Me

Yep

Jan 22, 2023 6:04:14 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

One of those grind it out games

Jan 22, 2023 6:04:29 PM (Read by you after 56 seconds) +18058900903

I hope second half is better

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Jan 22, 2023 6:06:10 PM Me

Here’s that link

Jan 22, 2023 6:06:12 PM Me

YouTube

Jan 22, 2023 6:06:32 PM (Read by them after 28 minutes, 42 seconds) Me

Some great passing

Jan 22, 2023 6:35:27 PM (Read by you after 55 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks. I will check it out.

Jan 22, 2023 6:36:24 PM Me

Wow

Jan 22, 2023 6:36:32 PM Me

That catch

Jan 22, 2023 6:36:48 PM (Read by them after 2 minutes, 11 seconds) Me

That’s impressive

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Jan 22, 2023 7:00:46 PM Me

Defensive hold penalty wasn’t good

Jan 22, 2023 7:01:19 PM Me

Have to stop them here

Jan 22, 2023 7:01:19 PM (Read by them after 8 minutes, 2 seconds) Me

One handed catch was ridiculous

Jan 22, 2023 7:05:39 PM (Read by you after 1 hour) +18058900903

True.

Jan 22, 2023 7:07:05 PM (Read by you after 58 minutes, 34 seconds) +18058900903

Prevent defense prevents you from winning.

Jan 22, 2023 8:05:36 PM (Read by you after 3 seconds) +18058900903

Terrible end to the game.

Jan 22, 2023 8:06:59 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I agree. It sucks when the season ends that way.

Jan 24, 2023 12:30:20 PM (Read by them after 47 seconds) Me

Need this shirt 🤣 ￼

Jan 24, 2023 12:31:22 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 55 minutes, 13 seconds) +18058900903

Very funny.

Jan 29, 2023 11:53:25 AM Me

Hahaha

Jan 29, 2023 11:53:27 AM (Read by them after 8 minutes, 29 seconds) Me

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Jan 29, 2023 12:18:51 PM Me

Deadline

Jan 29, 2023 12:18:51 PM (Read by them after 21 seconds) Me

Is this Max from Thacher?

Jan 29, 2023 12:19:28 PM (Read by you after 12 seconds) +18058900903

Yes! That’s wild.

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Jan 29, 2023 12:24:49 PM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 40 seconds) +18058900903

Did you see Palm Springs, which he wrote and directed?

Jan 29, 2023 12:28:32 PM (Read by them after 22 seconds) Me

No

Jan 29, 2023 12:29:23 PM +18058900903

It’s pretty good. On Hulu, if you have it.

Jan 29, 2023 12:30:46 PM Me

I do, thanks! Also started watching Wrexham FC, football team Ryan Reynolds Jeff from Always Sunny in Philly bought for 2 million pounds

Jan 29, 2023 12:40:34 PM (Read by them after 7 seconds) Me

Who’s going to win today? Whose in Super Bowl??

Jan 29, 2023 12:41:07 PM Me

49ers and chiefs for me

Jan 29, 2023 12:41:51 PM (Read by you after 4 minutes, 59 seconds) +18058900903

KC and Philly. I don’t think rookie QB can take the heat. I could be wrong though.

Jan 29, 2023 12:48:14 PM ⇲ Me

That’s what I was just watching on Fox. They were talking about him, possibly being the first rookie QB to make his way through the playoffs to the Super Bowl. As much as I would like to see him, do that, I think I agree with you, that the pressure of the moment being on the doorstep of the Super Bowl may be in the back of his head, the whole time, and change the way he plays from what he has been doing

Jan 29, 2023 12:48:44 PM (Read by them after 14 seconds) ⇲ Me

That being said, there’s always someone who is the first

Jan 29, 2023 12:44:12 PM (Read by you after 2 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

That soccer show looks interesting. I keep forgetting to watch. It’s on my list (which grows longer and longer, too many good shows).

Jan 29, 2023 12:48:14 PM ⇱ Me

That’s what I was just watching on Fox. They were talking about him, possibly being the first rookie QB to make his way through the playoffs to the Super Bowl. As much as I would like to see him, do that, I think I agree with you, that the pressure of the moment being on the doorstep of the Super Bowl may be in the back of his head, the whole time, and change the way he plays from what he has been doing
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Jan 29, 2023 12:48:44 PM (Read by them after 14 seconds) ⇱ Me

That being said, there’s always someone who is the first
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Jan 29, 2023 12:50:39 PM (Read by you after 4 minutes, 36 seconds) +18058900903

True. If SF gets ahead, then they have a real shot. First half is important.

Feb 02, 2023 11:12:28 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 22 minutes, 40 seconds) +18058900903

How the new job going? I hope well. Sending out new round of apps today and tomorrow.

Feb 02, 2023 3:37:03 PM (Read by them after 22 minutes) Me

Great! Second big presentation went well and on my fourth large project now. Liking the people a lot Glad to hear you’re getting yourself out there again. No easy way other than “through it” I’m rooting for you!!!

Feb 05, 2023 9:16:09 PM (Read by them after 2 hours, 7 minutes, 15 seconds) Me

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Feb 05, 2023 11:29:11 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 30 seconds) +18058900903

So good. I can’t believe a greatest hits album doesn’t have “No Vaseline”. I saw him and LL Cool J at the ESPYS.

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Feb 05, 2023 11:39:51 PM (Read by them after 11 seconds) Me

FYI, varsity soccer made CIF playoffs! First game is Tuesday, home versus NORDHOFF! 😮

Feb 05, 2023 11:40:31 PM +18058900903

Wow! What a great way to start. Good luck!

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Feb 05, 2023 11:41:01 PM (Read by them after 4 seconds) Me

The live stream will be flowing. Tune in if you’re free

Feb 05, 2023 11:41:13 PM Me

3pm pst Tuesday

Feb 05, 2023 11:41:27 PM (Read by you after 20 seconds) +18058900903

I will. Is Darragh excited?

Feb 05, 2023 11:42:43 PM (Read by them after 1 second) ⇲ Me

Yes! Three of his former club teammates are on Nordhoff. Guys I coached when they were 8-13

Feb 05, 2023 11:41:47 PM Me

And Thanks!!

Feb 05, 2023 11:42:43 PM (Read by them after 1 second) ⇱ Me

Yes! Three of his former club teammates are on Nordhoff. Guys I coached when they were 8-13
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Feb 05, 2023 11:43:09 PM Me

Will be incredibly fun for me to watch

Feb 05, 2023 11:43:32 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

But damn I want to win. We have a really good team this year

Feb 05, 2023 11:43:59 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Oh and Mickey Mikitani is flying back for our game

Feb 05, 2023 11:44:14 PM +18058900903

Did you play them this year?

Feb 05, 2023 11:44:27 PM Me

Was here last week and saw our final games of the season

Feb 05, 2023 11:44:39 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 12 hours, 32 minutes, 44 seconds) +18058900903

Cool.

Feb 07, 2023 12:17:54 PM Me

A heads up that we play Nordoff, first round CIF soccer playoffs. We kick off at 3 PM Pacific today and it’s a home game so it will be streamed from the Thacher site.

Feb 07, 2023 12:18:19 PM (Read by them after 1 minute, 49 seconds) Me

Four guys I coached has kids are playing in this final today including Darragh

Feb 07, 2023 1:01:35 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 45 seconds) +18058900903

Will do. Good luck!

Feb 07, 2023 1:15:30 PM (Read by them after 16 minutes, 49 seconds) Me

Thanks

Feb 07, 2023 8:28:55 PM (Read by you after 14 hours, 59 minutes, 26 seconds) +18058900903

Tough game. Boys look tired in second half.

Feb 08, 2023 11:30:20 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

It was a tough one. And yes, tired and losing hope when letting in more goals. Nordhoff are very good. They play in a much harder league than us so I wouldn’t expect anything else. FIrst time in soccer CIF playoffs for NHS in over 5 years. IMO they are strong enough to go all the way to the final and win it, and I hope they do.

Feb 11, 2023 5:39:37 PM Me

This came on a random mix today and took me back to the CLUB!!

Feb 11, 2023 5:39:43 PM (Read by them after 21 minutes, 57 seconds) Me

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Feb 11, 2023 10:24:53 PM (Read by you after 20 minutes, 39 seconds) +18058900903

Absolutely!

Feb 11, 2023 10:45:58 PM (Read by them after 8 seconds) Me

You watching game at home tomorrow?

Feb 11, 2023 10:47:29 PM +18058900903

Working unfortunately. I thought it was last week. Forgot about the extra week of games. Will tape. Good to watch even if I know the score.

Feb 11, 2023 10:47:37 PM +18058900903

How about you?

Feb 11, 2023 10:47:55 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Watch it here with boys

Feb 11, 2023 10:48:15 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Making carnitas nachos

Feb 11, 2023 10:48:34 PM +18058900903

Yes! Lots of fun.

Feb 11, 2023 10:51:39 PM +18058900903

Who do you think will win and/or who are you rooting for?

Feb 11, 2023 10:53:17 PM Me

Think Eagles Want chiefs

Feb 11, 2023 10:53:38 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

Same.

Feb 12, 2023 5:02:28 PM Me

Yo! I thought Philadelphia was supposed to have a good defense? They marched their ass right down the field and scored like it was nothing

Feb 12, 2023 5:02:44 PM Me

Too easy for KC

Feb 12, 2023 5:03:34 PM Me

Draft kings commercial with Ludacris #ftw

Feb 12, 2023 5:35:30 PM (Read by them after 37 minutes, 27 seconds) Me

Oh forgot u working

Feb 12, 2023 6:59:44 PM (Read by them after 3 hours, 19 minutes, 29 seconds) Me

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Halftime carnitas Nachos

Feb 16, 2023 1:05:44 PM (Read by you after 11 minutes, 29 seconds) +18058900903

Do you have time to check in this weekend? See how job is going and such. Molly will be in Ojai to surprise her parents this weekend, so I will be footloose and fancy free.

Feb 16, 2023 1:17:47 PM (Read by them after 1 minute, 1 second) Me

Yes for sure! Does Liz know Molly’s coming into town?

Feb 16, 2023 1:20:07 PM (Read by you after 4 minutes, 11 seconds) +18058900903

I think so. She has been limiting the people she tells because it’s a secret from her parents, but I am fairly certain she reached out to Liz for a coffee or lunch.

Feb 16, 2023 1:25:00 PM (Read by them after 4 seconds) Me

Cool. And I know what you mean if she lets everyone know, the cat will get out of the bag, and then Molly will have absolutely no time to herself for her entire visit because everybody and their cousin is gonna want to see her.

Feb 16, 2023 1:25:31 PM +18058900903

Exactly.

Feb 17, 2023 11:56:36 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 59 minutes, 52 seconds) +18058900903

Let me know a good time to connect tomorrow. I go to work at 1pm your time.

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Feb 17, 2023 4:57:43 PM (Read by them after 5 minutes, 28 seconds) Me

I can call in morning. 9am works for me. I never sleep past 8

Feb 17, 2023 7:15:22 PM (Read by you after 47 minutes, 18 seconds) +18058900903

Perfect.

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Feb 18, 2023 10:11:25 AM (Read by them after 11 seconds) Me

Call in a few

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Feb 24, 2023 11:46:16 AM Me

Happy Friday Derick! Hope all is well. I saw a Gary V ad go by and wondered if you knew about it? Rainy SOB today. Wind 20-30mph making rain go sideways. Oh and it’s about 40° 🥶 Night before last I was on the deck and it felt cold. Checked temperature (see pic of my thermometer) Yes, it was 30° 😳 WTF?

Feb 24, 2023 11:46:19 AM (Read by them after 18 seconds) Me

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Feb 24, 2023 11:48:33 AM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks for the wine update. Evan has been telling us about the weather. This is what she sent:

Feb 24, 2023 11:48:37 AM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 34 seconds) +18058900903

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Feb 24, 2023 11:54:02 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Rain started slow about 11pm last night and went hardcore about 2am. Hasn’t stopped since. Steady rain, with 5-10 minutes spells of firehose from the sky, then back to steady rain.

Feb 24, 2023 11:54:29 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Oh and then the wind 😊

Feb 24, 2023 11:55:33 AM Me

I’m warm and dry and distracted with making money 👍

Feb 24, 2023 11:55:51 AM (Read by you after 5 seconds) +18058900903

Excellent!

Feb 26, 2023 11:28:47 PM (Read by them after 10 seconds) Me

Feb 26, 2023 11:29:19 PM (Read by you after 22 seconds) +18058900903

Hah!

Feb 26, 2023 11:29:37 PM (Read by you after 4 seconds) +18058900903

You surviving the cold and rain?

Feb 26, 2023 11:29:51 PM Me

😱

Feb 26, 2023 11:30:29 PM (Read by them after 12 seconds) Me

Feb 26, 2023 11:33:12 PM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 54 seconds) +18058900903

Wow! Shit’s real. Evan said snow in Claremont and mountains are like Ojai’s.

Feb 26, 2023 11:42:40 PM (Read by them after 25 seconds) Me

Whole ridge, Topas, Chief, think it was as low as between 2000 - 2500 ft. It didn’t melt at all. It never got above 45 today. It’s 36 on my porch right now. We did get ALOT of hail. Declan was trying to figure out what the hell it was. I told him he could make snowballs out of it so he proceeded to. Then brought it upstairs to chuck it at Darragh who is sitting playing video games in his bedroom. True teenage brotherly love. Sounds like something the young perry boys might do. 🤣

Feb 26, 2023 11:43:32 PM (Read by you after 15 minutes, 11 seconds) +18058900903

So true.

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Feb 26, 2023 11:59:39 PM (Read by them after 1 minute, 12 seconds) Me

Declan told me about Damian Lillard tonight

Feb 27, 2023 12:01:06 AM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 33 seconds) +18058900903

He went off.

Mar 03, 2023 7:26:23 AM (Read by you after 2 hours, 43 minutes, 8 seconds) +18058900903

Let’s chat this weekend, once you are warm and dry (ha!). We had a tornado warning yesterday. Sirens went off and we had to shelter in a storage area at Trader Joe’s. Wild. BTW — I did chat with Liz and we did talk about stuff. Per usual, I am free before noon your time, either day. 9am or 9:30 usually seems to work.

Mar 03, 2023 10:11:29 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

WOW. That must have been surreal, like you were in a movie or on a tv show. Whenever totally not normal things like that happen that’s the way my brain takes it in. At least with a tornado they can give you warning and you can take shelter. None of that with an earthquake or mudslide.

Mar 03, 2023 10:12:57 AM Me

I’m around all weekend. Been working on things-new car, debt, etc. Can share more when we talk. I can call tomorrow morning if that works for you. The 9-9:30 window works for me.

Mar 03, 2023 10:14:52 AM Me

Also, starting a new exciting project where I get to reinvent a flagship product software AND hardware. The plan is for release early next year. I’ll work on it through the remaining 9mos of this year to see it through. I’ve already started research. So much fun!

Mar 03, 2023 10:18:10 AM (Read by you after 1 hour, 32 minutes, 52 seconds) +18058900903

Great. That sounds like a wonderful opportunity. 9-9:30 your time works for me. Give me a call when you are free.

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Mar 04, 2023 10:35:19 AM (Read by them after 20 seconds) Me

Calling you in just a minute

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Mar 04, 2023 12:45:26 PM (Read by them after 4 seconds) Me

Lost you

Mar 04, 2023 12:49:24 PM Me

Here’s the poet I told you about. He has three Twitter handles and puts one piece out a day on all three.

Mar 04, 2023 12:49:28 PM Me

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Mar 04, 2023 12:50:08 PM (Read by them after 12 minutes, 44 seconds) Me

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Mar 04, 2023 4:50:10 PM Me

Been listening to one of my playlists and this screams “da club” to me

Mar 04, 2023 4:50:14 PM Me

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Mar 04, 2023 4:50:34 PM (Read by them after 2 minutes, 26 seconds) Me

Can’t not move to this

Mar 04, 2023 10:43:32 PM (Read by you after 11 hours, 48 minutes, 10 seconds) +18058900903

So true. This does remind me of good times.

Mar 05, 2023 10:31:26 AM +18058900903

Hey, just checking in. We talked about some heavy stuff (as they said in the ‘60’s). Saw your post on Twitter. I hope you find some peace today.

Mar 05, 2023 10:35:13 AM Me

I’m not doing well, honestly. Feeling abandoned and cast off Like falling off a ship 🚢 and being left at sea. Except you can see the people on the boat, and nobody will turn around to return and get you. You know you’re being forgotten.

Mar 05, 2023 10:35:46 AM (Read by them after 4 seconds) Me

That’s kind of what I’m feeling, or the closest thing to it. I would add that you have no flotation device with you either you know you’re going to die

Mar 05, 2023 10:35:59 AM Me

That’s kind of what it feels like today

Mar 05, 2023 10:36:40 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Then, it’s like all I hear people saying is, well she wanted you off the boat

Mar 05, 2023 10:37:17 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I feel dropped for dead before anything makes any sense

Mar 05, 2023 10:37:18 AM +18058900903

Or you can start swimming to catch the boat or get to land, just keep swimming. You do it for you, not for her.

Mar 05, 2023 10:41:47 AM (Read by them after 8 seconds) Me

Right, I get that and I’ve been swimming for two years solid, hell I’ve been swimming longer than that I would say at least since 2014 2015 Thing is, I just never spoke up. I swallowed the things I was unhappy about because I thought she would look at those things as weakness, and that I am weak, and that she would never want anything to do with someone who is weak. So I just buried things over and over and over. And now that this grenade has gone off in my relationship, I’m not quiet anymore and I think that bothers some people that I am now speaking out about how I feel and what I think. But at the same time, I hear people saying well you just have to respect her decision and that’s it. Yeah that’s great, but what about me? What about my decision? What about what I want? I ask this because Liz has gotten everything she’s wanted in this relationship forever, and the one time the relationship is in a place where she doesn’t feel in control. She wants to hit the eject button, grab the parachute and jump. Why can’t she put up with a little bullshit inside the relationship that makes her unhappy ? Why is she in capable of facing things with me and working through it? Is she afraid of something? You just don’t do this to people you care about.

Mar 05, 2023 10:42:27 AM Me

That’s like when the therapist says, she still cares about you, and I don’t believe that’s true at all

Mar 05, 2023 10:42:45 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

You don’t intentionally hurt people you care about

Mar 05, 2023 10:43:14 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

And I’m also learning a great deal about selfishness

Mar 05, 2023 11:05:28 AM +18058900903

There are some questions there that you will have to work through with her and the counselor, I guess AND you have to be willing to listen to hear, not respond. That was a big problem for me in my marriage. I was trying to be right instead of listening (not saying the issue is the same for you). Perhaps, she is doing what is best for her. That may seem unfair, and you have your right to disagree, but ultimately (as you have discovered) prioritizing one’s own health and well being is paramount. I don’t know if that is the case for her, but I assume so to make such a momentous decision. Perhaps, she is leaving before she hurts you more and/or is incapable of being what you need. Of course, this is all supposition on my part, but knowing her it makes some sense. Or maybe she is/was unhappy and does want to be so anymore. Again, it may never make sense to you, but it does to her. This does not reduce the pain, I am guessing, but it might add some understanding.

Mar 05, 2023 11:07:31 AM Me

Wow, thank you for that Derick. I really appreciate your words and feedback. Everyone keeps hoping that things help my understanding, however, the only thing I keep learning is how much I’ve not been told, things that have never been shared, so my understanding is not understanding.

Mar 05, 2023 11:08:19 AM Me

Like is this made sense to me, it wouldn’t make me so angry. And I also don’t like the idea that people say it doesn’t have to make sense to you. I spent 30 years of my life with that woman more than half of my life and I can’t get an explanation?

Mar 05, 2023 11:09:01 AM Me

I can’t believe it given the courtesy of full disclosure of why? I just learned last night in texting with Joanna about a reason she’s divorcing me that I didn’t even know about?

Mar 05, 2023 11:10:08 AM Me

I kept telling Joanna she doesn’t talk to me, she doesn’t talk to me. And she doesn’t. Liz has not had a normal conversation with me in over two years. It’s always one word answers or no answers like I’m a ghost. I’m happy to understand if somebody would take the damn time and explain it to me and if I walk away without understanding, I’m done there is no closure for me and if there’s no closure I don’t wanna be near that ever again

Mar 05, 2023 11:11:20 AM Me

That’s what nobody seems to be hearing from me. If I don’t get closure it’s like Liz is dead to me. If I have to show up in the same space as her like, maybe at a wedding for the boys in the future, I will act like she’s invisible and not there. And I won’t give a shit about it. I will treat others the way I feel like I’ve been treated.

Mar 05, 2023 11:11:47 AM Me

Isn’t that what your mama told you when growing up, treat others the way you wanna be treated

Mar 05, 2023 11:13:06 AM Me

I would really just like to pack up my shit and move far away but I don’t want to be away from my boys

Mar 05, 2023 11:15:13 AM Me

And, thank you for texting with me about this trying to help me. I’m really grateful to have you as a friend. I don’t have many friends because I have a hard time making and keeping them I guess but you’re one of the few people who showed me any kind of caring

Mar 05, 2023 11:15:51 AM (Read by them after 4 minutes, 44 seconds) Me

I can count on one hand the number of people has shown any caring

Mar 05, 2023 12:24:39 PM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 52 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks for the kind words. Just want you to know you can make it through this. It’s a paradox: you have to make it through the pain, to the better path ahead. Another thought, you want closure, but, given what you have said to me, what can she say that would satisfy that need? There is probably nothing she can that can make this “okay.” If there is, then you need to think about what those words would be. AND, you will need to listen to hear them. For example, it may be that Covid Bert broke something in the relationship that cannot be repaired (at least to her). If she says those words, would that give you closure or would you try to show her you have changed? That’s the difference between listening and hearing. Hearing (in my understanding) means you allow for the other person’s truth to exist and accept it. If that means she doesn’t exist to you, then that will be the way you heal AND she has to accept that truth. I know my words are just words, but I do know this, you have to deal with this in your way which may include never being in the same space together again. I don’t think that is the best solution, but given your commitment to closure (and the strong possibility that it will not happen to your liking), it may the best path for you heal. You have a great job that you can throw yourself into and make a new life. No need to be a ghost anymore.

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Mar 05, 2023 12:25:06 PM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 25 seconds) +18058900903

Off to work now, I will check in tomorrow or Tuesday.

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Mar 05, 2023 12:34:20 PM Me

Thank you for that perspective. It helps me a great deal to try and see it from another angle. I know its impossible being in the middle of it. So for me, that is invaluable, to have your perspective. Someone who knows us both, and is willing to call either one of us on our shit.

Mar 05, 2023 12:35:06 PM Me

I want you to know that I had/have not intention of throwing you in the middle of this. We have our therapist for that. 😊

Mar 06, 2023 7:39:24 AM (Read by you after 30 minutes, 2 seconds) +18058900903

No worries. You are both friends going through tough times. I only give my opinion when I think that it add to the perspectives. I know this is devastating, but you have to embrace the paradox I talked about before (this is what helped me and is helping me through this Thacher mess): "The Stockdale Paradox—you must maintain unwavering faith that you can and will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties, and at the same time, have the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.” This is from a book called Good to Great. The book is about companies, but the formation of the paradox comes from the psychology of POW’s. Right now, the facts of your situation are brutal, but you have said over and over that you have the tools to overcome them. You can and you will. I have an early shift today, but will check in tomorrow.

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Mar 06, 2023 5:34:13 PM Me

Word.

Mar 06, 2023 5:34:18 PM Me

Mar 06, 2023 5:35:17 PM +18058900903

So true.

Mar 06, 2023 5:37:14 PM Me

Right?!? I was scrolling through Twitter yesterday, and it came across the screen. I stared at it for a minute, gobsmacked just at how simple a statement it is and how true it is

Mar 06, 2023 5:37:42 PM Me

there is an art to capturing an idea so large in such a simple sentence

Mar 06, 2023 5:38:11 PM Me

I only know about Vonnegut through movies and interviews. I’ve seen of him. I really have never read his stuff.

Mar 06, 2023 5:38:38 PM Me

he strikes me as a sort of modern day Mark twain type of character

Mar 06, 2023 5:38:47 PM +18058900903

I hope I am alive when Republican politicians start talking about how they tried to control climate change.

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Mar 06, 2023 5:39:51 PM +18058900903

He is less funny in his satire, though effective.

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Mar 06, 2023 5:40:38 PM Me

I agree with you. I hope I’m alive when that happens as well. I suspect if we can live another 20 certainly 30 years from now shit it’s gonna be a lot worse.

Mar 06, 2023 5:40:57 PM Me

People start living under mountains and underground and shit

Mar 06, 2023 5:41:28 PM Me

It’s too hot and or storms are too violent and destructive to rebuild only to have shit get ripped up again

Mar 06, 2023 5:42:09 PM Me

Just remind them they were the ones laughing at Jimmy Carter and his solar panels on top of the White House back in the 70s

Mar 06, 2023 5:42:40 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

I am sure I will be in the know as Jordan plans to be in the forefront of the battle.

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Mar 06, 2023 5:42:59 PM Me

I watched don’t look up and it scares me how close to reality that is

Mar 06, 2023 5:43:12 PM Me

Those TV hosts were ridiculously out of control

Mar 06, 2023 5:43:32 PM +18058900903

That was a disturbing movie.

Mar 06, 2023 5:43:53 PM Me

Seriously made me think people are gonna be standing in line at Starbucks arguing about their order while scrolling on their phone. Meantime, the fucking meteor hits the Earth.

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Mar 06, 2023 5:44:06 PM Me

🤣

Mar 07, 2023 8:54:10 PM (Read by you after 18 hours, 43 minutes, 19 seconds) +18058900903

Checking in as I said I would. Weirdly, working today but have some free time tomorrow. How are you doing? I hope moving forward.

Mar 08, 2023 3:45:20 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Things are going ok. Work is moving along. I have a work trip to Winston-Salem, NC, in April for an on-site meeting. So if you happen to know any good eateries :-) Otherwise, I am closing on a 2019 Volkswagen e-Golf. Getting all the paperwork done and payment etc. They will DELIVER the car to me. They show up with the vehicle and paperwork all ready to go. I sign, take the keys, and am done. I sent Liz a text this morning recognizing her on Intl Women’s Day to show gratitude for all she’s done for me. We have a counselor session tonight. First one in a few weeks. I will keep quiet in this one to give Liz more space to speak. I want to listen. That’s my plan. Good meditation session before the 6:45pm video call to be calm. And then just have awareness around being triggered—if I anticipate it coming, I can catch it before I reflexively interrupt by talking and injecting myself at any time—zero consideration for the speaker.

Mar 08, 2023 3:46:18 PM Me

I have lots of awareness around that now. One of, if not THE top issue for Liz is me not listening. I can do it now, really well. Been practicing at work in my meetings 😊

Mar 08, 2023 3:46:57 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Anyhow, car should happen soon, and then I’ll focus on going through all my crap here at the house and pare down.

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Mar 09, 2023 8:52:07 AM Me

Last nights session was productive, but no less painful.

Mar 09, 2023 8:53:46 AM Me

I am still struggling with the fact that we’ve never had any serious issues in our relationship over 30 years, at least issues were worthy of discussion, and we’ve gone from having no conversation to divorce with nothing in between. I’m really struggling with that.

Mar 09, 2023 8:56:49 AM (Read by you after 51 minutes, 13 seconds) +18058900903

Is that what she said last night, no serious issues? Or as you just said, you all never discussed them? How was last night productive? Was she able to convey her issues in a way you could understand last night?

Mar 09, 2023 8:58:06 AM (Read by you after 49 minutes, 56 seconds) +18058900903

Does she feel the same way — no issues to divorce? That seems like a big leap.

Mar 09, 2023 9:17:45 AM (Read by you after 30 minutes, 17 seconds) +18058900903

Were you able to convey your hurt? Or rather, your contention about the acceleration of things?

Mar 09, 2023 9:49:21 AM Me

Hey Derick, these are great questions and I have some answers But about to jump into three Street hours of meetings in a few minutes. Plus I want to take time to respond to these thoroughly not just off the cuff before I jump into these meetings.

Mar 09, 2023 9:50:29 AM Me

Hey, I can’t remember if I asked you yesterday if you have ever been to the Winston-Salem North Carolina area. I’m headed there for three days next month for an on-site meeting with my colleagues. I thought maybe if you had been there, you might know of a good eatery or two or perhaps a good bar to stop by. Let me know if you do!!

Mar 09, 2023 9:53:22 AM (Read by you after 43 minutes, 4 seconds) +18058900903

No worries. On the way to work myself.

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Mar 09, 2023 11:59:11 AM (Read by you after 2 hours, 35 minutes, 3 seconds) +18058900903

Mozelle's

Mar 09, 2023 11:59:11 AM (Read by you after 2 hours, 35 minutes, 3 seconds) +18058900903

My nephew loves this place.

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Mar 11, 2023 1:17:30 PM (Read by you after 12 seconds) +18058900903

Out and about today but let me know your thoughts on Wednesday.

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Mar 11, 2023 1:19:34 PM (Read by them after 3 seconds) Me

Saw this today and spoke directly to my core.

Mar 11, 2023 1:20:06 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

It has “all the feels” for me

Mar 11, 2023 1:21:11 PM (Read by you after 9 minutes, 16 seconds) +18058900903

Mary Oliver is one of the best modern poets.

Mar 11, 2023 1:31:48 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

SO good

Mar 11, 2023 1:32:07 PM Me

there is more that one of her poems that hits HARD

Mar 11, 2023 8:05:36 PM (Read by you after 18 hours, 41 minutes, 21 seconds) +18058900903

Just got back from St. Paddy’s revelry. Happy to chat if you are free. Otherwise, I am free until 12:30 your time tomorrow.

Mar 12, 2023 9:37:28 PM Me

I'll try to connect tomorrow

Mar 12, 2023 9:37:37 PM Me

Got 14

Mar 12, 2023 9:37:46 PM Me

Mar 12, 2023 11:04:41 PM (Read by you after 11 hours, 32 minutes, 41 seconds) +18058900903

Nice.

Mar 13, 2023 9:12:53 AM (Read by you after 1 hour, 24 minutes, 29 seconds) +18058900903

Great. I work today 10-6 your time. Call anytime after 6:30 your time

Mar 16, 2023 10:55:15 PM (Read by you after 13 hours, 8 minutes, 1 second) +18058900903

I hope all is going well.

Mar 17, 2023 12:03:49 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Work is keeping me really busy which is good. Otherwise things kinda suck — won’t lie

Mar 17, 2023 12:03:56 PM Me

But I’m hanging in there

Mar 18, 2023 3:05:37 PM (Read by you after 11 days, 2 hours, 56 minutes, 28 seconds) +18058900903

Glad to hear. Gave a call. Maybe Sunday will work better for you. Free until noon your time.

Mar 23, 2023 7:00:30 PM (Read by you after 5 days, 23 hours, 1 minute, 35 seconds) +18058900903

Don’t know if you are watching MSU/KSU. UNBELIEVABLE.

Mar 24, 2023 11:33:48 PM (Read by you after 4 days, 18 hours, 28 minutes, 17 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, love to catch up. You free tomorrow at 9:30am your time?

Mar 26, 2023 1:00:54 PM (Read by you after 3 days, 5 hours, 1 minute, 11 seconds) +18058900903

Just called. Wanted to let you know that I hope all is well.

Mar 29, 2023 6:27:31 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Hi Derick, apologies for the radio silence. It’s been rough the past few weeks, and been busy. The new car is bought and waiting on delivery sometime in the next 5 days. I started packing myself room by room—I’m out of the walk-in closet and bathroom in the main bedroom—packing myself only is a mentally challenging exercise from where I’ve lived since 2008, won’t lie. And being on campus for 23 years and leaving—sucks—I know you know that feeling. My depression is at the front door, and wants in. It’s tried to break in more than once and is persistently over my shoulder. I have at minimum one breakdown a day where emotion is triggered by the thought of my current state of relations with Elizabeth—most days, it’s more than one. It took me a long time to get off the Death Star and out of the PIT of depression, and it feels like my heels are over the edge a bit—I haven’t lost my balance, and it requires all my tools and techniques to stay here and stay present. The Suicide Reaper was back with depression too. Totally sucks facing that. It is an intense tag team to take on mentally, but I’ve done it more than once. Dark Bert Mantra — “I’m here because I’ve made it through over 1,000 shit days; I can do more.” I’m tethered far more than I was before. I am not concerned about me checking out, but I am worried about falling into a deep depression again. This experience is incredibly triggering. Having to contend with the triggers, your reactions, your awareness, your ability to control it (or not), and the off-ramp once you begin to compose yourself and get on with the day. All of that can occur in less than 30 seconds, or it can last hours or over a day. I’m honestly living day to day. Focused on work and staying plugged into the boys and what they’re up to. Otherwise, I’m either too depressed to do much else or too exhausted from contending with it all mentally. I know “this too shall pass,” but damn! I wish I could catch a break in the depression department. I have a session with the counselor and Liz in two hours. Just wrapping up work and taking the dog for a quick hike on the Wheaton trail behind the Huyler-Myers barn. I’ll be around this weekend. Planning on packing more. Hope you, Molly, and the girls are all doing well! Say hi. Hope to talk soon and sorry for the long text.

Mar 29, 2023 7:16:05 PM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 1 second) +18058900903

No worries at all. I figured as much. I know this may not give you much solace, but this is the season for growth and renewal. As I was reading your text, I was walking by a church advertising Easter sunrise service. If you remember this is the season of Resurrection. Jesus goes through abandonment and distress only to be reborn into forgiveness and salvation which leads to triumph (forgiveness for sin). For us, I think this means that we all have a second chance (life) where we get to be our best selves. My hope is that is where you are headed. You can do this.

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Apr 01, 2023 10:53:14 PM (Read by you after 17 minutes, 37 seconds) +18058900903

Let’s catch up tomorrow at 9:30 your time tomorrow. I don’t have to work.

Apr 01, 2023 11:10:56 PM Me

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Apr 03, 2023 3:39:18 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Obama kills him. So good:

Apr 03, 2023 3:39:20 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

YouTube

Apr 03, 2023 8:51:48 PM (Read by you after 12 hours, 35 seconds) +18058900903

So funny!

Apr 03, 2023 8:52:07 PM (Read by you after 12 hours, 16 seconds) +18058900903

Funny as in true.

Apr 03, 2023 11:02:01 PM (Read by you after 9 hours, 50 minutes, 22 seconds) +18058900903

BTW, sorry to miss you on Sunday. Love to catch up when you have a break in the action. I am fairly free after 2pm your time for the next three days. After that some Thacher friends are visiting though I think they leave early on Sunday.

Apr 08, 2023 10:22:04 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Hey Derick, Hope all is well. Been incredibly busy this past week. I have a new car, am paying down debt, and things are moving forward on the “get out of Liz’s life” front. As I continue to reflect on my life and relationship, I am still confused as to why and how Liz is where she’s at mentally. It feels as if she held on to years, if not decades, of ‘issues that bother her about me’ that she perhaps stuffed down forever. The pandemic, and my depressive episode, flipped some switch in her brain. I don’t know how she got to where she is because she never spoke with me. Never asked questions about how I was doing or what I was thinking before, during, and after the pandemic. My fear is based on the idea that she’s made complete assumptions about my behavior, intentions, and mindset without asking me a single question for y e a r s. It really sucks, to be honest. She’s just passing her pain on to the boys and me to carry for the rest of our lives because she can’t deal and live up to her wedding vows Have you EVER heard or seen Elizabeth give up on ANY challenge in her life? No Ironman could make her give up and quit. Am I really tougher than Ironman? My Spock mind is having a very hard time to make logical sense of my life—and until I can… No sleep til Brooklyn.

Apr 08, 2023 10:23:29 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Let me know when a good time to connect on a call might be. I’m around this weekend. Next week I’m off to Winston-Salem from Tue-Fri.

Apr 08, 2023 10:34:02 AM (Read by you after 9 minutes, 51 seconds) +18058900903

Great. Let’s try tomorrow at 9:30AM your time. I have some Thacher friends visiting and they should be on way home by then.

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Apr 09, 2023 11:17:43 AM (Read by you after 10 hours, 1 minute, 19 seconds) +18058900903

Give me a call when you have a chance. Just sitting at home.

Apr 11, 2023 2:11:21 PM (Read by you after 8 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, thanks for chatting the other day. I actually talked to Liz yesterday because she was having an issue with Jason Carney and Trinity. She did share that during her conflict with Trinity and her husband that Katherine Halsey had been a big help. She told me that they have been going out to “nice”dinners monthly to discuss things. I only bring this up because you mentioned that she might be going “out” with someone. This seems a more likely reason for the charges (just my sense of things). As I said before, I think she does not have the time or inclination to be involved with someone else. If you are truly concerned, I would just ask her.

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Apr 11, 2023 2:12:13 PM Me

Thanks for that Derick! Just landed in Greensboro

Apr 11, 2023 2:12:36 PM +18058900903

Remember eat alligator!

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Apr 11, 2023 2:14:31 PM +18058900903

Have fun!

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Apr 11, 2023 2:59:15 PM Me

I will I have no doubt

Apr 15, 2023 12:09:44 PM (Read by you after 13 hours, 10 minutes, 12 seconds) +18058900903

Hope you had fun in NC.

Apr 16, 2023 1:20:48 AM Me

Yes and no. Mixed results

Apr 16, 2023 2:45:08 PM (Read by you after 22 hours, 9 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

Oh, that’s too bad. I hope work went well. Or were there issues there?

Apr 17, 2023 12:55:34 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Meetings were great. People were great. Something at the end put a damper on the experience. Easier to explain in conversation.

Apr 17, 2023 3:11:10 PM (Read by you after 5 days, 7 hours, 25 seconds) +18058900903

Too bad. You can call anytime tonight. Just watching bball playoffs.

Apr 18, 2023 8:24:08 PM (Read by you after 4 days, 1 hour, 47 minutes, 27 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, just called. Saw your post on Twitter. You can do this. I am watching Clippers.

Apr 18, 2023 8:24:30 PM (Read by you after 4 days, 1 hour, 47 minutes, 5 seconds) +18058900903

Call if you are free.

Apr 22, 2023 10:13:21 PM Me

Hola 👋 Mea Culpa has been a tough week. Are you free tomorrow? I have time to talk. It would be great to catch up.

Apr 22, 2023 10:14:40 PM Me

I just have to say that I feel like my life is now an episode of black mirror and I’m living some kind of weird dystopian, alternate universe version of my life after Covid. 😁🤣

Apr 22, 2023 10:19:53 PM Me

Also, been talking to the boys about flying around this summer. My cousin and family are in the Boulder/Longmont, Colorado region, you and Molly are in Texas, and then my parents obviously in NY if I’m dragging the boys along. If it’s plausible, you’re around this summer for any kind of window, let me know. I know at the very least. I will have Darragh with me, it is Declan the homebody recluse that will be hard to peel away from his Xbox It would be fantastic to visit in person, see what the new hood looks like, and definitely go get some world-class barbecue. Also, late night, you better know where “da club” is 😂🤣🤣🤣

Apr 22, 2023 10:21:11 PM Me

Were all the single ladies at?

Apr 22, 2023 10:21:35 PM Me

Apr 22, 2023 10:22:01 PM Me

🤣

Apr 22, 2023 10:31:26 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 28 minutes, 9 seconds) +18058900903

Ha!

Apr 22, 2023 10:32:43 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 26 minutes, 52 seconds) +18058900903

Yes. Let’s chat tomorrow. I am going to brunch with my parents who are visiting, but I should be free around 10 your time.

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Apr 24, 2023 5:51:36 PM Me

Hey so sorry to miss yesterday. Let me know when you’re free next.

Apr 24, 2023 5:51:48 PM Me

Been struggling a bit

Apr 24, 2023 5:52:07 PM (Read by you after 52 seconds) +18058900903

Can I call you later?

Apr 24, 2023 5:53:24 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

7pm PST would work for me

Apr 24, 2023 5:53:44 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 19 minutes, 43 seconds) +18058900903

Alright, sounds good!

Apr 24, 2023 8:13:37 PM Me

Headed to Vons w darragh

Apr 24, 2023 8:13:54 PM Me

I can let you know when I’m back

Apr 24, 2023 8:14:02 PM Me

We definitely prefer some privacy

Apr 24, 2023 8:14:38 PM +18058900903

Just watched end of Heat game. Great game. Go ahead and call when you get back.

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Apr 24, 2023 8:15:07 PM Me

I just listen to Declan’s meltdown about Giannis and Jimmy Butler going over a half century

Apr 24, 2023 9:20:55 PM Me

Hey, can I call tomorrow? I just got back and need to cook dinner. I should be free after 11 AM Pacific throughout the afternoon so let me know if you have a window and I’ll hit you up then.

Apr 24, 2023 9:21:24 PM (Read by you after 11 seconds) +18058900903

That works. Enjoy dinner.

Apr 24, 2023 9:21:52 PM Me

We will. One of your favorites, pork chops, and applesauce.

Apr 25, 2023 8:52:12 AM (Read by you after 3 hours, 39 minutes, 4 seconds) +18058900903

I get home at 11:30 Pacific today. I am free

Apr 25, 2023 8:52:18 AM (Read by you after 3 hours, 38 minutes, 58 seconds) +18058900903

After

Apr 25, 2023 12:31:42 PM Me

Hey there, about to take the dog on a walk and could call. Let me know if this is good time.

Apr 25, 2023 12:33:45 PM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 37 seconds) +18058900903

Perfect.

Apr 25, 2023 8:47:16 PM (Read by you after 38 minutes, 39 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I have been thinking since our conversation. Don’t live in your car. Here are some other places you might look at: sofiventura.com, oakwoodcommunities.com Listen, I know this is hard, but she seems to have made a hard decision. You have to move on productively. Your personal interactions with her no longer matter. You have to take care of you. PODS works too. Your mantra should be: “I’m out; I’m good”.

Apr 25, 2023 9:26:21 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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May 01, 2023 6:01:28 PM (Read by you after 15 minutes, 10 seconds) +18058900903

Happy Birthday. Do something fun.

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May 01, 2023 6:17:09 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Thanks Derick! Already had a massage and headed to Sea Fresh so I dont have to cook 😊

May 01, 2023 6:22:33 PM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 28 seconds) +18058900903

Excellent. Enjoy Sea Fresh. Dynamite Roll here I come.

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May 04, 2023 1:47:13 PM ⇲ Me

So good. Thanks for sending this. I would have missed it.

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May 04, 2023 1:11:10 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 28 seconds) +18058900903

Enjoy this!

May 04, 2023 1:27:26 PM Me

If your election needs the truth, put Dominion in your booth… 🤣🤣🤣

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So good. Thanks for sending this. I would have missed it.

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May 04, 2023 3:06:49 PM Me

Politicians say silly things in a serious way. Comedians say serious things in a silly way.

May 04, 2023 3:07:22 PM Me

When he touched on school shootings…

May 04, 2023 3:07:23 PM Me

“Don’t groan pass legislation”

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May 07, 2023 11:21:55 AM (Read by you after 28 minutes, 8 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I just called because I have a note that says we planned to chat. Perhaps it was from before (it’s on the back of an envelope). Still, I hope all is well.

May 07, 2023 11:50:54 AM Me

All is good. Thought it was a pocket dial 🤣 just folding clothes and packing.

May 07, 2023 11:51:22 AM Me

Hope you guys are good. Heard about the mall in Dallas. 😢

May 07, 2023 11:52:34 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 32 minutes, 51 seconds) +18058900903

Great. Mall is about 45 minutes away. So tragic.

May 16, 2023 7:01:40 PM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 43 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, how are you doing? I heard you had some tough news. Sorry that happened Hope you are powering through. Something great is out there for you.

May 16, 2023 7:10:09 PM Me

Hey Derick yes I was let go last Thursday. Already rewrote resume leveraging 6 different AI tools to improve writing and compared it all in a spreadsheet from the original text. I had in my résumé from the last search about eight months ago. Thing was eight months ago AI wasn’t even out from under the covers and now it is. Plus I’ve used it in my last roll for more than one thing. It’s a huge Excelerator in my workflow and I mention that in my résumé. Plus I was able to technically set up my PDF so that it is read by AI on the bus in exactly the order I wanted to, and it will display on mobile nicely.

May 16, 2023 7:10:39 PM Me

I am in the midst of a website overhaul. bertmahoney.com is currently in airplane mode until I’m ready to turn it back on and I’m anticipating that to be sometime late tomorrow night.

May 16, 2023 7:12:20 PM Me

So big picture everything kind of sucks because I’m dealing with three major life stressors right now. But having gone through everything I already have is prepared me to actually handle all three of these things simultaneously. I’m actually not freaking out at all. I reached back out to all the recruiters. I spoke to eight months ago and let them know I was available and I’ve already been sent to positions to look at if I might be interested so I need to keep this momentum going and I’m hopeful I can make something happen in three weeks instead of three months. 😆

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May 18, 2023 8:32:19 PM (Read by you after 17 minutes, 44 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, love to chat Sunday if you are free.

May 18, 2023 8:50:10 PM Me

Yes 👍

May 20, 2023 6:28:57 PM (Read by you after 27 minutes, 56 seconds) +18058900903

I am free at about 9:30 your time in the morning.

May 20, 2023 6:56:55 PM Me

Ok

May 20, 2023 6:56:59 PM Me

That will work

May 21, 2023 10:50:26 AM (Read by you after 26 minutes, 36 seconds) +18058900903

Just finished breakfast. Free when you are.

May 21, 2023 11:17:14 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Refreshing coffee and then ready

May 21, 2023 11:18:31 AM +18058900903

Great. Give me a call when you are ready.

May 21, 2023 11:18:37 AM Me

Been watching Man City go bananas from winning the Premier League. They are on course for a Treble (Premier League, Champions League, FA Cup) Hasn’t been one of those since Man United back in the David Beckham and Sir Alex era

May 21, 2023 9:39:14 PM (Read by you after 11 hours, 10 minutes, 46 seconds) +18058900903

Great to chat today. It sounds like you have a plan. Colorado sounds like a great option. Keep me informed.

May 22, 2023 8:51:04 AM Me

Yeah, it was a good talk. Made me feel better. Colorado is in the works and will happen, just waiting to find out when I make the move. I’ll keep you posted.

May 22, 2023 8:57:20 AM (Read by you after 1 hour, 47 minutes, 14 seconds) +18058900903

Good luck on the job search prior to the move. I am sure you will soon be gainfully employed

May 28, 2023 9:47:43 PM Me

Look what came up listening today. Jerome!!

May 28, 2023 9:47:46 PM Me

Spotify

May 28, 2023 9:48:08 PM Me

Brings back club memories

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May 31, 2023 8:19:27 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 54 minutes, 11 seconds) +18058900903

I hope all is well. Is the job search coming along? It’s tough out there for a ….

Jun 03, 2023 5:54:00 PM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I know you have had a couple of tough days. I hope you are on the beach sipping a margarita. I work early the next few days, but can probably find a time to chat if you wish. Also, happy to leave you alone as well, if that is your wish.

Jun 03, 2023 5:55:44 PM Me

Hey Derick, today was day four of purging myself from the house into storage. It’s basically all done right now, so I’ve been rather consumed and exhausted. I am now we located at Hawk 44 campground site at Lake Casitas. I’ve spent two nights there and it’s a great spot beautiful. in the morning listening to the birds wake me up and so far so good, I would definitely be up for a chat this week if you’re free

Jun 03, 2023 5:56:27 PM Me

Jun 03, 2023 5:57:16 PM Me

Also, I got to sharpen my Tetris skills getting things into the storage unit 🤣🤣🤣

Jun 03, 2023 6:02:20 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 1 hour, 18 minutes, 6 seconds) +18058900903

So true. We did the same with our pod. It took lots of tries.

Jun 04, 2023 7:31:31 PM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 22 seconds) +18058900903

Looking ahead, I am free tomorrow after 12:30pm your time and Tuesday before noon your time. Sounds like your campsite is cool, but I am sure you are ready to get someplace more permanent. Is Colorado still in the works? I was thinking about it because it’s been high 80’s here and in the way to the low 100’s.

Jun 04, 2023 7:39:13 PM ⇲ Me

Both times work. Let’s do tomorrow at 12:30. Colorado is a 🚥 green light.

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Jun 04, 2023 7:41:14 PM ⇲ Me

Headed there somewhere between 6/10-6/15. Looking at possibility of hitting some good hiking 🥾 spots between here and there—Cali desert, Utah, and western Colorado before Rockies.

Jun 04, 2023 7:41:26 PM ⇲ Me

Exploring those routes these done charging capabilities

Jun 04, 2023 7:41:34 PM ⇲ Me

Based on

Jun 04, 2023 7:41:44 PM ⇲ Me

Damn speech to text!

Jun 04, 2023 7:32:48 PM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 5 seconds) +18058900903

And, watching the game? Heat are in trouble.

Jun 04, 2023 7:39:13 PM ⇱ Me

Both times work. Let’s do tomorrow at 12:30. Colorado is a 🚥 green light.

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Headed there somewhere between 6/10-6/15. Looking at possibility of hitting some good hiking 🥾 spots between here and there—Cali desert, Utah, and western Colorado before Rockies.
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Jun 04, 2023 7:41:26 PM ⇱ Me

Exploring those routes these done charging capabilities
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Based on
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Damn speech to text!
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Jun 04, 2023 7:42:00 PM Me

Heat cannot stop the Joker

Jun 05, 2023 2:25:31 PM (Read by you after 27 minutes, 35 seconds) +18058900903

Let me know a good time to connect.

Jun 05, 2023 2:53:53 PM Me

Will do! Unexpectedly busier today than I thought

Jun 07, 2023 4:33:10 PM (Read by you after 16 hours, 14 minutes, 9 seconds) +18058900903

Hope all is well. Free until 9 your time tonight. How’s job search going? Had an in person interview today. Went well.

Jun 08, 2023 8:50:16 AM Me

Hey Derick! Apologies for going AWOL. I’ve been camping at Lake Casitas since Jun 1 and every day there is more to do than I expect (go figure)! I’m actually on my laptop tethered to my phone right now sitting at my campsite at the lake 😊 Big picture things are going well. The buildup to Jun 1st was big, a lot of effort but all my shit is in storage in town. Anything left in the house is shit we’ll deal with in the fall (furniture paintings etc — none of which we’ve talked about splitting up) so there are sure to be FUN conversations ahead.

Jun 08, 2023 8:54:14 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Job search is moving forward. Have been putting applications out every day. With my line of work now being more remote than ever, everyone is willing to employ remote workers so it opens up my options, but does so for everyone else too. I’ll keep pushing Apps out there until it clicks. It eventually will, someone will want what I have to offer, just a matter of time. In the meantime I started doing mini projects to put some money in my pocket. Troubleshooting weird broken websites, etc. I have a knack for troubleshooting broken websites and finding out why they dont work. Not sure why I know how, but I picked up the skills over the past quarter century I guess—I’m f’ing old 😊 Tonight is the end-of-year party at Thacher. Alumni show up tomorrow for the weekend. I’m going to stay around Ojai until Monday, Fathers day, to hang out with D+D and then I start my journey to Carbondale.

Jun 08, 2023 8:55:35 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I’m planning on stopping either in Zion or Bryce on my way TO Colorado, and on my way back to Ojai in the fall I’ll stop at the other. Never been to either and want to spend one night camping and 2 days hiking, exploring. Otherwise its station to station for charging with the car until I get there.

Jun 08, 2023 8:56:06 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Should be interesting traveling with an electric car over long distances. I’ll keep you posted and share anything I discover along the way

Jun 08, 2023 8:56:36 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hope you, Molly, Jordan and Evan are all doing well!!

Jun 08, 2023 9:51:49 AM (Read by you after 23 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

No worries. Sounds like plan. Headed out on the open road on Monday! Drop $10 on black for me in Vegas. That seems like a good first night stop. Then on to Utah. I think Bryce is better now because of elevation. Zion will be hot. Take some photos.

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Jun 12, 2023 2:25:28 PM (Read by you after 7 hours, 39 minutes, 3 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I think today is the day that you are headed to Zion or Bryce. Have fun. I think you should stay the first night in Vegas and go clubbin. Hey ladies! Enjoy the trek. It should be fun.

Jun 12, 2023 10:05:27 PM Me

Hey Derick, I am in Baker right now. Isn’t that Bob’s big boy? It’s where the largest thermometer is, right? It’s so dark when I pulled in, I couldn’t tell, the place I’m charging it looks like pizza port from toy story

Jun 12, 2023 10:07:03 PM Me

Just me, 12 chargers for non Teslas. The Tesla area to the left has 32 plug in stations. and behind me, there is more construction for what looks like two more tesla bays which would make it 72 cars at once charging and another 12 non-Teslas so that would be 24 in Baker.

Jun 12, 2023 10:07:09 PM +18058900903

Yes. Baker is the place.

Jun 12, 2023 10:07:16 PM Me

3 to 5 years more people will be charging, then going old school

Jun 12, 2023 10:08:03 PM Me

My last stop in Barstow it was fun because I sat there charging my car watching everyone pull up and fill their cars for 100 bucks. I paid $5

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Jun 12, 2023 10:08:18 PM Me

😜

Jun 12, 2023 10:09:12 PM (Read by you after 6 hours, 23 minutes, 14 seconds) +18058900903

Awesome! Enjoy.

Jun 13, 2023 9:23:54 PM (Read by you after 45 minutes, 35 seconds) +18058900903

In Utah now? Or beyond? Dallas is terrible now. High temperatures and rain.

Jun 13, 2023 10:10:46 PM Me

In St George tonight and tomorrow night. Going to head into Zion all day tomorrow for hiking and exploring come back crash and get up the next day and head up to Moab and then do a couple of days in Moab and check out arches then roll into Carbondale Sunday afternoon.

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Jun 13, 2023 10:11:51 PM Me

90s today

Jun 14, 2023 8:57:13 AM (Read by you after 1 day, 4 hours, 11 minutes, 28 seconds) +18058900903

Great photos.

Jun 15, 2023 1:12:12 PM Me

Hiked a mile up river in. “The Narrows” in Zion yesterday. Mostly up to my knees, waist a few times and twice up to armpits with pack held overhead. Current was VERY strong And I would not have been able to do it without my hiking sticks. The water speed range fromabsolute.com to total Rapids over rocks.

Jun 15, 2023 1:12:22 PM Me

I have more photos and video. I’m going to put all this online and send links when I’m stationary. Currently in Cedar city Utah at Walmart charging the car up.

Jun 15, 2023 1:13:48 PM Me

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Jun 15, 2023 1:26:52 PM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 16 seconds) +18058900903

Yes. That is a tough hike. I hope you were with others. You can get swept up pretty easily.

Jun 15, 2023 1:35:15 PM ⇲ Me

I’ll try to send you the link to the video I shot later today. I was with a handful of random people. I ran into as a venture down river who were also pushing and hiking as far as they could. So I definitely was not by myself, although on the way back, I was completely by myself and ended up Switch backing across the river in the rapids because it was my only choice and nearly lost grip two times and it was exciting. In all my years of hiking easily one of, if not the most technical hike I’ve ever had to pull off without breaking a bone getting knocked out or dying

Jun 15, 2023 1:35:21 PM ⇲ Me

😜🤙

Jun 15, 2023 1:36:42 PM ⇲ Me

If the river had taken me down at me, hate, I would’ve easily hit some bones on rocks, and in retrospect, it’s kind of stupid to do that without like a skateboard helmet or bicycle helmet on. If I got swept fell in my head hit one of those rocks. It would’ve turned me into Humpty Dumpty.

Jun 15, 2023 1:37:02 PM ⇲ Me

It was as some say “no joke!” 🤣🤣🤣

Jun 15, 2023 1:35:15 PM ⇱ Me

I’ll try to send you the link to the video I shot later today. I was with a handful of random people. I ran into as a venture down river who were also pushing and hiking as far as they could. So I definitely was not by myself, although on the way back, I was completely by myself and ended up Switch backing across the river in the rapids because it was my only choice and nearly lost grip two times and it was exciting. In all my years of hiking easily one of, if not the most technical hike I’ve ever had to pull off without breaking a bone getting knocked out or dying
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Jun 15, 2023 1:35:21 PM ⇱ Me

😜🤙
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Jun 15, 2023 1:36:42 PM ⇱ Me

If the river had taken me down at me, hate, I would’ve easily hit some bones on rocks, and in retrospect, it’s kind of stupid to do that without like a skateboard helmet or bicycle helmet on. If I got swept fell in my head hit one of those rocks. It would’ve turned me into Humpty Dumpty.
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Jun 15, 2023 1:37:02 PM ⇱ Me

It was as some say “no joke!” 🤣🤣🤣
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Jun 15, 2023 1:46:49 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 37 minutes, 48 seconds) +18058900903

I look forward to seeing the rest. That water moves fast and gets higher quickly.

Jun 20, 2023 4:22:08 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 57 minutes, 25 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, just checking in. Hope the arrival in Colorado was a OK. Love to hear from you soon.

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Jun 20, 2023 6:21:36 PM Me

Hey! Great to hear from you Derick. I made it safe and sound and never ran out of juice. I have a tail to tell you when we do connect, of course traveling across desert Utah in the middle of but fucking nowhere.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hear from you Derick. I made it safe and sound and never ran out of juice. I have a tail to tell you when we do connect, of course traveling across desert Utah in the middle of but fucking nowhere. I’ll just share with you at one point I had 97 miles to go and only 65 miles in my battery on one leg across Utah. I have to say though I never lost my fucking cool. 😎

Jun 20, 2023 6:21:51 PM Me

I’m free all week. I’m just sitting around applying to jobs and looking for small gigs to make a couple hundred bucks here and there.

Jun 20, 2023 6:22:25 PM Me

This is on the fridge at the place. I’m staying which, by the way is incredible in and of itself I’ll share links to photos and videos from my trip through the national parks. Anyhow, here’s the great comic. I know you’ll love this.

Jun 20, 2023 6:23:26 PM Me

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Jun 20, 2023 6:23:27 PM Me

I’m curious have you had that experience at Trader Joe’s? 🤣🤣

Jun 20, 2023 6:24:26 PM Me

Btw I’m only an hour behind you in mountain time now

Jun 20, 2023 6:24:41 PM Me

I just happen to be in the state of the NBA champions as well 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jun 20, 2023 6:25:07 PM Me

I just tell everyone I’m a joker fan

Jun 20, 2023 6:25:39 PM +18058900903

Absolutely. Glad to hear that you’ve arrived. I am sure that it’s nice to be done driving. I find it tiring.

Jun 20, 2023 6:26:03 PM Me

Jun 20, 2023 6:26:11 PM +18058900903

Ah yes. Basketball. California has lost its way.

Jun 20, 2023 6:26:29 PM Me

Mt Sopris 12,695’ just chilling in the distance. You can see it from the backyard of our house.

Jun 20, 2023 6:26:52 PM Me

And that other pic is my car parked in front of the house. A guy bought a 1940s 50s old school and then upgraded it. You guys would love this place.

Jun 20, 2023 6:26:59 PM +18058900903

Wow. Those photos are awesome.

Jun 20, 2023 6:27:25 PM Me

Wait till you see my hiking photos. I hate to the narrows in Zion in the river went up to my armpits, I had to put my backpack up over my head in my hands with my sticks.

Jun 20, 2023 6:27:43 PM Me

And the current was no joke. One wrong step and you are going down.

Jun 20, 2023 6:28:06 PM Me

I realized post hike that having a bicycle or skateboarding helmet on, would’ve been a very smart move. There were two or three times where I could’ve turned into Humpty fucking Dumpty.

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Jun 20, 2023 6:28:20 PM Me

Had my head cracked open on a big fucking rock

Jun 20, 2023 6:28:51 PM Me

I have tons of photos from the Narrows hike in Zion, plus of 3 1/2 Minute video when I was able to find a small beach to camp to stand on

Jun 20, 2023 6:29:16 PM Me

Then I went to arches height in the devils garden did 7 miles with crazy vertical gains.

Jun 20, 2023 6:29:28 PM Me

I did three of the five most incredible hikes in my life in four days

Jun 20, 2023 6:30:37 PM Me

At the end of summer I’m actually thinking of doing a week at arches maybe 34 days embrace and then perhaps three or four days in Zion. I paid 80 bucks and bought an annual pass so I get into all the national parks for free well, not really free but if you’re gonna hit national parks, 80 bucks for a year of access is dirt cheap.

Jun 20, 2023 6:31:21 PM Me

Oh, I’m using this app, called Bumble, and switched my location to Carbondale and within 24 hours the mountain ladies started checking me out 🤣🤣🤣

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Jun 20, 2023 6:31:47 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

That’s what I’m talking about.

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Jun 20, 2023 6:31:49 PM Me

As my therapist said to me, good stuff doesn’t stay on the shelf long

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Jun 20, 2023 6:32:34 PM Me

I already have three women that I’m actively engaged in very long text threads that I’ve been going on for more than a month

Jun 20, 2023 6:33:03 PM Me

Connecting with people in this age, when you’re looking for the booty isn’t new, fucking world, my friend

Jun 20, 2023 6:33:16 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

From Colorado or Ventura County?

Jun 20, 2023 6:33:26 PM Me

I can’t believe if I had had this kind of tools to find ladies holy shit

Jun 20, 2023 6:33:33 PM +18058900903

I know.

Jun 20, 2023 6:33:38 PM Me

I’m saying when we were in college, if we had these sites like Tinder, holy shit

Jun 20, 2023 6:33:43 PM +18058900903

Like fish in a barrel

Jun 20, 2023 6:33:52 PM Me

I’d be like yo my dick needs to take a week off

Jun 20, 2023 6:34:24 PM Me

It’s ridiculous to, I give Declan so much shit

Jun 20, 2023 6:34:43 PM Me

I keep telling the ladies are out there, my young man you just gotta put yourself out there. Got to get him to put his bait and tackle out there.

Jun 20, 2023 6:35:16 PM Me

I would imagine Jordy and Evi have stories to tell you about those apps and meeting weird fucking dudes

Jun 20, 2023 6:35:33 PM +18058900903

Absolutely. I think you hit the nail on the head. Blinderman is finding it worthwhile too.

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Jun 20, 2023 6:35:50 PM +18058900903

I don’t know that Evan used it. She was in college.

Jun 20, 2023 6:36:03 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

Jordan does have some funny stories.

Jun 20, 2023 6:36:15 PM Me

When I look at it as a digital professional, the apps are performing a huge service to people in saving time and effort into finding like-minded people

Jun 20, 2023 6:36:24 PM Me

When we were Young, it was like buckshot

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Jun 20, 2023 6:36:32 PM Me

Shoot shit everywhere and hope you hit something

Jun 20, 2023 6:36:46 PM Me

Nowadays, it’s like a laser guided fucking missile

Jun 20, 2023 6:36:46 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

That wasn’t sick or crazy

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Jun 20, 2023 6:37:18 PM Me

I’m serious though young people today have no fucking idea how hard it was to find somebody compared to today

Jun 20, 2023 6:37:26 PM +18058900903

Agreed

Jun 20, 2023 6:37:38 PM Me

You know you could end up in the priesthood for a while before you got lucky

Jun 20, 2023 6:38:21 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 1 minute, 48 seconds) +18058900903

So true. Dry spells were common. That’s why I used to drink so much. No tail, have a cocktail

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Jun 20, 2023 8:41:16 PM Me

I got Bumble and Tinder going right now with new locale. Will keep you updated

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Jun 20, 2023 8:44:20 PM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 12 seconds) +18058900903

As well you should, my brother. As well you should. Enjoy. It’s time.

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Jun 20, 2023 8:51:33 PM Me

Listening to my GOAT rhyme list on Spotify and this came up.

Jun 20, 2023 8:51:36 PM Me

Spotify

Jun 20, 2023 9:27:14 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 26 minutes, 32 seconds) +18058900903

Most amazing compilation ever!

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Jun 22, 2023 9:56:23 AM Me

🤯 Perfect mashup

Jun 22, 2023 9:56:24 AM (Read by you after 44 minutes, 44 seconds) +18058900903

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Jun 22, 2023 9:56:26 AM Me

YouTube

Jun 22, 2023 1:54:22 PM (Read by you after 9 minutes, 9 seconds) +18058900903

Very funny.

Jun 22, 2023 4:31:59 PM (Read by you after 21 hours, 16 minutes, 12 seconds) +18058900903

What’s the weather like?

Jun 22, 2023 7:06:41 PM (Read by you after 18 hours, 41 minutes, 30 seconds) +18058900903

NBA going wild with trades and draft.

Jun 23, 2023 1:39:37 PM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 34 seconds) +18058900903

How’s it going? Do you have time to chat today?

Jun 23, 2023 1:49:11 PM Me

Things are new and good. Could talk in a few hours. Pushing on apps and a small project at the moment

Jun 23, 2023 1:50:52 PM (Read by you after 4 days, 22 hours, 7 minutes, 31 seconds) +18058900903

Great. Give me a call when you are not busy. I am just hanging out at home.

Jun 26, 2023 8:45:48 AM (Read by you after 2 days, 3 hours, 12 minutes, 35 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, do you have time to catch up today? I am free from about 3pm forward. Love to hear about job search and the mountain air.

Jun 26, 2023 6:27:47 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 17 hours, 30 minutes, 36 seconds) +18058900903

Just tried to call. I am out of pocket tomorrow, but happy to chat tonight if you are free. You

Jun 26, 2023 6:30:37 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 17 hours, 27 minutes, 46 seconds) +18058900903

Looking at a simulation of a soccer game that was just played on Loork Football TV. So weird. It looks like a video game simulation, but it’s plays from a real game. Have you seen it?

Jun 28, 2023 11:46:31 AM (Read by you after 11 minutes, 52 seconds) +18058900903

I hope all is well.

Jun 28, 2023 12:00:50 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick, things are going ok. Just pushing forward. Had a few dark days after the weekend, but feeling a bit better. Talking with my doc about meds this week to tweak them—sucks but that’s my life. I truly hope you and Molly are doing ok deep in the HEAT of Texas. I heard a report this morning about the temps—stay safe. 😊

Jun 28, 2023 12:04:22 PM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 21 seconds) +18058900903

Glad to hear things are better. Let me know when you are OK to chat. I am free most afternoons for the rest of the week. Texas is hot, but our is great and shady and we don’t have to turn AC to the 60’s. Again, glad to hear that things are better.

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Jun 28, 2023 12:16:28 PM (Read by you after 10 minutes, 35 seconds) +18058900903

*house

Jul 03, 2023 3:45:36 PM (Read by you after 2 days, 19 hours, 37 minutes, 14 seconds) +18058900903

Checking in. I hope you are well. Home from work.

Jul 06, 2023 11:25:35 AM Me

Hey Derick things are good. On the job hunt and also considering other avenues, ie. I have AI experience and re-branding as an AI Prompt Engineer which is something I’m weirdly good at… Writing the text that you submit to generate results. There are a few very good design tools, that if you know HOW to ask it, you can get some amazing results. Anyhow, digression… How are you and Molly doing holding up in the heat? How was your 4th?

Jul 06, 2023 12:00:59 PM (Read by you after 47 minutes, 19 seconds) +18058900903

We had some friends over and tried to see fireworks from our roof, but they were sparse. Heat is like Ojai. Go out when you have to. I am off today do happy to chat if you have time. Molly is off to NYC to move Evan in to her new place.

Jul 06, 2023 8:14:59 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 12 minutes, 21 seconds) +18058900903

Sorry. Trying to connect with Molly. Don’t know why Siri dialed you.

Jul 06, 2023 10:27:34 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

No worries

Jul 06, 2023 10:28:19 PM Me

Hey, take 45 uninterrupted minutes and watch this. I learned a great deal and I’m actually working with AI right now. HIGHLY recommended watching:

Jul 06, 2023 10:28:25 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

YouTube

Jul 06, 2023 10:28:55 PM Me

BTW, the Why Files is my favorite YT channel. Top content

Jul 07, 2023 10:55:17 AM (Read by you after 1 day, 8 hours, 35 minutes, 46 seconds) +18058900903

Finishing up today. I am off work today. Do you have time to catch up? I am just running errands.

Jul 11, 2023 6:30:18 PM (Read by you after 8 days, 21 hours, 33 minutes, 41 seconds) +18058900903

Just called. Checking in. Watching Summer League BBall.

Jul 20, 2023 4:09:35 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hi Derick. Mea Culpa. I’ve had my head down looking for work, had an interview with a recruiter this week. Overall I’ve been depressed a lot. Last week was the hardest yet out here in Colorado. Been very quiet, even here at the house. Next week I’m heading over the mountains to Longmont and will then fly out to my parents in NY for a bit. All the while continuing to look for the next gig. Pushing a lot of rocks uphill while depressed sux honestly. I hope you and Molly are not melting in Texas. I know it’s been hot because it was 96 up here the other day. Let me know how things are going.

Jul 20, 2023 5:24:45 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 49 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

Yes, we are sweltering in the heat too. Molly dropped Evan off in NYC for her new job, and then visited family. She is off next week to do the same for Jordan. Still applying to jobs. Not hearing much. Summer is a tough time for development work. Everyone wants to be on vacation.

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Jul 21, 2023 8:06:43 PM (Read by you after 35 minutes, 9 seconds) +18058900903

Hope you are feeling better. I am sure you will be in a better mood once job prospects pan out.

Jul 21, 2023 8:42:14 PM Me

You know it 😕

Jul 21, 2023 8:42:54 PM Me

watvhing youngest american woman get subbed in 18!!!!!!!

Jul 21, 2023 8:43:02 PM Me

On Fox

Jul 21, 2023 8:43:15 PM Me

usa women in world cup

Jul 21, 2023 8:45:49 PM Me

also I’ve started painting again. Havent done that with any seriousness in 30 years since I went pro on the computer

Jul 21, 2023 8:46:25 PM Me

Jul 21, 2023 8:46:25 PM Me

Watercolor

Jul 29, 2023 7:49:59 AM (Read by you after 3 hours, 6 minutes, 24 seconds) +18058900903

Are you at your parents now?

Jul 29, 2023 10:57:15 AM Me

I'm in Longmont CO at the moment. Heading east today. Packing car right now 😁

Jul 29, 2023 11:10:39 AM (Read by you after 5 days, 20 hours, 50 minutes, 29 seconds) +18058900903

Wow. Driving to NY? That should be fun. If so, you should stop at the Rock and Roll HOF in Cleveland. I hear it’s amazing.

Jul 29, 2023 1:09:25 PM Me

Good recommendation! About to head out. Car is packed and charging devices

Aug 04, 2023 7:44:23 AM (Read by you after 16 minutes, 45 seconds) +18058900903

In NY yet?

Aug 04, 2023 8:02:37 AM Me

Hi Derick Yes! Arrived Wednesday night, was largely useless yesterday and starting to feel normal today after 3 long days

Aug 04, 2023 8:12:26 AM Me

I learned a lot about my car and really enjoy having an electric car more than I thought I would. It was an adventure to set out for a charging station 80-110 miles away not knowing if everything would work out. Charge up, stretch, rest; then do that again 40 times. 😁 And my car is considered “first-generation” because of the limited range and other features now standard like battery cooling systems. So once I drive the car back to CA later this year I’ve earned my merit badge and won’t do it again unless I have a Rivian truck. I am in an one bedroom apartment upstairs from my parents. A tenant moved out 2 mos ago and my parents kept it open for me 👍 it’s fabulous having my own space. Setting up the dartboard today 🎯😁 How are you and Molly holding up in the heat? I’ve been hearing a lot on the news about the heat in Arizona but I know you guys are feeling it too.

Aug 04, 2023 8:13:50 AM Me

And curious how Jordan and Evan are doing?

Aug 04, 2023 8:28:34 AM (Read by you after 28 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

We are fine. The heat is not that much different from Ojai. We just don’t have Ventura to escape to. Molly helped Evan move to NYC in mid-July and is helping Jordan move in to her new house in Berkeley after a week or so in Ojai. Both girls are excited about their new situations. Evan has a couple of weeks at her new job and Jordan starts law school on August 15. I am just working and looking at other opportunities.

Aug 04, 2023 8:58:56 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Good to hear! Are you keeping your house 68º 😆 Does it feel like a refrigerator when you walk into the house or stores? I felt that going through the midwest.

Aug 04, 2023 12:26:33 PM (Read by you after 3 days, 22 hours, 30 minutes, 58 seconds) +18058900903

We actually keep it between 76 degrees and 82. It keeps it plenty cool.

Aug 10, 2023 7:24:30 AM Me

Warning ⚠️ make sure you don’t have coffee in your mouth 🤣🤣🤣 This is just TOO good.

Aug 10, 2023 7:24:32 AM Me

Twitter

Aug 10, 2023 8:21:36 AM (Read by you after 39 minutes, 17 seconds) +18058900903

This is funny stuff. There’s about a hundred of these.

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https://www.google.com/knowledgegraphshares?q=alabama+brawl+merchandise&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-us&client=safari#ip=1

Aug 10, 2023 8:22:26 AM (Read by you after 38 minutes, 27 seconds) +18058900903

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The best:

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YouTube

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I love the internet for precisely this shit 🤣🤣🤣

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Aug 21, 2023 9:42:11 AM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, how’s it going? Job search proving fruitful? Do you have time to catch up today? I am free after about 2:30 your time.

Aug 21, 2023 9:44:44 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey there! Job search is ongoing. Lots of apps out there. More going out today. Its been a slog, won’t lie—feeds into mind games 😊 Big picture I’m actually feeling optimistic for the first time in probably 5-6 years (at least). Feels like the depression is FINALLY sunsetting — BUT dont want to jinx myself, its still early days. Yeah, let’s catch up. Text me when you’re free and we’ll connect.

Aug 21, 2023 9:45:22 AM Me

Ps check Instagram. Sent you “Pops” who has “Snow on the roof, but a FIRE in the Furnace” 🤣🤣🤣

Aug 21, 2023 9:49:52 AM (Read by you after 51 seconds) +18058900903

Will do. Back to the grind.

Aug 21, 2023 9:50:52 AM Me

Cool. Talk soon

Aug 21, 2023 12:54:11 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 51 minutes, 10 seconds) +18058900903

Call whenever you are free.

Aug 23, 2023 1:14:44 PM Me

Hey Derick I was going through my list of opportunities that come across my radar and saw a few that might interest you. One is a fully remote position, some are hybrid, but I bet for the right person the others would be flexible. All of these are in the world of Development and Fundraising.

Aug 23, 2023 1:14:52 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Peter Gray Search

Aug 23, 2023 1:15:27 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

https://www.re-sources.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Devo-Director-Job-Description-2023.pdf

Aug 23, 2023 1:16:07 PM Me

https://workforcenow.adp.com/mascsr/default/mdf/recruitment/recruitment.html?cid=2a2cd446-3b6b-45ff-90d7-579775843522&ccId=19000101_000001&lang=en_US&source=EN&selectedMenuKey=CurrentOpenings&jobId=482411

Aug 23, 2023 1:16:35 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

https://jobs.crelate.com/portal/nonprofitprofessionalsnow/job/osyyqponngbm8ww7m47pxcc9qo

Aug 23, 2023 1:20:23 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 1 minute, 57 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks!

Aug 23, 2023 2:22:25 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Sure

Sep 07, 2023 7:35:48 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Wow ! https://youtu.be/ah7px3sUl6M?si=fCklcsEa58hJUa1U “Coffin Ready’ 🤣🤣🤣

Sep 07, 2023 8:16:22 PM (Read by you after 15 hours, 57 minutes, 35 seconds) +18058900903

Cornel ain’t playing

Sep 12, 2023 10:19:03 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

What could possibly go wrong? 🤣🤣🤣

Sep 12, 2023 10:19:04 AM (Read by them after 3 seconds) Me

Los Angeles Times

Sep 12, 2023 7:28:23 PM (Read by you after 19 minutes, 46 seconds) +18058900903

I know. NYE fireworks are really going to pop!

Sep 21, 2023 2:37:15 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick hope all is well. Just saw this: Outward Bound California is hiring a Director of Advancement remote (in CA) Full job description here Salary: $120,000 - $130,000

Sep 21, 2023 2:37:17 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

https://outwardboundcalifornia.org/

Sep 21, 2023 2:40:55 PM (Read by you after 18 hours, 47 minutes, 8 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks.

Sep 23, 2023 3:19:30 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 11 minutes, 59 seconds) +18058900903

Checking in. Any job news? I am laid up with Covid. Got it after 3 years! TJ’s gives me 5 paid days off however.

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Sep 23, 2023 6:37:06 PM Me

Just got healthy after 2 weeks of Covid. Got hit hard. Finally human again Search is gaining a bit of traction, and getting more recruiters engaged. I may get an interview for a gig this week with ServiceNow Hopefully 🤞 I’ll get some luck this week. Heading towards Colorado beginning of October.

Sep 23, 2023 6:37:24 PM Me

Take care of yourself. Lots of sleep and water

Oct 03, 2023 7:59:24 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hope you’re getting over the Covid! 😊 I saw this opportunity and thought you might be interested, its remote.

Oct 03, 2023 7:59:26 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

https://www.indeed.com/viewjob?from=social_facebook&jk=b0784ef2ecd704cc

Oct 11, 2023 12:37:00 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick hope you’re feeling better! I saw another position that might interest you:

Oct 11, 2023 12:37:02 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

https://www.sblandtrust.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/Development-and-Communications-Director-Full-FINAL092223.pdf

Oct 11, 2023 12:37:23 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

The Land Trust for Santa Barbara County

Oct 11, 2023 12:57:31 PM (Read by you after 20 hours, 59 minutes, 42 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks. How’s your job hunt going?

Oct 12, 2023 9:57:22 AM Me

It’s rough out there

Oct 12, 2023 9:57:23 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Oct 12, 2023 9:57:29 AM Me

😁

Oct 12, 2023 10:00:33 AM Me

But it makes me iterate my approach, so I have some ideas I may implement over this weekend and then see where things go. Sidenote: I should be getting on the road Sunday, if not Monday morning, on my trip back to Ventura County. I’m not missing the chance to coach my son his senior season, along with that team of talented kids. The Thacher soccer team has an excellent chance of winning the league and making a decent run in the playoffs if we can get them to play the way we want them to.

Oct 12, 2023 10:01:01 AM Me

Once I have that iteration, I’ll let you know. Have you take a look at my website on the laptop and phone and give me some objective feedback 😁

Oct 12, 2023 10:01:52 AM Me

Also, I’ve picked up the paintbrush again and have been painting all summer, something I haven’t done in 30 years, and it’s been so much fun

Oct 13, 2023 6:28:03 AM (Read by you after 10 minutes, 13 seconds) +18058900903

Well, good luck with all that. Seems like you have a plan with regards to a job. It is killer out there. Are you going to live with Jaime in Ojai? That could be fun.

Oct 14, 2023 9:58:51 AM ⇲ Me

It is a killer out there. I’ve written a commentary that I’ve kept close to the vest about my current experience compared to the past and how I’m experiencing things FAR differently than the dot-com bubble of 1999, or the 2008 bank collapse. Those were both VERY hard times in tech if you didn’t already lose you job. Ageism is a bitch. Its definitely what is impacting my search but I have zero way to quantify it. How do I measure someone else’s subconscious bias? If I get up the cojones to publish it I’ll be sure to let you have a read before I click the “publish” button. Your editing and perspective would be greatly appreciated. Living with Jaime would be dangerous. You remember how big those bottles of tequila were at the holiday party? I’m sure we’d have that sitting around 24/7 in case you’re ever thirsty 🤣 Seriously we could get arrested for having too good a time 🤣🤣🤣

Oct 13, 2023 6:36:03 AM (Read by you after 2 minutes, 13 seconds) +18058900903

When does soccer season start? Football is the only thing I hear about at Dallas high schools. Friday Night Lights is real.

Oct 14, 2023 10:00:44 AM ⇲ Me

I figured Friday night lights was real. We have it here in CA, but NOT like TX. Soccer practice starts early November. I’m leaving here Monday morning with goal of hitting front range (boulder, co) by Thur/Fri. Then on to St George to get one last hike at Zion in. And then its right into Ventura County after tha.

Oct 14, 2023 10:02:47 AM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 12 seconds) ⇲ +18058900903

I agree. I am experiencing it. My friend who has a Harvard MBA is experiencing it and so is my sister in law. They want cheap, not good.

Oct 14, 2023 10:09:06 AM ⇲ Me

You can have it… Cheap Fast Good Now, you can only pick 2 !

Oct 14, 2023 12:06:47 PM (Read by you after 2 days, 7 hours, 50 minutes, 25 seconds) ⇲ +18058900903

So true

Oct 13, 2023 7:52:16 AM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 22 seconds) +18058900903

Going to California today for a wedding in wine country.

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Oct 14, 2023 10:01:02 AM ⇲ Me

Hope it was fun!

Oct 14, 2023 10:03:48 AM (Read by you after 4 minutes, 11 seconds) ⇲ +18058900903

Wedding is today. Bash last night was great fun.

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Oct 14, 2023 9:11:58 AM (Read by you after 41 minutes, 56 seconds) +18058900903

I remember talking to you about the possibility of renting Aaron and Theana’s place. It turns out the re-upped their renters. I will keep my ear to the ground through Terry and Cricket. They know many people with granny flats, if that interests you. Let me know.

Oct 14, 2023 10:07:53 AM (Read by them after 1 second) ⇲ Me

Yes! A granny flat or guest house would be ideal! Or if something happened with Aaron and Theanas place, but that may be too big/too much $$. I did email Jeff Hooper to let him know I’m headed back to campus for coaching Varsity with Coach Jungo. I let him know about my situation with Liz and asked for his confidentiality because I have no idea if anyone on campus knows? Is it known among the community? I have no idea. I asked him if I could be considered a “Visiting Artist in Soccer” and stay in the studio space next to handball courts. Its right next to the turf field and on opposite side of campus from Liz. It would be ideal if possible. I consider that I’ve coached since 2018 with varsity and never paid a nickel. 😮 So I’m hopeful that could play in my favor. I also told Jeff I realize I’m not his problem but if I dont ask I’ll never know 😊 But YES! on the guest house granny flat. I know Cricket would put in a good word for me. I’d likely not have to fill out paper work her recommendation is so powerful 🤣🤣🤣

Oct 14, 2023 9:58:51 AM ⇱ Me

It is a killer out there. I’ve written a commentary that I’ve kept close to the vest about my current experience compared to the past and how I’m experiencing things FAR differently than the dot-com bubble of 1999, or the 2008 bank collapse. Those were both VERY hard times in tech if you didn’t already lose you job. Ageism is a bitch. Its definitely what is impacting my search but I have zero way to quantify it. How do I measure someone else’s subconscious bias? If I get up the cojones to publish it I’ll be sure to let you have a read before I click the “publish” button. Your editing and perspective would be greatly appreciated. Living with Jaime would be dangerous. You remember how big those bottles of tequila were at the holiday party? I’m sure we’d have that sitting around 24/7 in case you’re ever thirsty 🤣 Seriously we could get arrested for having too good a time 🤣🤣🤣
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I figured Friday night lights was real. We have it here in CA, but NOT like TX. Soccer practice starts early November. I’m leaving here Monday morning with goal of hitting front range (boulder, co) by Thur/Fri. Then on to St George to get one last hike at Zion in. And then its right into Ventura County after tha.
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Oct 14, 2023 10:01:02 AM ⇱ Me

Hope it was fun!
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Oct 14, 2023 10:02:47 AM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 12 seconds) ⇱ +18058900903

I agree. I am experiencing it. My friend who has a Harvard MBA is experiencing it and so is my sister in law. They want cheap, not good.
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Wedding is today. Bash last night was great fun.

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Oct 14, 2023 10:07:53 AM (Read by them after 1 second) ⇱ Me

Yes! A granny flat or guest house would be ideal! Or if something happened with Aaron and Theanas place, but that may be too big/too much $$. I did email Jeff Hooper to let him know I’m headed back to campus for coaching Varsity with Coach Jungo. I let him know about my situation with Liz and asked for his confidentiality because I have no idea if anyone on campus knows? Is it known among the community? I have no idea. I asked him if I could be considered a “Visiting Artist in Soccer” and stay in the studio space next to handball courts. Its right next to the turf field and on opposite side of campus from Liz. It would be ideal if possible. I consider that I’ve coached since 2018 with varsity and never paid a nickel. 😮 So I’m hopeful that could play in my favor. I also told Jeff I realize I’m not his problem but if I dont ask I’ll never know 😊 But YES! on the guest house granny flat. I know Cricket would put in a good word for me. I’d likely not have to fill out paper work her recommendation is so powerful 🤣🤣🤣
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Oct 14, 2023 10:09:06 AM ⇱ Me

You can have it… Cheap Fast Good Now, you can only pick 2 !
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Oct 14, 2023 12:06:47 PM (Read by you after 2 days, 7 hours, 50 minutes, 25 seconds) ⇱ +18058900903

So true
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Oct 16, 2023 7:57:35 PM Me

Hilarious

Oct 16, 2023 7:57:38 PM Me

TikTok

Oct 16, 2023 7:57:56 PM Me

Radio from New Zealand

Oct 19, 2023 8:21:02 PM (Read by you after 22 minutes, 59 seconds) +18058900903

Made it to Colorado yet?

Oct 19, 2023 8:44:25 PM Me

Not yet, tomorrow for sure

Oct 23, 2023 12:41:09 PM (Read by you after 21 minutes, 26 seconds) +18058900903

How’s Colorado? Rainy season starts here this week, it seems.

Oct 23, 2023 12:48:20 PM (Read by you after 14 minutes, 15 seconds) +18058900903

BTW, I was at a wedding a week ago and I met three other over 50 people who had been laid off or let go. They are getting no bites. Ageism is real. I wish we could prove it.

Oct 30, 2023 9:53:10 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 35 minutes, 58 seconds) +18058900903

Any job bites? Doug Kirkpatrick told me to reach out to my college career center. I thought that might work for you too. I have reached and have a call scheduled later this week. Perhaps you can try this, if you don’t have other options yet.

Oct 30, 2023 12:21:09 PM Me

I just rolled into Ojai late Saturday night and tryouts for soccer start today. The job bites. I’ve had a couple of leads that I’m following up on right now this week one is with yahoo. The other is with a Canadian AI company. So we’ll see what happens. I’m continuing to send out applications, and, sometime this week I’m going to find a part-time gig Ventura maybe. We’ll see I have no idea how the rest of my life is going to unfold

Oct 30, 2023 12:22:07 PM Me

That’s a really good idea about contacting the college office. I’ll look into that today. 😁

Oct 30, 2023 1:01:10 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 27 minutes, 58 seconds) +18058900903

Cool. Hope one of these latest opportunities pans out. The career office thing was a good idea from a smart guy. Did you find a place to live? Cricket and Terry have been no help (focused on other things or just forgetting, who knows). Have you looked at extended stay hotel/motels? Or perhaps a rental in Santa Paula? Probably cheaper than Ojai or Ventura.

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Oct 30, 2023 2:32:56 PM Me

Right now I’m camping in Ventura County Parks. Have to do that until I can find a gig to afford anything around here. Not sure how sustainable that is—but I’m likely to find out 🤣🤣 Havent looked at extended stay places but should. I did find a website that shows rooms for rent—unless a separate entrance and bathroom is no deal—just too weird using a shared bathroom and kitchen with total strangers.

Oct 30, 2023 2:33:05 PM Me

Yeah, Santa Paula is a possibility too.

Oct 30, 2023 3:00:50 PM (Read by you after 10 minutes, 16 seconds) +18058900903

Evan used Facebook and Craigslist. Lots of people looking to add roommates, which is a little different from your situation, but might be worthwhile to consider. I get the sustainability issue. I could only afford about $1K/month if I was on my own with job money. Actually Dallas has lots of places in that range, but I digress. I am sure it is tough to be without a job and watching every $. Have fun at practice today.

Oct 30, 2023 3:11:40 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Will do! Also, saw this today. Might be in your wheelhouse:

Oct 30, 2023 3:11:41 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

https://www.sblandtrust.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/Development-and-Communications-Director-Full-FINAL092223.pdf

Oct 30, 2023 4:58:59 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 5 minutes, 30 seconds) +18058900903

Interesting article:

Oct 30, 2023 4:59:00 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 5 minutes, 29 seconds) +18058900903

Business Insider

Oct 30, 2023 5:11:34 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 52 minutes, 55 seconds) +18058900903

Perhaps a company in one of these places has a remote job.

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Nov 03, 2023 7:10:35 PM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 44 seconds) +18058900903

How did first week of soccer go? Would love to chat Saturday or Sunday and catch up. Has to be after 2:30 your time either day. Let me know.

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Nov 03, 2023 7:10:36 PM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Nov 03, 2023 9:04:33 PM Me

Tomorrow is the last day of tryouts. The freshman gets one more look tomorrow, and we make final roster decisions. The group of boys we have is quite remarkable. There is so much potential in this group, and I can see it now. If the chemistry between them all can work itself out, I think we will have an incredibly positive season. League title is definitely in our sites which would mean automatic CIF qualification. Our first game is nonleague, and will be one week from this upcoming Tuesday. It is a home game so I know it will be streamed online.

Nov 03, 2023 9:05:14 PM Me

How about we plan on connecting Sunday? Tomorrow is the last day of tryouts and it will be somewhat busy day.

Nov 04, 2023 6:46:43 PM (Read by you after 13 hours, 29 minutes, 19 seconds) +18058900903

Tomorrow works. I get off work at 11 your time and should be home around 11:30. Anytime after the will be fine. I will just be watching football. Hope tryouts went OK. Watching CFB right now.

Nov 05, 2023 12:49:53 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 18 seconds) +18058900903

Let me know a good time to chat. I am free for the rest of the day. Molly is at a conference.

Nov 05, 2023 12:52:21 PM Me

Cool. I'm doing laundry then headed for a 4 night stay at Faria Beach. I’ll commute back and forth from there to training

Nov 05, 2023 12:52:48 PM Me

I can try giving you a call on the drive there

Nov 05, 2023 12:52:55 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

Great.

Nov 06, 2023 1:29:28 PM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 53 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, do you have time to chat now? I just got off work and have some time before I have to run errands.

Nov 06, 2023 1:38:49 PM Me

Would 10mins from now work?

Nov 06, 2023 1:39:02 PM Me

Apologies for missing you yesterday

Nov 06, 2023 1:39:16 PM +18058900903

Yes. No worries.

Nov 06, 2023 2:10:39 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 32 seconds) +18058900903

Didn’t know if I was calling or you. Give me a call when you can.

Nov 06, 2023 2:58:43 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 43 minutes, 7 seconds) +18058900903

Free now? I am guessing you have practice soon.

Nov 06, 2023 5:06:47 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 35 minutes, 3 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, this popped up in my feed , perhaps you might find it useful — 📸 Check out this post

Nov 06, 2023 5:06:49 PM +18058900903

https://www.facebook.com/groups/278572542215451/posts/23974650275514345/

Nov 06, 2023 5:07:11 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 34 minutes, 39 seconds) +18058900903

I mean to join Ojai Housing website.

Nov 07, 2023 11:16:24 AM Me

Hey Derick, super apologies the past 48 hours did not go as planned, Everything is all good, but it went catty Wompus for a bit I can give you a call around 2 PM Pacific if that works for you

Nov 07, 2023 12:27:44 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 14 minutes, 51 seconds) +18058900903

That works for me. Talk to you soon.

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Nov 07, 2023 2:43:29 PM Me

More like 2:30 - 3pm slot. Training is at 3:30 and I’ll be driving now.

Nov 07, 2023 2:43:46 PM (Read by you after 22 minutes, 5 seconds) +18058900903

Ok

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Nov 16, 2023 9:22:28 AM (Read by you after 2 hours, 21 minutes, 59 seconds) +18058900903

Saw the game. Too bad you had to ref (to me a while to figure that out). Guys played well except for a few lapses. Thought the goalie had an amazing day

Nov 16, 2023 11:45:10 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Peter was amazing in the goal. Saved a PK! Today we play Nordhoff at the same time and I’ll be on the sidelines this time. Bill Vickery will be in the middle

Nov 16, 2023 11:46:21 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

We’re making some changes based on what we saw Tuesday. Some changes to positions for players and a slightly different formation. 4-1-3-2

Nov 16, 2023 11:47:30 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Read that as: Defensive players, next2 are midfielders—1 holding with defence,and the 3 go forward, last number is forwards

Nov 16, 2023 12:51:28 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 5 minutes, 10 seconds) +18058900903

Good luck today. Is it streaming?

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Nov 16, 2023 1:57:15 PM ⇲ Me

It sure is. Local live. Let me know if you need the link.

Nov 16, 2023 12:52:51 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 3 minutes, 47 seconds) +18058900903

How’s it going otherwise? All good? Job search getting better? Just applied to two jobs today. Both major gifts officers.

Nov 16, 2023 1:57:44 PM ⇲ Me

Nice! Still submitting and rejected

Nov 16, 2023 1:57:15 PM ⇱ Me

It sure is. Local live. Let me know if you need the link.
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Nice! Still submitting and rejected
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Nov 19, 2023 1:47:49 PM (Read by you after 2 minutes, 32 seconds) +18058900903

Hope all is well. Raining here today, so just watching football. Nordhoff team was tough. They are not in your league, correct?

Nov 19, 2023 1:50:46 PM Me

Correct 😅

Nov 19, 2023 1:51:04 PM Me

Darragh told me today on the way to Starbucks “we could absolutely beat them”

Nov 19, 2023 1:51:44 PM Me

Coaches are happy after the first two games despite the score lines. Score line sometimes don’t really tell the tale in soccer.

Nov 19, 2023 1:52:27 PM +18058900903

Seems like you played a lot of people, which is good.

Nov 21, 2023 8:30:06 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Handy for the upcoming holiday 🤣🤣🤣 ￼

Nov 22, 2023 9:28:40 AM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 29 seconds) +18058900903

Yes!

Nov 23, 2023 10:46:38 AM Me

Happy Thanksgiving 🍁

Nov 23, 2023 10:48:05 AM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 7 seconds) +18058900903

Hey. You have a great day too. We are just lounging until dinner.

Nov 23, 2023 10:57:50 AM Me

It's my first homeless and alone holiday in my life. Never thought I would find myself here. A new experience, that's for sure. I miss my kids. I got my turkey last night (attached)

Nov 23, 2023 11:01:07 AM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 3 seconds) +18058900903

Sorry to hear that, but hey, find a good Chinese restaurant and enjoy. I am sure things will improve. Stay strong.

Nov 23, 2023 1:33:23 PM Me

Hard Jarritos !!

Nov 23, 2023 1:35:38 PM Me

Or may I interest you in a box tail? Yes, a cocktail inside a box that you pour out like wine in a box. = 2.5 bottles of wine. $15

Nov 23, 2023 1:59:09 PM (Read by you after 2 minutes, 56 seconds) +18058900903

Looks good. Jarritos seem interesting.

Nov 25, 2023 2:18:17 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

There's An AI For That

Nov 25, 2023 2:27:04 PM (Read by you after 2 minutes, 48 seconds) +18058900903

Wow.

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Nov 25, 2023 2:30:36 PM ⇲ Me

I’ve been building a monster collection of links to tools from a few AI emails I subscribe to, but this just blew that up.

Nov 25, 2023 2:28:23 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 29 seconds) +18058900903

I am going to try it

Nov 25, 2023 2:30:36 PM ⇱ Me

I’ve been building a monster collection of links to tools from a few AI emails I subscribe to, but this just blew that up.
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Nov 25, 2023 2:30:57 PM Me

Dont you love when that happens 🤣

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Nov 29, 2023 9:35:51 PM Me

Hey there, Got hired by UPS peak season team. I start Friday with a day of training on how to deliver and track the packages in the software Then the next day you load your own car and go out and do it on your own. So conceivably by the beginning of next week I should be doing as many hours as I like every day so, I’m looking forward to that. Let me know how things are going

Dec 05, 2023 3:22:49 PM (Read by you after 17 days, 4 hours, 26 minutes, 25 seconds) +18058900903

We are doing well. How is the new gig? Early starts? I hear UPS has a pretty demanding schedule.

Dec 05, 2023 3:22:50 PM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Dec 06, 2023 1:33:36 PM (Read by you after 16 days, 6 hours, 15 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

Checking in. When is a good time to chat?

Dec 06, 2023 1:33:37 PM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Dec 22, 2023 12:06:43 PM (Read by you after 7 hours, 42 minutes, 31 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, we have not chatted in while. How’s it going? Find a job yet?

Dec 22, 2023 12:15:53 PM (Read by you after 7 hours, 33 minutes, 21 seconds) +18058900903

Well, other than UPS, which I assume is still ongoing.

Dec 22, 2023 7:49:36 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

No job yet. 250 applications in. Gobsmacked.

Dec 22, 2023 7:49:54 PM Me

Yeah still doing UPS. Tomorrow may be the last day, not sure.

Dec 24, 2023 10:44:36 AM (Read by you after 3 hours, 58 minutes, 50 seconds) +18058900903

250 is a lot. Keep going. Someone is bound to see your talent.

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Dec 25, 2023 12:34:48 PM Me

Merry Christmas 🎄 from the beach 🏝️

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Dec 25, 2023 12:40:30 PM Me

https://youtu.be/EwzBjBHfDIs?si=o8wZNPeOLDCQW2R2

Dec 25, 2023 12:40:49 PM Me

I’m camping at Faria Beach for the holiday

Dec 25, 2023 1:44:39 PM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 5 seconds) +18058900903

Beach front property. Gotta love it. Still doing the UPS thing? Do you have soccer games right away?

Dec 25, 2023 1:52:35 PM Me

I do enjoy it. Yes on UPS. And games do start right away the week the kids get back. I think nearly every Tuesday and Thursday of January we’ll be playing

Dec 26, 2023 12:39:14 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Happy Boxing Day!

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Dec 27, 2023 1:34:46 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Here is another opportunity I saw:

Dec 27, 2023 1:34:47 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

American Alpine Club

Dec 27, 2023 4:09:45 PM (Read by you after 57 minutes, 52 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks.

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Dec 31, 2023 9:55:53 PM Me

https://youtu.be/14ycMqFysJ0?si=GUgwdeWUR-ZsmVwq

Dec 31, 2023 9:56:17 PM Me

Merry New Year!! Hahahahahahaha

Dec 31, 2023 9:59:33 PM (Read by you after 28 seconds) +18058900903

So good. Thanks. Merry New Year to you as well.

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Dec 31, 2023 9:59:59 PM (Read by you after 2 seconds) +18058900903

Hope you survived the rain and surge.

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Jan 01, 2024 2:51:02 PM (Read by you after 4 minutes, 18 seconds) +18058900903

Speaking of which, the viral videos are crazy. Did you vacate Faria? I hope so. Terry and Cricket went to a NYE party in Ventura and said the beach was in tatters.

Jan 01, 2024 2:56:10 PM Me

Surge was for real but didn’t touch in n out on seaward 🤣

Jan 01, 2024 2:56:26 PM Me

I wasn’t staying at the beach when the surge hit fortunately

Jan 01, 2024 4:33:09 PM (Read by you after 19 hours, 48 minutes, 33 seconds) +18058900903

Funny. Glad you weren’t there. Apparently it was all up and down the coast. 20 foot waves!

Jan 14, 2024 4:36:01 PM (Read by you after 5 days, 4 minutes, 34 seconds) +18058900903

17 degrees in Dallas today. Enjoy the sun.

Jan 15, 2024 6:40:07 PM (Read by you after 3 days, 22 hours, 28 seconds) +18058900903

How he do this?

Jan 15, 2024 6:40:09 PM (Read by you after 3 days, 22 hours, 26 seconds) +18058900903

X (formerly Twitter)

Jan 19, 2024 12:54:46 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 45 minutes, 49 seconds) +18058900903

Just left you a message. Love to catch up. I am around all day today and after 2pm this weekend. Hope all is well.

Jan 19, 2024 4:42:10 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick , Yes let’s catch up this weekend. Things are ok here. Still looking. I did join a Job Search Council, you can see more here: https://www.phyl.org/ I’ll be sure to reach out after 2pm this weekend. We have soccer practice tomorrow at 2pm and I can call you after that. LMK if that works. Say Hi to Molly for me.

Jan 19, 2024 4:42:19 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

https://www.phyl.org/

Jan 19, 2024 4:44:29 PM (Read by you after 2 days, 1 hour, 26 minutes, 2 seconds) +18058900903

Interesting. Yes that timing works tomorrow. I look forward to it.

Jan 21, 2024 3:31:53 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 38 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

Home watching the game if you are free.

Feb 09, 2024 10:35:01 AM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 58 seconds) +18058900903

Got the post on Instagram but wanted to make sure you got the rest—Hey, how’s it going? I’ve tried to connect a few times, but missed you. Give me a call. I am around today.— Also good luck in soccer game today (at least I think it’s today).

Feb 10, 2024 11:29:26 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Hi Derick Apologies for radio silence. I’ve had Covid all week, Since last Sunday. Almost all better, but still have a headache. Imagine you saw that the team lost yesterday. Just wasn’t our day. Really sucks. Still looking for a job, any job. Let me know your schedule. I’m around today and tomorrow.

Feb 10, 2024 12:53:59 PM (Read by you after 5 days, 1 hour, 31 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

No worries. Just got off work. Can I give you a call at 2:15. Or you can let me know a better time.

Feb 10, 2024 8:02:10 PM (Read by you after 4 days, 18 hours, 23 minutes, 27 seconds) +18058900903

Going to bed. Free tomorrow from 11:30 to 3:00 your time

Feb 10, 2024 8:03:16 PM (Read by you after 4 days, 18 hours, 22 minutes, 21 seconds) +18058900903

Love to chat if you have time.

Feb 15, 2024 12:05:25 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 20 minutes, 12 seconds) +18058900903

Home today. Love to catch up on the job and life front. Lost out on two jobs this week, but still got TJ’s.

Feb 18, 2024 10:51:06 PM Me

Hi Derick. Let me know what your schedule is like this week and I’ll reach out.

Feb 19, 2024 3:43:41 AM (Read by you after 6 hours, 25 minutes, 56 seconds) +18058900903

I am free Monday-Wednesday after 12pm your time. I am free all day on Thursday and Friday. Love to catch up.

Feb 19, 2024 10:15:05 AM Me

Ok, perfect. I can call you after 12pm sometime M-W. I’m doing UberEats & DoorDash so I’ll be driving and delivering so I can talk. It’s raining like a MoFo today. I’m in Vta at Starbucks on Telephone Rd by ChuckECheese and its been solid rain for about 12 hours now and supposed to continue. Flood warnings everywhere of course, but I’m dry and cool for now. Looking forward to catching up

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Feb 19, 2024 2:25:20 PM (Read by you after 23 hours, 46 minutes, 40 seconds) +18058900903

Home now if you are free, but no rush.

Feb 20, 2024 1:10:28 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 1 minute, 32 seconds) +18058900903

Home now if you are free, I figure this is the easiest way to let you know.

Feb 20, 2024 2:12:25 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Cool. I’m about to drive to Ventura in about 10 mins. Cool?

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Feb 20, 2024 2:12:38 PM Me

DoorDashing 😊

Feb 20, 2024 2:14:29 PM (Read by you after 50 seconds) +18058900903

Perfect.

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Feb 20, 2024 5:52:40 PM Me

Derick here is the website I mentioned that will create a draft of your resume and cover letter tailored to the job description. I’m using it and its free:

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Feb 20, 2024 5:52:45 PM Me

https://earnbetter.com/

Feb 20, 2024 9:19:00 PM Me

Flo is SOOO good. Sux he died so young

Feb 20, 2024 9:19:04 PM Me

Spotify

Feb 21, 2024 4:47:58 PM (Read by you after 4 hours, 38 minutes, 2 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I sent this via email too, but figured you might see it soon here — Bert, great to connect with you yesterday. Our chat got me thinking about some of the similarities in our situations (at least in terms of work search and life turmoil). I had to dig deep to find resolve as you seem to have done. Nonetheless, I wonder about your desire to stay in the Ventura/Ojai area until Darrgah's graduation. I think you might find some greater personal growth by being in a new (or different) area as I did after our move to Dallas. The most important part of the move was for Jordan and Evan to see me as an adult who was moving on through tough times. I think you need to do something similar for your sons. They need to see you handling this situation and to know that it is hard, but bearable. And, they need to know that one can persevere and thrive. One part of that could be knowing that you have family on which to rely (in turn modeling for them in their future tough times). Your situation may be much different than mine, but when everything was in turmoil, my family (parents, siblings, etc) reached out to let me know they supported me. They also let me know that I needed to SHOW the girls know that one can make it through tough situations. Churchill said, "Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts." It just struck me after our conversation that being in the Ventura/Ojai area may be doing more harm than good to you. Someplace else might provide a more stable living situation and, quite frankly, jobs might be easier to get. I was talking to a manager at Trader Joe's today, who left California for Texas, and he said California is the most competitive market for hiring crew in the nation. He recommended going to places like Utah or Arizona to get hired and then transfer (which Trader Joe's loves to do). He said you can transfer after a couple of months (a few people have done it at my store. Of course, this advice is worth what you paid for it, but you should think deeply about showing the boys what it takes (and means) to be an adult going through tough times, which may be a pivot or two (or three). It will be important for them to know for their own tough times ahead. Sorry if this sounds preachy, but as the Three 6 Mafia said, "It's Hard Out Here." Chat soon. Keep Strong.

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Feb 21, 2024 9:28:23 PM Me

Thanks for that.

Feb 21, 2024 9:48:31 PM Me

I want to think about what you wrote. The boys have seen and heard me struggling my way through all of this. 3 major life stressors simultaneously: divorce, unemployment, homelessness. Ive been a digital nomad for nearly 20 years, and come May it will be a year of being an unemployed nomad crossing the country, sleeping in my VW golf in Walmart parking lots in Utah, Nebraska, Iowa, Indiana and Ohio. Plus camping and the national parks. It’s sad on one level because I had this year of travel and the entire time I’ve been stressed the fuck out. I’ve done a shit ton of meditation and learned how to be still and thoughtless for long periods of time. I’m now shifting from living my life entirely from my head, with thinking , to living from the heart, with feeling. For example, the questions “What are you FEELING” vs “What are you THINKING” Are vastly different things. I was never taught how to go through or sit with them. “Be quiet” “stop your nonsense” “sit down, don’t move and be quiet” and “children are to be seen and not heard” THATS what I heard as far back as I can remember. I disassociated from my feelings at times, but otherwise I was thinking and reacting to feelings creating stories, and living my life from a strange place. Reactionary, hyper vigilant awareness and ability to get VERY small to be in the background and not be seen, heard or noticed—anything else was a threat to my existence as a kid. Anyhow time to go throw some practice 🎯 before tomorrow nights match. My darts have been on hiatus until 3 weeks ago. Still getting the rust out of my throw 😁

Feb 22, 2024 9:18:31 AM (Read by you after 12 minutes, 20 seconds) +18058900903

I hope darts went well. As I wrote, it was just some thoughts that were percolating after our chat. And, thanks for your response. If you will allow, your response also prompted some more thoughts to me I want to focus on your sense of homelessness (as the others are somewhat out of your control). As you suggest, there has been something freeing about travelling around and leading a nomadic life, but it has also caused real stress. I feel you. Molly and I were living for months in Bobby and Amy’s house and while it was not your situation, we certainly felt discombobulated with the added complications of no job for me and Molly’s paycheck not starting until September. Much of that was relieved. when we found our current place. It added stability that allowed me to refocus on my job search. I guess that was what I was trying to offer – you suggest that you are homeless, but you have your parents and your cousin at least who are willing to house you, which would allow you some stability (I am guessing that you can do Door Dash and/or UberEATS in those places) and that stability would in turn allow you to concentrate all of your efforts on job hunting, which you have said the highest priority. I agree. Still, more importantly, I think it allows your children to see that you can rely on family to get you through tough times. While, there is something noble in the hustle of making ends meet, is that the model you want to give to them? To clarify, I think you would want them to come to you (or Liz) for help in any of the situations you are in. I had to think long and hard about how my children would perceive my response to my situation. I am sure you are thinking about that too, and my thought was that perhaps another perspective would allow you to see that freeing yourself from the area of much of your pain MIGHT be more freeing than you can imagine. AND, it might be might be a model for your children to emulate. Again, deep thoughts from Jack Handy (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Pye-uhP9RE) is worth what you pay for it, but I have (as you have) had a lot of time to think about my situation, and I am hopeful that my perspective offers you an alternative view. Of course, it is your life and decisions, so do want you must, and still be open to all the options. Chat soon. Going to trivia night tonight.

Feb 29, 2024 8:29:15 AM (Read by you after 54 minutes, 45 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I got some love from EarnBetter apps. We shall see.

Feb 29, 2024 8:30:30 AM (Read by you after 53 minutes, 30 seconds) +18058900903

Did you hear back from Microsoft recruiter?

Feb 29, 2024 9:25:32 AM Me

Great to hear about EarnBetter. Have not heard back from Microsoft. However was contacted directly from a State of CA recruiter on LI. She said that I matched up really well with a particular role and I should apply. 5 hours later I have the app in and waiting to hear about an interview call around March 11th. We’ll see!

Mar 01, 2024 3:18:41 PM Me

Derick Happy Friday! Here’s some Friday funny as hell Tom Segura:

Mar 01, 2024 3:18:42 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

YouTube

Mar 01, 2024 3:19:03 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Under 5 mins

Mar 01, 2024 7:36:51 PM Me

YouTube

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Mar 02, 2024 5:49:28 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 42 minutes, 57 seconds) +18058900903

So good

Mar 02, 2024 8:33:09 PM Me

Every time I pull up YouTube app they’re feeding me every damn homie that’s ever done the c walk

Mar 02, 2024 8:34:59 PM Me

Another…

Mar 02, 2024 8:35:02 PM Me

YouTube

Mar 04, 2024 2:27:38 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

This 🤣 ￼

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Mar 07, 2024 2:08:47 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick I drafted this crazy personal editorial and thinking of publishing on LinkedIn. As a master of the language we use I wonder if you wouldn’t mind giving it your critical eye. With this link you can comment:

Mar 07, 2024 2:08:49 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Google Docs

Mar 07, 2024 2:09:34 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

I’m wanting to make sure I’m not sounding like the whiney white guy 🤣🤣🤣

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Mar 07, 2024 2:13:41 PM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 3 seconds) +18058900903

Will do when I get home.

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Mar 07, 2024 2:16:49 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Mar 08, 2024 6:45:04 AM (Read by you after 8 hours, 51 minutes, 47 seconds) +18058900903

I wrote some comments on your essay. It’s probably easier if we chat. I am around all day as I don’t have to go to work.

Mar 08, 2024 3:38:05 PM Me

Thanks Derick! Today has unfolded in a way that is eternally frustrating. Just having a VERY hard day dealing with companies and shit that shouldn’t be happening. Are you free over the weekend maybe?

Mar 08, 2024 3:38:05 PM (Read by you after 2 seconds) +18058900903

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Mar 08, 2024 3:59:37 PM Me

FYI, I just looked over your comments. You are SO GOOD!!! Damn. Yeah, prob best to talk about what I’m trying to say. LMK about this weekend.

Mar 08, 2024 4:04:12 PM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 18 seconds) +18058900903

I am free after 2PT on Saturday and after 1PT on Sunday.

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Mar 11, 2024 11:36:05 AM Me

Sorry to miss you this weekend. Had unexpected things but all good You around today or tomorrow?

Mar 11, 2024 12:20:10 PM (Read by you after 20 minutes, 46 seconds) +18058900903

I will be home after noon your time today and tomorrow. Today is a bit better for me, but no worries.

Mar 11, 2024 12:41:10 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Cool.

Mar 12, 2024 12:37:38 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 33 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I got home early today. I am free now if you are. Or just give me a call when you’re ready.

Mar 12, 2024 2:11:45 PM Me

Hey, i’m not sure if you know, but I just found out that Sallie passed away this morning. Liz just texted me about it. I imagine she’s pretty shook.

Mar 12, 2024 2:13:00 PM (Read by you after 17 minutes, 3 seconds) +18058900903

I had not heard. Thanks for letting us know.

Mar 15, 2024 3:06:55 PM Me

This is for real

Mar 15, 2024 3:07:01 PM Me

As seen in Vons

Mar 15, 2024 3:07:07 PM Me

Mar 15, 2024 3:07:33 PM Me

A damn VARIETY PACK??

Mar 15, 2024 3:07:38 PM Me

Mar 15, 2024 3:08:24 PM Me

I did a quadruple take on that

Mar 18, 2024 5:10:49 PM (Read by you after 3 minutes, 14 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I just called. I want to know if Thursday’s scheduled call is professional or personal or both. In addition, we have not talked about your blog. Happy to do so or to not do so. I hope all is well.

Mar 18, 2024 5:42:40 PM Me

Yeah, third stays call is personal and professional. I had one today with cherry Holden and we obviously talked about kids and updated on life and stuff and then got into the stuff I wanted to talk about so I imagine it will flow like that. Yeah, the article thing you’re right I’m mixing up two ideas and let me see if I can separate them better and pull one out to its own thing and Send you an update

Mar 21, 2024 11:27:50 AM Me

Hey Derick for our meetup I’m sharing my two pager for reference. Its designed to help me unearth opportunities I may not be thinking about.

Mar 21, 2024 11:27:51 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Bert Mahoney's Notion on Notion

Mar 21, 2024 11:28:02 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I think it will make sense when you look at it

Mar 21, 2024 12:00:52 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I’m in a zoom meeting. I emailed you the link

Mar 21, 2024 12:01:18 PM Me

I used zoom instead of hangouts with Jerry Holden and it was MUCH better and stable.

Mar 21, 2024 12:01:32 PM +18058900903

Ok

Mar 21, 2024 12:03:40 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 14 minutes, 26 seconds) +18058900903

I am on. Can you hear me

Mar 25, 2024 2:06:51 PM Me

This is CRAZY good

Mar 25, 2024 2:07:34 PM Me

His moves sync to the song, and he’s good

Mar 25, 2024 2:07:37 PM Me

YouTube

Mar 25, 2024 2:07:55 PM Me

Ppl in vid going crazy

Mar 25, 2024 3:56:06 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 57 minutes, 34 seconds) +18058900903

Wow. So good.

Mar 25, 2024 6:53:44 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Right?

Mar 25, 2024 6:53:48 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I was stunned

Mar 25, 2024 6:55:11 PM (Read by you after 17 minutes, 24 seconds) +18058900903

I might pull something if I tried that.

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Apr 07, 2024 6:11:09 PM Me

Hola 👋 Hope all is well Want to share “OMA” from Manchester England with you. Listen close.

Apr 07, 2024 6:11:13 PM Me

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Apr 07, 2024 6:12:41 PM Me

Hire them for when Jordan or Evan get married

Apr 07, 2024 6:13:22 PM Me

Love this

Apr 07, 2024 6:27:15 PM Me

YouTube

Apr 07, 2024 6:29:00 PM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Apr 09, 2024 8:03:04 PM Me

This is next level. Watch whole clip.

Apr 09, 2024 8:03:06 PM Me

YouTube

Apr 10, 2024 5:32:30 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Interesting

Apr 10, 2024 5:32:50 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Seth's Blog

Apr 12, 2024 8:08:29 AM (Read by you after 22 minutes, 24 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I have today off. Let’s catch up. I will try to give you a call. I want to hear about how your job search group is going.

Apr 14, 2024 3:55:10 PM (Read by you after 18 hours, 30 minutes, 48 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, how’s it going? I hope you are well.

Apr 15, 2024 11:13:11 AM (Read by them after 5 seconds) Me

Hey Derick, it’s going. I keep waking up each morning and feel like I’m experiencing the same thing. Feeling like a boondoggled laggard. 🤣🤣🤣

Apr 15, 2024 11:14:10 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I could catch up tomorrow. Need to get my taxes in today being true to form as a laggard 🤣🤣

Apr 15, 2024 1:00:38 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 58 minutes, 39 seconds) +18058900903

True. I am free after noon your time tomorrow. I will try you then.

Apr 16, 2024 3:06:06 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 9 hours, 2 minutes, 4 seconds) +18058900903

Just tried to call. Give me a call. Just doing some cleaning.

Apr 18, 2024 12:09:37 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hi Derick apologies for being a laggard once again. I’ve had a hard week — depression is pushing down on me HARD again. It was a challenge to do anything productive other than just exist yesterday and today.

Apr 18, 2024 12:14:58 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Fortunately I’m in sessions again with my therapist and I just found a new person in Ojai who I am going to get a consult with. At this point I’m ready to sign up for Mushroom micro-dosing to see if that will help. Some people have what is termed “treatment resistant depression” and this past week I discovered a new medical term for someone who has my soup of things. Dysthymia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dysthymia I didnt know it existed as a term, let alone be in the DSM-IV. It states a persistent state of mild depression for 2 years. I can confidently say I’ve been going since 2018 with episodes of intense Major Depressive disorder.

Apr 18, 2024 12:15:19 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

It’s all No Bueno. But I’m here and still alive, go figure

Apr 18, 2024 12:16:46 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

And I know I’ve had depression in some form since childhood, and definitely during teen years, but totally untreated. I did have a legit suicide attempt at 16.

Apr 18, 2024 12:17:10 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

And another in 2014

Apr 18, 2024 12:17:23 AM Me

Almost 30 years later

Apr 18, 2024 6:18:33 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 9 minutes, 43 seconds) +18058900903

Well, sorry to hear that it’s been rough going. I am around today, if you are up for a chat. I will just be doing chores. Keep pushing through.

Apr 18, 2024 12:50:49 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 1 hour, 36 minutes, 8 seconds) +18058900903

Is now a good time to call?

Apr 19, 2024 2:29:54 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey there. I can try calling you later this afternoon if you’re free. Sorry to miss you. Been busy pushing on my Never Search Alone work. I have a new Candidate Market Fit Statement and have rewritten my About / Summary for LinkedIn and my group is reviewing it now. Its helped me get more focused and clear on what I want, now lets see if it helps me get traction.

Apr 19, 2024 2:30:45 PM (Read by you after 10 seconds) +18058900903

I am around. Give me a call when you can.

Apr 25, 2024 10:02:43 AM (Read by you after 2 days, 19 minutes, 27 seconds) +18058900903

Free today if you want to chat.

Apr 27, 2024 10:22:47 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick, you free today? I’ll be driving to Ventura in a couple of hours and could call on the drive. LMK I hope all is well.

Apr 27, 2024 11:32:52 AM (Read by you after 9 minutes, 28 seconds) +18058900903

I am at work until. 2 your time. Free after that if that works for you.

Apr 27, 2024 11:42:23 AM Me

Ok

Apr 29, 2024 1:07:03 PM (Read by you after 20 minutes, 58 seconds) +18058900903

Free this afternoon if you are.

Apr 29, 2024 1:29:09 PM Me

Hey, that actually might work. I am at storage right now and getting stuff switched out of the car then headed to the laundromat next to Starbucks. Spend the afternoon doing laundry and more work. Still lots to do I can fill you in when I call which Should be shortly

Apr 29, 2024 1:32:22 PM Me

100,000 ft Things still 💩 But no longer hiding it when asked. No masking, not looking for pity, empathy or sympathy, straight forward reality spoken truly. I’ve masked myself my entire life. Makes you wonder why one has never been honest with themselves

Apr 29, 2024 1:32:47 PM Me

Fear of rejection

Apr 29, 2024 1:39:04 PM (Read by you after 25 seconds) +18058900903

Look forward to chatting.

May 05, 2024 6:55:40 PM Me

https://www.linkedin.com/jobs/view/major-gifts-and-campaign-manager-at-stevenson-school-3901892242

May 05, 2024 6:55:40 PM Me

Check out this job at Stevenson School: Major Gifts and Campaign Manager

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May 10, 2024 2:30:40 PM (Read by you after 13 minutes, 2 seconds) +18058900903

Hope all is well. Did you submit your resume to any places that your work that you have been doing let you to? I am interested to see what leads it generates.

May 15, 2024 6:45:25 PM (Read by you after 54 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

Got your email about your new approach? Love to hear how it’s working or what you expect. I am off tomorrow so I am free most of the day.

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May 15, 2024 6:45:47 PM (Read by you after 54 minutes, 16 seconds) +18058900903

Didn’t mean question mark after approach

May 15, 2024 7:41:08 PM Me

Cool. I have my meeting in the morning for the group so I could call after that

May 15, 2024 7:42:07 PM (Read by you after 15 hours, 10 minutes, 54 seconds) +18058900903

Sure. I will be here.

May 15, 2024 7:42:08 PM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

May 17, 2024 7:03:58 AM (Read by you after 4 hours, 5 minutes, 27 seconds) +18058900903

Around today too.

May 17, 2024 11:09:54 AM Me

Cool. Yesterday got away from me

May 17, 2024 11:10:07 AM Me

And meetings got changed

May 17, 2024 11:10:52 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

No worries I am just hanging.

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May 17, 2024 11:17:13 PM Me

Derick, I’m sorry I missed you today. I had a stressful day over here, but it’s all good. I’m still alive.🤣🤣 Let me know if you have any free time tomorrow. I’m doing some DoorDash and late around dinner time but early in the day. I’ll be at Starbucks on the laptop and could step out for a call, and I would love to.

May 17, 2024 11:17:37 PM Me

I was listening to Grand Puba tonight and saw he’s at the Hollywood casino with Black Sheep

May 17, 2024 11:17:39 PM Me

Spotify

May 17, 2024 11:18:27 PM Me

5th of July Derick and the Hollywood Casino is not too far from LAX 🤣🤣

May 18, 2024 6:21:30 AM (Read by you after 5 hours, 58 minutes, 21 seconds) +18058900903

That should work. I am free after 2:30pm your time. Enjoy your day.

May 20, 2024 9:27:07 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick, you free anytime today? Later this afternoon?

May 20, 2024 10:50:10 AM (Read by you after 48 minutes, 6 seconds) +18058900903

I am free at about noon your time. That’s a great time to connect for me because I have workers coming later though I am sure I can chat while they are there.

May 20, 2024 1:46:36 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 6 hours, 53 minutes, 45 seconds) +18058900903

I am free whenever. Worker will be coming and going.

May 21, 2024 7:50:46 PM (Read by you after 49 minutes, 35 seconds) +18058900903

Let me know when you’re free tomorrow after noon your time. Love to chat. Actually free now but watching bball

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May 21, 2024 8:44:58 PM Me

Will do. I have been busy and distracted and DoorDash ashing so I can eat 🤣 I’ve been working on multiple art projects that go into areas. I’ve never worked in before like video and storytelling. And I’ve got a lot of Darts to finish before the end of the month with my dart team. Playing make up games. I ended up making the bee team for state shootout for Ventura County. So at the time of the state shootout, I was ranked 15th in the county. Back of my shirt attached 😝

May 21, 2024 8:45:34 PM Me

I’ve met some real characters playing darts. People that love their pints and love their darts.

May 30, 2024 10:38:47 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hi Derick I’ve had my parents and Aunt Pat in town for 3 days now. Been super busy with graduation happening this Saturday morning. They apparently have it next to the new dining hall now — that will be interesting. I may have time to call later today or tomorrow if you’re free. Let me know

May 30, 2024 10:39:13 AM Me

Also, saw this opportunity and might be something you’re interested in:

May 30, 2024 10:39:17 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

https://potrerogroup.com/executive-search/outward-bound-california-executive-director-1

May 30, 2024 10:43:11 AM (Read by you after 14 minutes, 48 seconds) +18058900903

I am around today and tomorrow, though I may step out to a movie tomorrow. So if you have time today that would be great. But tomorrow has potential too.

Jun 03, 2024 9:38:24 AM (Read by you after 6 hours, 3 minutes, 5 seconds) +18058900903

How was graduation? We saw pictures. Jordan was there

Jun 03, 2024 3:46:42 PM (Read by them after 3 seconds) Me

It was great as you can imagine and have experienced yourself. :-) Got to see Jordan and catch up, and she was able to talk with all the boys — it was great to see them all connect again. I have lots of pictures. I’ll attach this one that my mom took. Just back from SBA dropping off my Aunt Pat, and my parents departed this morning. I’m typing on my laptop from Starbucks in Ventura back on the job hunt, full tilt 😊 still unable to find traction anywhere. So weird. ￼

Jun 03, 2024 3:47:21 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

He’s clearly taller than me now. I like being the short one when I’m with all 3 of them.

Jun 14, 2024 10:13:48 AM (Read by you after 7 minutes, 20 seconds) +18058900903

How’s the job search going?

Jun 14, 2024 10:21:31 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

OMG, how fortuitous you texted me. Did you feel a disturbance in the force?

Jun 14, 2024 10:23:06 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I interviewed with Hilton Corporate HR today for a Lead User Experience Designer role that would lead all Mobile Design initiatives. Its a NEW role, not a refill.

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Jun 14, 2024 10:24:10 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I’ll hear back from them by EOD Monday if the VP of Design wants to interview me. I’m optimistic but there are over 400 applicants (told me)

Jun 14, 2024 10:25:20 AM Me

Interview went as expected. I have what they need so in my mind it will be a stylistic choice.

Jun 14, 2024 10:27:38 AM Me

Also, waiting to hear back from a company that matches my Candidate Market Fit statement. Would be the main designer under the Chief Product Officer. I’ll know by end of next week if they want to interview me. This is a TOP choice for me — truly ideal role. Love the size, easy to pivot and make decisions, lots of responsibility and impact, fun + smart people to work with.

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Jun 14, 2024 10:27:39 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Product Designer

Jun 14, 2024 10:27:46 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Plus that name… Butter

Jun 14, 2024 10:28:28 AM Me

Going to send out an email update today, thanks for helping me draft it 🤣🤣🤣

Jun 14, 2024 10:28:44 AM Me

Send me your invoice 🤣🤣🤣

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Jul 01, 2024 7:01:53 PM (Read by you after 16 hours, 45 seconds) +18058900903

Any job news? Hilton? Butter?

Jul 01, 2024 7:01:55 PM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Jul 02, 2024 8:08:35 AM (Read by you after 2 hours, 54 minutes, 3 seconds) +18058900903

Bumping up: Any job news? Hilton? Butter?

Jul 02, 2024 11:08:24 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hi Derick ! No on Hilton. I interviewed but no luck. They moved like lightning, and they wanted someone to focus SOLELY on the mobile app. Butter, same thing, but I didnt even get an interview. Was surprising and seems like ageism honestly. Got a ‘thanks but no thanks’ email from them Beginning to think ageism / perceived intimidation??? Not sure.

Jul 02, 2024 11:08:49 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

No matter. Have refocused entire LI headline and About section. Now entirely value-driven. Also, looking at my website as if it was an outside project. The problem is, “how to stand out in the sea of sameness” 99.5% of designers websites are essentially the same. They follow a predicable pattern and format. So, question is how could this website be different from others?

Jul 02, 2024 11:12:11 AM Me

My strategy is to take 5 words to help visitors identify themselves through their visit. Each word has its own full page panel, so think 5 stacked full pages you scroll down. As you scroll down you will self-identify, and if you do discover that I may be able to help you. I’ve been working with AI to develop strategy and content based on exchange of ideas. Working on it this week and hope to have it online sometime during the 4th of July.

Jul 02, 2024 11:12:18 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

How are you and Molly?

Jul 02, 2024 11:12:54 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Imagine things are heating up for summer. They are here! Was 100 according to car temp a few days ago.

Jul 02, 2024 11:13:50 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Ps. You should start tuning into EURO’s. Headed to QF’s and matchups are getting good. France v Portugal (Ronaldo) on Friday

Jul 02, 2024 8:12:54 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 3 minutes, 1 second) +18058900903

We are doing fine. Just started reaching 100 degrees here. Sorry to hear about jobs. Nonetheless, your strategy sounds interesting. Hope it pays off. Have you thought about smaller jobs like doing local businesses sites? Most of the ones in Ojai suck. There might be more opportunities in Oxnard and Ventura. Doesn’t solve all the issues but may keep you sharp.

Jul 11, 2024 6:17:13 PM (Read by you after 19 minutes, 25 seconds) +18058900903

Hey just saw on LinkedIn that you have a job at darts association. Congrats! Work and fun!

Jul 13, 2024 12:35:37 PM Me

Spotify

Aug 05, 2024 3:53:50 PM (Read by you after 5 seconds) +18058900903

How the job hunt going? I saw darts gig is volunteer.

Aug 05, 2024 3:54:35 PM Me

| Yeah. And I came in second place with my partner in yesterday’s monthly open dart tournament. We lost in the final by a couple of throws. And I hit some royal big numbers in the last game. We were playing against the number two guy and all of Ventura County so
Edited 19 seconds later | Yeah. And I came in second place with my partner in yesterday’s monthly open dart tournament. We lost in the final by a couple of throws. And I hit some royal big numbers in the last game. We were playing against the number two guy in all of Ventura County so

Aug 05, 2024 3:55:39 PM Me

Job search is still going. I have found a couple of things I recently applied to that. I’m a strong match for I’ve also figured out a way to search for jobs not listed on LinkedIn. I have a custom Google search I’ve organized. I’m happy to share it with you because you could use it for what you’re looking for. These are all the big job boards online.

Aug 05, 2024 3:56:04 PM Me

All you would need to do is quick tweak a couple of variables and you paste it into Google and then the results are job listings

Aug 05, 2024 3:56:21 PM Me

I’ll email it your way

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Aug 05, 2024 3:57:30 PM Me

The other thing is I keep reading and thinking about differentiating myself in what I call the “sea of sameness” that is out there. Designers websites largely follow a pattern that is very predictable down to the words that use and the phrases.

Aug 05, 2024 3:59:35 PM Me

So to that end, I’ve been going back-and-forth with AI about how to develop a strategy for who I’m targeting, or rather who is visiting. It’s no mystery that anyone coming to look at my site is checking out my work so that or you’re some Rando. So there are five words that are a essentially a sales strategy I read about and it helps you frame your offering product whatever the hell it is you’re trying to put out there. I’ll send you that link to. It was originally I believe a sales article but it’s more about marketing.

Aug 05, 2024 4:00:38 PM Me

So for the five words, I have five phrases for each word and they pose questions to the visitor and hypotheticals like… “your shit would be so easy if you hired me” 🤣🤣

Aug 05, 2024 4:01:11 PM Me

K Getting online now.

Aug 05, 2024 4:01:44 PM (Read by you after 31 minutes, 45 seconds) +18058900903

Sounds cool.

Aug 05, 2024 4:42:33 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 4 minutes, 11 seconds) +18058900903

Hey I realized we have not caught up on the phone in a while. Will you have time to chat this weekend?

Aug 06, 2024 8:14:12 AM Me

Yeah, for sure. It’s interesting I’m kind of getting to this point where if it tips over I drop a few levels. Another words lose my car and end up on the street. I’m pretty close let’s put it that way. I’m doing what I can to stay off the street, however sometimes hard work and best efforts don’t get to the other side. I’m very much in the mindset of acceptance now. Things suck but I have to accept my situation. If not I spend every waking minute crying and unable to do anything because I’m frozen in fear. i’ve had a few credit card companies charge off some cards because I can’t give people money I don’t have. I’ve had my phone shut off a couple of times because of payments and have been able to get it turned back on but I know I could lose my phone, that’s a reality I try to wrap my head around. I’m also a couple of car payments behind and if I can’t make that up they’ll take my car away and then I am homeless on the street. at that point pretty much I lose touch with everybody. So I am trying to live that Thacher motto “prepare for the worst and hope for the best ”

Aug 06, 2024 8:14:25 AM Me

🙂

Aug 06, 2024 8:16:44 AM Me

I live in 24 hour survival cycles to get through the day and find somewhere to park on the street at night. If I try real hard I can maybe plan out 48 hours ahead but otherwise I’d literally live day-to-day.

Aug 06, 2024 8:17:03 AM Me

One day at a time

Aug 06, 2024 10:38:54 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick Didnt forget about emailing you the info from yesterday. Just sent. Had a hard time finding the article but its in there. Have a good day!

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Aug 07, 2024 1:04:40 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick quick question for you as a student of the English language and communication. Would you find it odd IF my website were written in 3rd person instead of first person? I’m wondering if that shift is ok, or will it confuse people?

Aug 07, 2024 2:06:07 PM (Read by you after 25 minutes, 54 seconds) +18058900903

I think there has to be a purpose to it. In most cases, it does not make sense. A resume is emphasizing the candidate. Third person (or omniscient narrator) emphasizes multiple points of view or interior thoughts of various characters.

Aug 07, 2024 2:32:25 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

oh wow. I’ve never heard it explained that way. Super insightful

Aug 08, 2024 12:21:06 AM Me

YouTube

Aug 08, 2024 12:21:06 AM Me

🤣🤣🤣

Aug 08, 2024 12:21:40 AM Me

Sweater and gold chain 🔥🔥🔥

Aug 10, 2024 9:01:44 PM (Read by you after 21 hours, 56 minutes, 38 seconds) +18058900903

Catch up via phone tomorrow?

Aug 11, 2024 7:01:08 PM Me

hey there Derick, let’s connect either tomorrow or Tuesday let me know what day works better for you. I have some stuff coming up and I’ve made a few key decisions that I hope move me forward. Excited to share with you what’s up

Aug 11, 2024 7:01:11 PM Me

YouTube

Aug 11, 2024 7:02:13 PM (Read by you after 14 hours, 15 minutes, 27 seconds) +18058900903

Tomorrow works. I am free after 11am your time. I can give you a call then.

Aug 12, 2024 9:18:19 AM Me

Microwave Man!! I love the goddamn Internet 🤣🤣🤣 It gives us beautiful things like this.

Aug 12, 2024 9:18:21 AM Me

Instagram

Aug 12, 2024 9:19:00 AM Me

This was the first thing I saw this morning, microwave man 🤣

Aug 18, 2024 9:33:45 PM (Read by you after 11 minutes, 19 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I hope all is well. I have been thinking about our recent conversation and my ongoing interaction with the homeless recovery center. One of their consistent mantras is framing. As we talked about the Stockdale Paradox is prominent, “face the brutality of your situation, but hold out hope.” I think you are framing your situation as joblessness instead of homelessness. This suggests that your energies are directed towards employment. The literature suggests that you should focus on finding a stable living environment. In my mind, go to Colorado or New York to be housed, and then your job search will flourish. The literature suggests homes make you your best self. My advice — leave Ojai; find your “home” and you will flourish. Keep the faith. Ojai/Ventura is hindering your progress. Go somewhere else. The literature says it will work.

Aug 18, 2024 9:48:19 PM Me

I agree. Right now I have things moving in Colorado direction. I have a place to stay with my cousin and her husband. Working on getting the car ready while I'm here in the house this week. I have two new tires shipping tomorrow which should get here by Wednesday I’ll take them to America’s tire here in Ventura and have them installed by the end of the week. The only thing on my mind are breaks and just a general look over by the dealer

Aug 18, 2024 9:49:05 PM Me

Without going like an absolute madman I can drive from Ojai to Colorado from a Monday to Friday. That gives me time to charge and to not drive 12 hours a day

Aug 24, 2024 9:14:36 AM Me

YouTube

Aug 24, 2024 3:55:53 PM (Read by you after 31 minutes, 17 seconds) +18058900903

Too much.

Aug 29, 2024 9:11:43 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

wondering if you’d like to catch up sometime soon?

Aug 29, 2024 9:36:58 AM (Read by you after 8 seconds) +18058900903

Sure. I am in Oregon right now at a family thing, but I will have e some time on Saturday as I am traveling back to Dallas. Any job news? On the way to Colorado? I am a finalist for rehousing non profit we shall see.

Aug 29, 2024 6:41:49 PM Me

No job news other Than a cannabis industry company contacted me about business development and marketing online for their business. They are based in Glenwood Springs which is Carbondale where I already stayed last summer. Waiting to have a phone call with him. Also talking to this guy in the UK next week but it’s more like a professional development feedback thing. And there’s part of it I am actually not clear on which I know will come when I’m there

Aug 31, 2024 5:46:34 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 48 seconds) +18058900903

Just tried to call you. I am around tonight and tomorrow after 11:30 your time.

Aug 31, 2024 5:49:14 PM Me

ok, cool, thanks. I’ll call soon

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Sep 01, 2024 2:21:37 PM (Read by you after 9 seconds) +18058900903

Hey just tried to call. I am free until 3:30 your time and then I busy for a while, but will probably be back in pocket around 6:30 your time. We can also catch up tomorrow after 11:30 your time.

Sep 01, 2024 2:21:56 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Ok cool

Sep 01, 2024 2:26:15 PM Me

Head down on significant website improvements. Efficient Effective Elegant Exactly what my target audience wants to see and experience. Going to deliver it. Use some Ai Write a blog post about it Record a video walking/talking through improvements. Push/Publish to YouTube Embed video in blog Post. Then share it all on LinkedIn I know it will get designer eyes And then maybe someone will see that I know my shit and throw me a bone 🦴

Sep 01, 2024 2:26:33 PM Me

Take my own website through exactly what I would do for them

Sep 01, 2024 2:27:23 PM Me

People are always nagging about “I need to know how you think, I need to see a bit of your process and how you go about things“ this will deliver that

Sep 01, 2024 2:29:40 PM Me

It’s the big gap of unknown for somebody hiring a creative person. They see a portfolio but that’s a slideshow big deal. Can you stand up in the room full of people you don’t know talk about your shit so it makes sense to everybody in the room even people that aren’t designers. There are not a lot of designers that can do that, or do it well. Not only do I do it well I make it relatable because I’m always searching for some sort of analogy to my target audience so they get the moment really fast and I get there buy in and then they trust me and the decisions I make and where I lead them.

Sep 02, 2024 12:45:05 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Any free time today?

Sep 02, 2024 12:45:54 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

Sure. I will be home in about 15 minutes. I will give you a call then.

Sep 02, 2024 12:47:01 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I was hoping to call in a few hours. I’m in Vta and headed to Ojai Hoping to call then

Sep 02, 2024 12:47:34 PM +18058900903

Sure. I should be around.

Sep 02, 2024 12:47:49 PM Me

Cool 👍

Sep 03, 2024 10:27:09 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Tonight while practicing Darts. It’s rare for a non-pro I’ve only done it one other time in my life and I’ve thrown Darts for 30 years

Sep 04, 2024 7:04:45 AM (Read by you after 24 minutes, 2 seconds) +18058900903

Nice. Hit one bullseye ever

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Sep 04, 2024 8:31:58 PM Me

Check this tat 🤣🤣🤣

Sep 04, 2024 8:31:59 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

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Sep 06, 2024 10:56:06 AM (Read by you after 28 minutes, 50 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, missed out on Homeless recovery job. They wanted someone with deeper Dallas roots. How is your Colorado job process?

Sep 06, 2024 10:56:08 AM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Sep 08, 2024 2:39:02 AM (Read by you after 6 hours, 9 minutes, 36 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, missed out on Homeless recovery job. They wanted someone with deeper Dallas roots. How is your Colorado job process?

Sep 08, 2024 8:49:21 AM Me

Finally heard back yesterday after waiting to hear all week. Were talking on Mon/Tue Just waiting to confirm

Sep 08, 2024 8:49:39 AM Me

Sorry about that job getting away from you just gotta keep applying to things that fit

Sep 14, 2024 12:08:18 AM Me

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Sep 14, 2024 3:27:42 AM (Read by you after 5 hours, 7 minutes, 22 seconds) +18058900903

Wow.

Sep 14, 2024 11:12:04 AM Me

Right! That's why she has one name. Showing why that name is on the marquee 😁 Reminds me of old MJ, not this one 🏀, in videos leaked from his tour prep and practice. His dancing in those clips are some of the best recorded moves he left behind. Its like anything. There are those that are good, and then there are the extraterrestrials 🤣🤣🤣

Sep 14, 2024 11:12:36 AM Me

👽🛸

Sep 14, 2024 11:15:03 AM Me

Had a great interview with biz in Carbondale CO this week. Sent him additional design samples and made my pitch. I feel it’s the best conversation I’ve had with any prospect since I started looking 17mos ago

Sep 14, 2024 11:15:41 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

He replied to my design samples and said he would be making a decision this weekend and would let me know Mon or Tues.

Sep 14, 2024 11:15:48 AM Me

🙏

Sep 14, 2024 11:22:24 AM Me

I feel its a perfect gig to kickstart things off for me. If things were to go well and was enjoying the work and the people… I’m in the Rockies 30 mins from Aspen and Woody Creek (Hunter S.)… All the hiking and camping I could want. Wouldn’t be a bad place to spend time.

Sep 14, 2024 11:22:28 AM Me

We’ll see.

Sep 14, 2024 11:23:03 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

If I’ve learned anything its Prepare for the worst Hope for the best

Sep 14, 2024 11:23:25 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Been doing that for years now — works well.

Sep 14, 2024 11:57:31 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

- Wow. Just opened and read this daily email from one of my meditation teachers. “ The end of the difficult hike will bring you to a beautiful place. Be patient and keep walking. " — how can I NOT read into that message?!?! Hiking!?!?! Could have put any other activity in there, but its one of the top things I love to do in this existence, and I’ve lived those hiking moments.

Sep 14, 2024 11:57:37 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

👀 👀 👀

Sep 14, 2024 12:15:47 PM (Read by you after 2 minutes, 13 seconds) +18058900903

Sounds like good vibes in the air. Good luck.

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Sep 14, 2024 12:19:27 PM (Read by you after 13 seconds) +18058900903

Is Carbondale near where your cousin lives?

Sep 14, 2024 12:19:50 PM Me

Yes, 10mins

Sep 19, 2024 8:47:10 AM (Read by you after 6 hours, 42 minutes, 8 seconds) +18058900903

Hear any news from the business in Carbondale?

Sep 19, 2024 3:30:19 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hey Derick! I have not. However, I thought he had moved on when in fact he didnt and called. So if I dont hear by EOD today I’ll email him tonight so he has it when he opens it up tomorrow.

Sep 24, 2024 9:39:33 AM (Read by you after 1 minute, 12 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, I forgot to check in. Hope you heard good news from Colorado or elsewhere.

Sep 24, 2024 9:41:19 AM Me

Not yet. I reached out yesterday. Still waiting. I’ll let you know

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Sep 24, 2024 9:41:46 AM Me

Otherwise my steady stream of rejection continues

Sep 24, 2024 9:41:54 AM Me

Got one already

Oct 02, 2024 9:51:02 AM (Read by you after 17 minutes, 29 seconds) +18058900903

Got your response on LinkedIn. I thought article was intriguing. Are you heading to Colorado soon? You hear from job? Or are they tied together? I still think you need to leave Ventura County.

Oct 02, 2024 10:10:08 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

— My life should be the new MTV Real World 🤣🤣🤣 Its a combination of decisions, and then getting things in motion to then suddenly wonder why you’re spinning your wheels.

Oct 02, 2024 10:10:22 AM Me

Then repeat

Oct 02, 2024 10:21:09 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Colorado is the goal. But right now I don’t know my landing situation in CO. I’m trying to get answers but I’m unable to. Don’t want to simply take my show on the road. Its time to take down the tent’s for a bit — to borrow a circus analogy I have a small infusion of $$ tomorrow from storage insurance. Pipe bust and got rusty water on some of my stuff. Using $$ to make car pmts, car insurance, and storage payments to buy more runway for another month. Otherwise its hustle for $30 every day to stay watered, fed and charged up. Been that way for just about a year now—way of life/state of mind for sure. During this time I’ve learned alot about myself, people, society, culture, and humans as an animal. I’ve also learned much more but its yet to be revealed to me, that I know. — Like my instagram post the other day stated. “Living in the NOT knowing.” That’s where I live every present moment, in not knowing. Most people want certainty, security, stability, safety—hell I want it too—but my hand has forced me to accept being without those. I’ve had to first adjust, but then accept being—existing on a daily basis—without security, stability, certainty, and safety. — Then layer on the mental health issues aside from the logistics and operational parts of life of functioning. Haven’t had my own toilet or shower in over a year. I get access when it shows up for me, as an example. Anyhow, I could go on and on. I’ll leave it there for now.

Oct 02, 2024 10:24:24 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Simply say that it takes me 1/2 of every day to get beyond the mental to become productive and move myself forward on some front. I lack resources for proper care so its like ouroboros—snake eating its tail—Cant get resources until out of the loop, but cant get out of the loop without proper resources 😊

Oct 02, 2024 10:24:49 AM Me

Oct 02, 2024 4:31:04 PM (Read by you after 21 minutes, 10 seconds) +18058900903

I hear you man. Too bad about the pipe bursting but they should give you FREE storage too. I hope things didn’t get too ruined. Still, you have hit a nail on the head. You need certainty, security, stability and safety you say and I agree with you. It seems to me that Colorado (or New York) could provide that. You have to change your surroundings to one that provides some stability ( the shower and toilet as you say). I assuming that the Colorado job didn’t or hasn’t worked out. But is staying in Ventura County working out? What will another month do? I know I don’t have a full sense of what you are going through but I do know that you have to break out of the rut. Leaving Ventura County seems to be the easiest way to start. As I wrote before, a new place could give you new roads to explore. More importantly, it would take you away from your place of pain and sorrow. As that post I sent suggests being “hyper focused on the past, replaying the worst moments” is a cycle that keeps you from moving forward. You need to move forward. Staying in Ventura is just being mired in the bog and being lost in the fog. Sorry for my bluntness, but I feel lucky to have Trader Joe’s and I’m fairly certain that would not have happened had we stayed in Ventura County. I would not have been in a good place. Leaving might be hard but it seems necessary. As always, free to chat the next two days.

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Oct 05, 2024 8:50:58 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Things are moving and picking up speed. Spent yesterday at storage with Declan, headed there shortly to finish the downsizing from 10x5 to 5x5. Save’s me $80 a month I can feed myself for almost 10 days with $80 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Oct 05, 2024 8:52:26 AM Me

— My homie, Microwave Man with todays AWESOME message. Its like he’s speaking directly to me—YA HEARD?!?! ❤️

Oct 05, 2024 8:52:27 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Instagram

Oct 05, 2024 8:54:13 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

— I mean when and where did he think, YO Ima put a microwave on my head and drive down the street, do skids, and then be a hood prophet I mean, for realz????

Oct 05, 2024 8:54:37 AM Me

Hes got some good weed I’m sure hahahaha

Oct 05, 2024 8:54:50 AM Me

Love his content

Oct 05, 2024 8:55:20 AM Me

And in the thumbnails his eyes are always LOCKED looking right at ya

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Oct 07, 2024 11:28:28 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

hahaha —

Oct 07, 2024 1:33:30 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 24 seconds) +18058900903

Very funny. Any new news for you? Family in Colorado setting you up? Good that you are able to save money on storage. Have you thought about giving it up all together? Ship what you want to keep to your parents, brother or cousin. Might give you some more runway (and perhaps freedom to roam a bit).

Oct 07, 2024 1:36:56 PM Me

I’ve spent the past three days at the storage facility close to or over 30 hours The stuff I still have is painting since some furniture and then mostly Office stuff. Home office stuff and tools. I am shedding as much as I can psychologically deal with right now. I definitely have less shit than I did before which is progress in the right direction

Oct 07, 2024 1:37:30 PM Me

And I know I will be back in this area to get my stuff because I will likely come and visit Declan if he doesn’t go anywhere but I also think about flying the boys out to me once I can get myself settled

Oct 07, 2024 1:38:22 PM Me

I’m headed to storage right now to do the final packing of my car before I hit the road. So depending on how the variables play out today I may will determine how far I make it. I’ll keep you posted

Oct 07, 2024 1:40:17 PM Me

If I get on the road today Monday, I could be to Glenwood Springs by Wednesday night if I did nothing but drive and charge

Oct 07, 2024 1:40:44 PM Me

Just over 900 miles from here to Glenwood Springs on the Western slope

Oct 07, 2024 1:41:20 PM Me

I’d be on charge 10 or 11 out of 14 total to get there

Oct 07, 2024 1:44:35 PM +18058900903

More power to you. Vegas baby! This will be a good thing.

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Oct 07, 2024 1:44:35 PM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Oct 10, 2024 11:21:39 AM (Read by you after 7 seconds) +18058900903

Saw your car getting towed to dealer. Back on the road yet?

Oct 10, 2024 11:21:49 AM Me

Nope

Oct 10, 2024 11:22:18 AM Me

Its an odyssey

Oct 10, 2024 11:22:49 AM (Read by you after 1 minute, 43 seconds) +18058900903

Battery issue? We had that with our hybrid. Something about overheating.

Oct 10, 2024 11:25:02 AM Me

Mines an internal charging unit. $3k

Oct 10, 2024 11:25:12 AM Me

Nasty

Oct 10, 2024 11:26:10 AM Me

I have a plan getting me to CO but leaving car here until I figure out next step

Oct 10, 2024 11:26:55 AM ⇲ +18058900903

That’s good.

Oct 10, 2024 11:26:43 AM +18058900903

Ouch! As much as we liked our hybrid, Molly opted for a conventional car for that very reason. We were signing a deal away from getting a Tesla.

Oct 10, 2024 11:26:52 AM Me

Im in long term parking at airport. And renting car from here

Oct 10, 2024 11:26:55 AM ⇱ +18058900903

That’s good.
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Oct 10, 2024 11:27:09 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

Smart.

Oct 10, 2024 11:27:22 AM Me

6.5 hour drive from here

Oct 10, 2024 11:27:27 AM Me

Be there for late dinner

Oct 10, 2024 11:27:48 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

Are you leaving car in long term parking or st dealer?

Oct 10, 2024 11:28:09 AM ⇲ Me

Airport $7 a day

Oct 10, 2024 11:27:55 AM Me

Right now I just need to get there and get off the road because it’s starting to get to me

Oct 10, 2024 11:28:09 AM ⇱ Me

Airport $7 a day
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Oct 10, 2024 11:28:21 AM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

Not bad.

Oct 10, 2024 11:28:46 AM Me

I would think Ill be back asap. I have no car until its fixed

Oct 10, 2024 11:29:13 AM Me

May look at CO VW dealers for estimate fix

Oct 10, 2024 11:29:38 AM Me

Cost $517 rent uhaul truck and trailer here and tow it to CO

Oct 10, 2024 11:30:06 AM (Read by you after 2 seconds) +18058900903

Ouch again. Nonetheless you need a car.

Oct 10, 2024 11:30:15 AM Me

Yep

Oct 10, 2024 11:31:35 AM Me

Mostly just tired mentally and physically. Want to be done and sit still

Oct 10, 2024 11:31:52 AM +18058900903

I hear you.

Oct 10, 2024 11:31:56 AM Me

Good day of sleep and then tackle ahit

Oct 10, 2024 11:32:41 AM (Read by you after 42 minutes, 2 seconds) +18058900903

That works. Sleep always helps.

Oct 11, 2024 1:52:28 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 32 minutes, 31 seconds) +18058900903

You make it to Colorado?

Oct 11, 2024 4:25:02 PM Me

Yep

Oct 11, 2024 4:25:12 PM Me

Just got to grand junction

Oct 11, 2024 4:25:22 PM Me

Less than 2 hours left

Oct 13, 2024 7:46:50 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Chuck got Crampage 🤣

Oct 13, 2024 7:46:53 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

YouTube

Oct 13, 2024 4:02:19 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 2 minutes, 25 seconds) +18058900903

Ha!

Oct 13, 2024 5:39:40 PM (Read by you after 25 minutes, 4 seconds) +18058900903

I saw on instagram that made it to Colorado. Whew!

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Oct 17, 2024 4:49:09 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 56 seconds) +18058900903

Feeling settled? I assume you are at your cousin’s house. Must be nice. Car issue resolved. I was thinking that there might a dealer warranty on something so costly. True? In any case, I hope all is well.

Oct 17, 2024 4:55:10 PM ⇲ Me

| Im at my aunts house in mongmont
Edited 45 seconds later | Im at my aunts house in Longmont

Oct 17, 2024 4:49:12 PM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Oct 17, 2024 4:55:10 PM ⇱ Me

| Im at my aunts house in mongmont
Edited 45 seconds later | Im at my aunts house in Longmont

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Oct 17, 2024 4:56:08 PM Me

Been here 3 days.

Oct 17, 2024 4:57:40 PM Me

Its weird to sit still so long. Im used to not thinking beyond 24-48 hours. Like I said to my cousin Darrell it’s going to take me a little while to unwind from the homeless mind

Oct 17, 2024 4:58:52 PM Me

Also I get these weird urges to just pick up my shit and go. Where I’m going I don’t know but I just know that I need to move. It’s definitely part of the homeless mind

Oct 17, 2024 5:34:46 PM (Read by you after 17 hours, 20 minutes, 44 seconds) +18058900903

It must be weird. Did you get a better quote for your car?

Oct 18, 2024 10:56:10 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

it is weird for sure. Car. Not yet. I was able to get it to charge plugging into the wall. Interesting the dealer didnt tell me that in Utah. They should have known that.

Oct 18, 2024 10:56:21 AM Me

Anyhow interview in 4 mins. need to get connected

Oct 18, 2024 12:08:53 PM (Read by you after 1 day, 1 hour, 23 minutes, 21 seconds) +18058900903

Good for you. It may not need to be fixed. Get multiple quotes. Good luck in interview.

Oct 19, 2024 7:05:54 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

OMG.

Oct 19, 2024 7:05:55 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Instagram

Oct 19, 2024 8:50:03 PM (Read by you after 13 hours, 40 minutes) +18058900903

Legend!

Oct 20, 2024 1:14:29 PM Me

Instagram

Oct 20, 2024 1:14:45 PM Me

Tell me you don’t want that 🤣🤣🤣

Oct 20, 2024 7:58:51 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 21 minutes, 54 seconds) +18058900903

Buying tomorrow!

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Oct 20, 2024 10:21:22 PM Me

Be sweet over a pool table

Oct 21, 2024 7:03:28 PM Me

The kid in the background of this track and field clip is just too much. This popped up on YouTube on the shorts area

Oct 21, 2024 7:03:36 PM Me

YouTube

Oct 21, 2024 8:46:41 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

YouTube

Oct 22, 2024 5:53:00 PM (Read by you after 51 minutes, 57 seconds) +18058900903

Any news from Longmont? Feeling less stressed at least.

Oct 22, 2024 5:53:06 PM (Read by you after 51 minutes, 51 seconds) +18058900903

?

Oct 23, 2024 10:13:40 AM Me

not really. not what I had hoped. living in your car for a year just hasnt ‘turned off’ in my head. adjusting is harder than I thought Like I mentioned to my cousin its going to take me months to unravel the PTSD of living in the car on the streets.

Oct 23, 2024 10:33:11 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Dont know if you saw this, but damn its spot on:

Oct 23, 2024 10:33:12 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Harvard Business Review

Oct 23, 2024 2:07:42 PM (Read by you after 12 minutes, 15 seconds) +18058900903

Saw it. It’s great. Too bad about your stress level. Are you still job hunting or taking a break? I just left a message. I’m home tomorrow and Friday, if you are free.

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Oct 23, 2024 2:27:11 PM Me

Next time you go to Walmart watch out these guys might be around

Oct 23, 2024 2:27:17 PM Me

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Oct 23, 2024 2:27:36 PM Me

Got some running man in there 😂

Oct 23, 2024 7:44:47 PM Me

YouTube

Oct 24, 2024 10:08:32 PM Me

If I could time travel I’d like to go to this concert. When he steps to the mic OMG! And that GFOS suit is 🔥🔥

Oct 24, 2024 10:08:35 PM Me

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Oct 25, 2024 3:35:28 PM Me

Yanks vs Dodgers game 1 tonight you watching? I cant lose 🤣🤣🤣

Oct 25, 2024 3:46:54 PM (Read by you after 19 minutes, 49 seconds) +18058900903

Yes.

Oct 26, 2024 5:27:37 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

just saw this online… scary accurate, and funny but also sad.

Oct 26, 2024 5:27:39 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Nov 02, 2024 6:42:42 PM Me

Dood 👀👀👀

Nov 02, 2024 6:42:44 PM Me

YouTube

Nov 02, 2024 6:43:07 PM Me

No idea she lifted that

Nov 02, 2024 8:14:16 PM (Read by you after 26 minutes, 22 seconds) +18058900903

Interesting.

Nov 02, 2024 8:41:09 PM Me

Right?!? WTF was first thing came to mind 🤣🤣🤣

Nov 07, 2024 10:27:31 AM (Read by you after 9 hours, 2 minutes, 58 seconds) +18058900903

Hope all is well in these crazy times. How’s the job hunt? My classmate Bobby said that he got 6 inches of snow in Denver.

Nov 08, 2024 1:54:13 PM Me

Hi, snowing hard this am. More later today. Job hunt is fruitless. Even local. Same as CA Too much experience Not right experience Too old

Nov 08, 2024 1:57:48 PM Me

More isolated and alone here. Itll be a month next week At least in CA i could see declan or weston. Knew some ppl, like dart folks And could play in league. Could go to beach, had familiar places to chill I got nothing here, and zero motivation or desire. Besides i dont have $$$ so not like i could have a social life anyways Living in my aunts basement. Feels like i went backwards coming here. And now i sit here thru winter

Nov 08, 2024 2:05:05 PM (Read by you after 20 hours, 24 minutes, 28 seconds) +18058900903

Are you able to do Uber eats as you were in CA? Able to find a dart league in CO? Still, probably nice to have a roof over your head. Things will surely turn around. Keep plugging.

Nov 08, 2024 2:05:27 PM (Read by you after 20 hours, 24 minutes, 6 seconds) +18058900903

Do your cousins live nearby?

Nov 08, 2024 5:52:48 PM Me

Cousin is 3 hrs drive to other side of Rockies. No Uber No car insurance, no $$ to pay Haven’t looked for dart leagues. No money to join or play in open tournaments. Haven’t thrown since I left CA. Sux took me a year to get my throw back and losing it again. Anyhow least of problems. Car will likely get repossesed later this month or early Dec. Behind on storage payments. No health insurance so been cold turkey off depression meds for a week. Dizzy and nauseous now. Couldnt get meds renewed because no insurance. Other than that I cant concentrate on computer or any screens. Eyes and brain hurt too much from withdrawls. Havent been applying because too hard on eyes. Ok, i got more but ive already dumped enough. Apologies on the overload, for real Rainy and cold here. Another weekend goes by dancing in my head by myself. 🥳

Nov 08, 2024 6:12:18 PM Me

Wu Tang is for the childrens

Nov 08, 2024 6:12:21 PM Me

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Nov 09, 2024 4:33:39 AM (Read by you after 5 hours, 55 minutes, 54 seconds) +18058900903

Sorry to hear this dude. Can your parents help in any way? Wish we could do so. I did a quick search and Colorado has state public insurance. You can get mental heath stuff for free. I will send link when I get back to my laptop. Take a walk in the snow. You might find it therapeutic. Keep looking for local jobs in any capacity. Seeing other people will help. Xmas season is coming. Retail stores will be looking for help. Keep plugging.

Nov 09, 2024 10:33:36 AM Me

Tapped parents out. Have mental health appt but that moves glacially. Way too slow Walking and hiking feel pointless. Lost interest in things that used to distract me. Rather stare at the wall. And seeing other ppl and being out makes things worse. It sharpens focus on how much everything sucks Holidays are the worst time of year for me. Ive struggled in past years and things feel worse than ever so not looking forward to next 8 weeks

Nov 09, 2024 10:34:28 AM Me

Plus my meds are stuck in the snowstorm somewhere. Suposed to be here yesterday and now no ETA

Nov 10, 2024 8:24:45 PM (Read by you after 2 hours, 29 minutes) +18058900903

Again, I feel for you. Still, it is hard for me to fathom that your family will not help. Now that I think about it, it may be a cannot versus a will not ; nonetheless, I might impress upon them your feelings of abandonment and loneliness. In addition, take a job at Macys if offered. You need to get out and see others. You are a personable thoughtful guy. Use that to your advantage. Also use Zoom to talk with boys. I have found group chats to be so fun. Finally, things will get better. Believe.

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Nov 11, 2024 4:31:08 PM Me

Nov 11, 2024 8:44:23 PM (Read by you after 12 hours, 41 minutes, 8 seconds) +18058900903

Hah!

Nov 12, 2024 11:16:14 AM Me

Nov 12, 2024 8:16:30 PM (Read by you after 4 hours, 32 minutes, 44 seconds) +18058900903

Dad pun!

Nov 13, 2024 12:49:21 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

haha

Nov 13, 2024 12:49:25 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Nov 13, 2024 1:05:25 AM Me

This was fun to watch his reaction. Especially the EasyE comment.

Nov 13, 2024 1:05:28 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Nov 13, 2024 7:39:02 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 39 minutes, 23 seconds) +18058900903

So young.

Nov 14, 2024 5:37:10 PM ⇲ Me

Around our kids ages. How do you grow up and not hear that album?? Thats where im confused.

Nov 14, 2024 9:41:15 AM (Read by you after 7 hours, 55 minutes, 6 seconds) +18058900903

Things improving any? I am around today and tomorrow if you have time to chat.

Nov 14, 2024 5:38:34 PM ⇲ Me

I had a mental health assessment yesterday and now have a therapy seasion and a medication session first week of december.

Nov 14, 2024 5:37:10 PM ⇱ Me

Around our kids ages. How do you grow up and not hear that album?? Thats where im confused.
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Nov 14, 2024 5:38:34 PM ⇱ Me

I had a mental health assessment yesterday and now have a therapy seasion and a medication session first week of december.
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Nov 14, 2024 5:40:26 PM Me

It was 2’hrs and exhausting. Lots of QA and going deeper in certain areas like early childhood trauma. One of the questions made me remeber something specific I had forgotten about. Made the rest of the day very heavy.

Nov 15, 2024 6:22:23 PM (Read by you after 4 hours, 11 minutes, 38 seconds) ⇲ +18058900903

Well, perhaps this a step to feeling better. Sounds taxing AND productive.

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Nov 14, 2024 5:47:48 PM Me

Today met with NSA Group. Then into call with a woman new to our group. Helped her with some website setup questions then somehow my depression came up. Little did I know shes a DEVOUT catholic and shes very conservative. So I was reminded that Jesus dies for my sins. And that part of my depression is having bad thoughts, like self harm. I listened with open ears and heart. However she has no idea about divorce or living in my car added in top of this never ending search. Anyhow that was today. Havent had alcohol in weeks but a few hendricks martinis with muddled cucumber would certainly help my parched throat. What a couple of days

Nov 14, 2024 5:50:58 PM Me

I feel challenged from the religon talk today confronted feeling too, but “confronted by religion” is heavy and Im full up. Makes it feel extra heavy

Nov 15, 2024 9:45:06 AM Me

NPR One

Nov 15, 2024 9:45:06 AM Me

Four BBQ joints in Texas awarded coveted Michelin stars

Nov 15, 2024 9:45:49 AM (Read by you after 13 seconds) +18058900903

Yes. It’s a big deal here.

Nov 15, 2024 6:22:23 PM (Read by you after 4 hours, 11 minutes, 38 seconds) ⇱ +18058900903

Well, perhaps this a step to feeling better. Sounds taxing AND productive.

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Nov 15, 2024 10:35:48 PM Me

— OMG. I dont care HOW old Mike Tyson is or how big and strong you are, once you step in that ring…. You Dead. He’s the GOAT of gloves Tyson slaps him so quick he didnt have time to react.

Nov 15, 2024 10:35:49 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Nov 15, 2024 11:02:14 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

— This might be one of the best modern day quotations. Unsure of the source, but if correct — pure genius and pure 🔥 Its the difference of when we were kids to today. Mike is around our age so I get this. This is what happened in school. You talked shit you got a beat down -- "Social media made y'all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it." —Mike Tyson

Nov 15, 2024 11:02:31 PM Me

Word

Nov 16, 2024 6:30:04 PM (Read by you after 9 minutes, 58 seconds) +18058900903

Fight was so disappointing

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Nov 16, 2024 6:30:05 PM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Nov 18, 2024 6:46:11 PM (Read by you after 12 hours, 17 minutes, 1 second) +18058900903

How’s it going today? Feeling any better after religion talk? Got a couple of calls about jobs this week. Just info, but we shall see …

Nov 18, 2024 6:46:12 PM Me

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Nov 19, 2024 3:25:32 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Past two days have been somewhat ok. Mind in my way alot less. I was just saying to Darrell that its been 8 or 9 months where every day has had some sort of mental health issue to the level where it severly impacts my life so that I’m unable to get work or adult things done..

Nov 19, 2024 5:52:03 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

THis

Nov 19, 2024 5:52:14 PM Me

Need that on your lawn

Nov 20, 2024 9:16:43 AM (Read by you after 1 hour, 2 minutes, 56 seconds) +18058900903

So true.

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Nov 20, 2024 10:19:58 AM Me

| They’re for this children’s
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Nov 23, 2024 1:42:56 PM Me

New kendrick album dropped.

Nov 23, 2024 1:42:58 PM Me

Spotify

Nov 25, 2024 8:27:17 AM (Read by you after 2 days, 4 hours, 13 minutes, 43 seconds) +18058900903

Just checking in. How’s it going? Any job leads yet? Any more chats with therapist that have helped?

Nov 27, 2024 12:51:44 PM Me

Hi Derick, sorry for the late reply. On Monday I drove over the Rockies to beat a snowstorm which hit where I am at yesterday and today is hitting where I was on Monday. I’m on the western slope at my cousin Darrell‘s house for Thanksgiving. There have been some good opportunities show up, but I can’t seem to get anyone’s attention to get an interview. The search for a regular job goes on as well I don’t know why I am so toxic to the business world but that’s what it feels like. Depression still strong. Zero social life in over a month. No money i cant go out anywhere. So I stay a hermit and simply watch the world go by, and on without me. Overall I feel FAR more isolated here. I literally dont know anyone other than 6 people in this entire state, and they are all related. So big picture the tradeoff of a roof vs seeing Declan, weston, and dart friends doesnt seem equal. I feel like I’ve gone backwards not forward Wish I had a better story to tell but I am honest with people, and I always have been to the marrow in my bones. I have absolutely nothing to hide or to keep secret.

Nov 28, 2024 10:37:55 AM (Read by you after 2 hours, 18 minutes, 17 seconds) +18058900903

No worries. Glad you get to see your cousin. Did you drive with your aunt? She must have enjoyed riding with someone. Keep up the search for the job. Something will turn up. Dam has to break. I am sure a Democrat website will need an upgrade (hah!). As to the loneliness, a local job would help as well as just finding a group to volunteer with. It’s tough but people do it all the time. Become a busboy got a bit. Finally, in my opinion, a roof over your head is objectively better than living in your car. As I was researching for the job at the homeless shelter I did not get, all of the data says being “outside” breaks everyone. You can FT the boys. It might brighten their days. Research also says sleeping without fear helps a ton. It may not feel like it now but you are doing the right thing.

Nov 28, 2024 12:58:35 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Thanks Derick! I drive back over tomorrow morning and hoping something changes. Happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍁

Dec 03, 2024 5:37:52 PM Me

The dude is scratching his flow

Dec 03, 2024 5:37:55 PM Me

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Dec 03, 2024 6:04:32 PM (Read by you after 3 days, 22 hours, 37 minutes, 9 seconds) +18058900903

That’s amazing.

Dec 03, 2024 6:37:25 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

right.

Dec 03, 2024 6:37:40 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

a bit nuts.

Dec 04, 2024 8:58:40 PM Me

This was so cool to have show up in my feed!! These men can bring it, give it a min and they get in total sync and WOW

Dec 04, 2024 8:58:41 PM Me

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Dec 09, 2024 7:47:39 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

haha

Dec 09, 2024 7:47:40 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Dec 09, 2024 7:52:51 PM Me

just saw this. who is she?? WOW!!

Dec 09, 2024 8:29:31 PM (Read by you after 25 seconds) ⇲ +18058900903

I have no idea.

Dec 09, 2024 7:52:53 PM Me

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Dec 09, 2024 8:07:09 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

love this:

Dec 09, 2024 8:07:11 PM Me

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Dec 09, 2024 8:21:47 PM (Read by you after 8 minutes, 9 seconds) +18058900903

Great stuff.

Dec 09, 2024 8:29:31 PM (Read by you after 25 seconds) ⇱ +18058900903

I have no idea.
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Dec 10, 2024 9:23:33 AM Me

Good story

Dec 10, 2024 9:23:33 AM Me

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Dec 10, 2024 3:40:02 PM Me

OMG This!! Some random dude dropping serious bars!!

Dec 10, 2024 3:40:52 PM Me

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Dec 10, 2024 3:40:52 PM Me

So nuts. NYC has it awwwlllll, yes yes y’all we don’t stop!! 🤣🤣

Dec 11, 2024 10:39:12 AM Me

This is quite a song

Dec 11, 2024 10:39:12 AM Me

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Dec 18, 2024 6:00:40 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Hope all is well. What you think the odds of this happpening are??

Dec 18, 2024 6:00:42 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Planning, Building & Construction Today

Dec 18, 2024 6:35:35 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 9 minutes, 37 seconds) ⇲ +18058900903

Amazing!

Dec 18, 2024 6:30:50 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

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Dec 18, 2024 6:35:35 PM (Read by you after 1 hour, 9 minutes, 37 seconds) ⇱ +18058900903

Amazing!
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Dec 20, 2024 2:53:57 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Hi Derick,

Dec 20, 2024 2:54:09 PM Me

Its officially online now.

Dec 20, 2024 2:54:10 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Bert.ForSale

Dec 20, 2024 3:23:37 PM (Read by you after 3 hours, 50 minutes, 39 seconds) +18058900903

Wow. Good work. This must have been powerful to work on.

Dec 21, 2024 5:28:27 PM Me

Check out the pitch in Madrid. They have a grow room under the field:

Dec 21, 2024 5:28:28 PM Me

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Dec 21, 2024 5:28:51 PM Me

Crazy engineering and so cool

Dec 21, 2024 5:34:29 PM (Read by you after 10 seconds) +18058900903

That’s amazing. I wonder who designed it and how much it cost. Also, do any stadiums In The US have similar engineering

Dec 21, 2024 9:11:49 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I dont think any do.

Dec 21, 2024 9:11:57 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

BTW, this… hahahaha

Dec 24, 2024 9:17:04 AM Me

I’ll take this opportunity to wish you Molly and the girls a Merry Christmas! 🎄 Enjoy Homey Claus! 🤣🤣🤣

Dec 24, 2024 9:17:05 AM Me

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Dec 24, 2024 12:16:22 PM (Read by you after 23 minutes, 54 seconds) +18058900903

Thanks. Same to you

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Dec 31, 2024 7:53:03 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

This never get old for me. This is a new one 😊 ￼

Dec 31, 2024 8:14:56 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 30 seconds) +18058900903

Merry New Year to you too!

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Dec 31, 2024 8:36:53 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

my brother just sent me this… jesus h.

Dec 31, 2024 8:36:55 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Jan 01, 2025 1:43:23 PM (Read by you after 8 hours, 21 minutes, 44 seconds) +18058900903

Happy New Year! Are you getting some buzz on your website/art work? Molly and Jordan are in New Orleans, but were nowhere near attack. They said all seems calm today.

Jan 01, 2025 10:07:18 PM Me

Happy New Year!! Glad to hear they’re ok. What a nightmare. Not quite yet. Getting social media advertising ready to push out and see what happens. Also, will start pushing YouTube Videos out on a channel

Jan 06, 2025 2:21:13 PM (Read by you after 4 seconds) +18058900903

Just checking in. Any new job news? I actually got a call from an educational placement firm. They have remote positions.

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Jan 06, 2025 2:21:57 PM +18058900903

I hope you are doing well. Dallas just dropped to under 30 degrees today.

Jan 09, 2025 3:44:44 PM Me

| Hey Derick, just got released from psychiatric hospital after a 3 day stay. Been in a dark place since I arrived here. Have no friends or resources to get out or go out. So the isolated existence I have in Colorado is a harder experience to get on my feet. Honestly feel too tired to “rebuild,” and likely be alone the rest of
Edited 57 seconds later | Hey Derick, just got released from psychiatric hospital after a 3 day stay. Been in a dark place since I arrived here. Have no friends or resources to get out or go out. So the isolated existence I have in Colorado is a harder experience to get on my feet. Honestly feel too tired to “rebuild,” and likely be alone out here until, or IF, my situation changes.

Jan 09, 2025 3:46:49 PM Me

at least I did qualify for medicaid

Jan 09, 2025 3:54:47 PM (Read by you after 7 minutes) +18058900903

Did your stay help move you in a different direction? Did they provide you with resources other than Medicaid (though great that you got that)? Still, good that you sought help and it was available. As for Colorado, is it possible that NY might better? I mean your family probably has connections that can lead to an interim job.

Jan 09, 2025 4:07:00 PM Me

Dont feel stable enuf for NY. Its a triggering experience on every visit, sadly. And winter is the worst time for me to be there because it gets dark at 3:30 and ur stuck inside 24/7 because the temp. And the area simply depresses me when Im there. It would be great if that was not the case, but Ive been there enuf since leaving campus to know it’s not the best place for me.

Jan 09, 2025 4:21:26 PM (Read by you after 12 minutes, 50 seconds) +18058900903

Well, it seems Colorado is it. Did your hospital stint help you begin to be more comfortable being there? Is your art website ( and art) helping? What did you learn in the hospital that may be helpful? In any case, I hope you are feeling better and seeing the world in a better and different light.

Jan 09, 2025 4:42:11 PM Me

I definitely have a shifted perspective. #1 being the stigma around a mental hospital. The fellow patients there with me were from every generation, race, economic status,etc. This shit doesn’t care who u are just like cancer. I did learn alot and Im going to do blog posts and some YT videos about it. Id like to try and encourage others like me that have that stigma to consider that its all made up by sharing my real experience as someone who took more than a year to finally be committed to walking in the door and getting the kindest and smartest care for the crap ur dealing with. Told the room full of doctors who evaluate u for release this morning about how I had that stigma, and my experience there was incredible. Completely not what I thought. And all doctors, nurses and staff genuine care about helping u, and simply acknowledge u when u share about ur depression.

Jan 09, 2025 4:43:01 PM Me

And that I would spread the good word about my experience and help remove stigma

Jan 09, 2025 4:52:18 PM (Read by you after 18 hours, 6 minutes, 13 seconds) +18058900903

That would be great. Sounds like you learned something about yourself.

Jan 10, 2025 11:06:21 AM Me

Think I’m learning that I’m not as well as I think I am. This morning is weird not to wake up there. Once u feel the caring inside that place I’m finding it strange not to feel that this morning. I think it’s the non-existence of any form of judgement. Their compassion and empathy were always “on” with every patient no matter their level of severity. A few ppl there talked either SO slowwwww, or so soft it took concerted concentration to stick with them to completely get their thoughts out. It was remarkable to take part. Imagine as the day goes on and into tomorrow I’ll adjust. Its such a contrast.

Jan 10, 2025 11:07:07 AM Me

Still on the “off ramp”

Jan 10, 2025 11:32:00 AM (Read by you after 23 minutes, 42 seconds) +18058900903

Do they have follow up care or outpatient treatment? It would be great to continue on this path of healing. Still, it good to know that you need know more about how you interact with the world.

Jan 10, 2025 11:56:28 AM Me

Yes. They dont let u leave the facility without a plan for continuity of care. Have my first appt next week

Jan 10, 2025 11:57:46 AM Me

With docs here in Longmont who Ive met already when I arrived here.

Jan 10, 2025 12:29:16 PM (Read by you after 10 hours, 28 minutes, 5 seconds) +18058900903

Great

Jan 10, 2025 11:00:11 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

BTW, forgot to ask you about your reaction to the LA fires? I know a close friend I worked with at Art+Logic, Carlos Perez, who lives in Pasadena and lost EVERYTHING in the Eaton fire. Only ash and his chimney left. He was interviewed by CBA LA below

Jan 10, 2025 11:00:13 PM Me

https://www.cbsnews.com/losangeles/video/homeowner-returns-to-home-destroyed-in-eaton-fire/

Jan 10, 2025 11:01:11 PM Me

and he posted a video driving thru his naieghborhood on the way to find out what happened to his house. You can hear his and his son’s reaction. Its so heartbreaking:

Jan 10, 2025 11:01:12 PM Me

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Jan 10, 2025 11:02:07 PM Me

so apocalyptic. so much devastation and its not over yet.

Jan 10, 2025 11:02:15 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

😢

Jan 11, 2025 5:09:26 PM (Read by you after 10 minutes, 9 seconds) +18058900903

Yes it is rough At least 3 of my Thacher classmates lost their current homes and many others lost their childhood home. Lorne is one of them.

Jan 11, 2025 5:20:01 PM Me

Oh man so sorry to hear that. Lorne ok?

Jan 11, 2025 5:25:31 PM (Read by you after 5 seconds) +18058900903

I mean devastated but taking it one step at a time.

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Jan 17, 2025 9:09:18 PM Me

Brake Check! This guy it too much!! 🤣

Jan 17, 2025 9:09:20 PM Me

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Jan 17, 2025 9:10:06 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

Ack - a - hall !!

Jan 17, 2025 9:10:35 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

I could watch him say “You Bitch!” all day long hahahaha

Jan 18, 2025 9:44:36 AM (Read by you after 15 minutes, 41 seconds) +18058900903

Very funny.

Jan 18, 2025 3:27:39 PM Me

This is for real. And u see $Trump meme coin BS? There is going to be more blood in the streets the farther we get into his administartion. Mangione was just the start methinks

Jan 18, 2025 3:34:33 PM Me

Jan 18, 2025 4:10:09 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 20 seconds) +18058900903

Yep.

Jan 19, 2025 12:42:35 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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Jan 21, 2025 9:42:51 AM Me

Derick. Did I hear/read this right this morning???? He let out everyone out from J6. Even the most violent. And the leaders of oathkeepers and proud boy’s. Its only day one of his term. “Stand down and stand by” Am I right? 😡 Wtf?!? 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

Jan 21, 2025 9:44:48 AM Me

Total madness. His goon army are out on the streets again. Next time they visit DC they’ll be packing, and know which ways to turn.

Jan 21, 2025 12:51:21 PM (Read by you after 6 minutes, 7 seconds) +18058900903

Yes it is. It may time to think about arming oneself.

Jan 21, 2025 2:23:37 PM Me

Like for realz. I hear you. My cousins husband has a few so he’s jumped thru the hoops. All I need to know: Lock/unlock Turn it off/on Loaded or not? Load’em up I got the rest. Ive shot 3 diff kinds handguns And one type of rifle that gave me a hell of a bruise on the front shoulder I had no idea how much it was gonna kick. 🤣

Jan 22, 2025 9:34:13 AM (Read by you after 1 hour, 50 minutes, 55 seconds) +18058900903

Hey, just checking in. You seemed to be moving in better (different?) direction after your hospital stay. How are you doing? Amy tractipn on jobs? We are doing well. Cold as heck in Dallas this week.

Jan 23, 2025 5:06:30 PM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

Jan 23, 2025 5:06:37 PM Me

more soon 😊

Jan 26, 2025 9:59:07 PM Me

Had to share this. Too good

Jan 26, 2025 9:59:08 PM Me

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Jan 26, 2025 9:59:09 PM (Read by you after 1 second) +18058900903

I’m driving with Focus turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.

Jan 26, 2025 10:00:31 PM Me

One reason to love AI. New kinds of mashups.

Jan 26, 2025 10:00:37 PM Me

🤣

Jan 27, 2025 8:59:15 AM (Read by you after 2 hours, 58 minutes, 6 seconds) +18058900903

Very funny.

Jan 30, 2025 1:06:11 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

this should help

Jan 30, 2025 1:06:12 AM (Read by them after 2 seconds) Me

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Jan 30, 2025 2:52:21 PM (Read by you after 1 minute, 17 seconds) +18058900903

Are you putting this on the website?

Jan 30, 2025 2:53:58 PM Me

Yep. Getting things out the door today.

Jan 30, 2025 2:56:07 PM (Read by you after 5 minutes, 14 seconds) +18058900903

Any job news? I have a second interview with a non-profit tomorrow, though I worry because it has government funding and the orange Cheeto is killing everything.

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Jan 31, 2025 11:27:19 AM Me

Orange Cheeto 🤣🤣🤣 Good luck today!!! Thinking of you and sending good mojo your way ! No news on my job front. More rejection. However, I’ve noticed far more jobs on offer. The number is increasing since the beginning of the year so that is a good sign In the meantime I’m continuing work on my website projects which will begin to pick up steam now. I’m having AI help me figure out a schedule/calendar for the week so that I can keep moving forward on all of my fronts. I consistently have this nagging feeling I’m forgetting something

Feb 01, 2025 1:51:27 AM (Read by them after 1 second) Me

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damn.